Fucking Moron.

[GaySage]

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[Stella_Omega]

Damn. Of course with his back to you-- wasn't that a tempting target for your boot?

 

[NHPictureguy]

I agree. Granted he said he wanted to move on but at least he could have said hello. Awkward as it may have been for him. At least now you know (or confirmed) his lack of character.

 

[Shywong]

You would think after 7 years of fucking me in the ass he would at least say hello when he sees me.

That was hot and funny at the same time.

 

[texharley]

I agree he could have at least said hi.

 

[emap]

Just tossing this one out there, probably not true but perhaps, just perhaps, he is missing you and set on his course so did not want to be near to you to avoid falling into your bed/back into your place.

Like I said probably not true but I've seen gal friends of mine do the same thing, guys did it to me though I usually ended us by sleeping with a friend so probably best they didn't want to speak with me.

 

[thevehementduck]

It's amazing how much people can change and how easily they'll forget the past. I think you should just move on. Find someone better than him next time.

 

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[none2_none2]

Would you rather that he break up over a long drawn out and painful period of self-torment and lengthening silences in the house?

Fast and final is best in my opinion. It hurts for less time than dragging it out for months.

Just my opinion.

I agree with you. If I saw one particular ex, I would turn my back on him in a split second. (Note, he broke up with me -- not the other way around.) While it was years ago, it was very painful. Back then I thought "he was the ONE". Then two years later he said he had never been in love -- only fond. At first I was in denial and tried to save it, but once I realized that the two years were a lie, I wanted to be left alone. He kept pushing for this "friendship'. It was SO painful. It was like building a house together, and then having it dismantled brick by brick. It would have been better to bulldoze the house in one move. Sure it causes shock, but it is over and done with instead of months.

I'll never understand this bit about being friends with someone who wants out. Why would you want to hang around someone who doesn't really want to hang around you? I think a lot of times it is something the person who breaks off the relationship wants -- out of guilt more than actually wanting to be friends. Think of it as a way for the person who broke the relationship to think that they didn't really hit you below the belt.

One thing I never understood is this concept of total forgiveness. I told myself for years that I forgave him, but I don't think forgiveness really works that way. Forgiveness also takes a certain level of forgetfulness. If you cannot forget the circumstances, then those memories naturally will bring up the feelings associated with those times. My problem is my memory is just too good for my own good. That is why to me the closest think to a true forgiveness, is to distance yourself completely from anything associated with that person and events. It may sound cruel, but it is best for all. I'm very happy with my guy now. He may not say things as passionately worded as this particular ex, but it is a genuine comment. It is more important to have someone truly love you than to have someone who says and acts the part wonderfully, but doesn't really mean it.

 

[bobamabush]

easy to say but

You need to let it and him GO. Besides he may come back one day and THEN you can say 'get the hell out!'

Good Luck to you.

 

[mac_crazy]

You need to let it and him GO. Besides he may come back one day and THEN you can say 'get the hell out!'

Good Luck to you.

Or you can let him fuck you in the ass first, if he was a good fuck... THEN say "Get the hell out!"

 

[GaySage]

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