What do you prefer? doms or dommes?

[SluttyxPrincess]

i personally prefer Having a Dom. I have a bit of a Daddy fetish and I like to be used and taken care of by males opposed to females. That's just me.

 

[BiBunny]

One of each.

 

[sb2009]

either will do...as long as they spank me ;-)

 

[intothewoods]

From a pure D/s perspective, either. I'm generally sexually attracted to men, but I've met quite a few dommes that have, ummm, made my inner submissive perk up and take notice? I don't know how to phrase it. I don't really have the ooh I'd like to fuck her feeling like I do with a man. It's different, but there is definitely a desire to please/submit/serve/whatever there.

 

[subish2009]

From a pure D/s perspective, either. I'm generally sexually attracted to men, but I've met quite a few dommes that have, ummm, made my inner submissive perk up and take notice? I don't know how to phrase it. I don't really have the ooh I'd like to fuck her feeling like I do with a man. It's different, but there is definitely a desire to please/submit/serve/whatever there.

I've often wondered what reaction I would have to a domme if I met one in R/L and if she paid any attention to me. I've experimented with other straight/curious women in the past and got absolutely nothing out of it except the confirmation that I'm definitely straight. But I don't know...a dominant female...well, I'd never say never.

 

[sb2009]

my one relationship I had with a women was a really strong woman who totally dominated me, before I knew about kinky sex. I think it was her attitute that got me. From when we first met she was very much "you are mine" with me, and the fact that I had never been with a woman didn't matter. It was pretty intense.

 

[Netzach]

Generally, Doms for friendship, Dommes for sexual intrigue and who's on top flirtation.

 

[intothewoods]

I've often wondered what reaction I would have to a domme if I met one in R/L and if she paid any attention to me. I've experimented with other straight/curious women in the past and got absolutely nothing out of it except the confirmation that I'm definitely straight. But I don't know...a dominant female...well, I'd never say never.

It's all about the connection. They've all been different too. There is a mean sadistic leather mommy that I get along with well. I totally dig the leather mommy thing! And then I've played with an uber femme a few times, and she is more about discipline. Then there is this one Domme whom I've barely met - she's married to a bottomy switch that I've played with - and she seems so kick ass that I'm afraid to approach her.

Sighhhhh.

 

[intothewoods]

Generally, Doms for friendship, Dommes for sexual intrigue and who's on top flirtation.

Hot!!!

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I just have to be different. I prefer femsubs - or fem masochists. But then, I'm a sadist with dominant tendencies. :blink:

 

[CutieMouse]

Doms (occasionally Sadists), but I always make an exception for Netz.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

I prefer Dommes -- particularly sadistically creative ones ...

 

[Curious_Red]

I'd play with either, but haven't pulled that off yet.

 

[temp256]

Domme. Because I love lesbians.

 

[minx1]

Doms for me

 

[YourCaptor]

Doms for me

what if she had a penis?

 

[minx1]

what if she had a penis?

*laugh*

Unfortunately for me YC, she would still be a she.