Strap-on experiences

[shrek100]

Well I am not mixing the opertunity. I must say I am really nervous but so turned on by the thought of the weekend fun. Being a coward I am going to start small. and have just ordered this

http://www.vivavibrators.co.uk/buy-strap-ons/the-beginners-strap-on.html

Any one any experiance with it let me know.

Wish me luck

 

[MissIntrigue]

Good morning Miss Intrigue....hope all is well with you today

Its amazing the itch I get in my ass when ever I see you.

CF

Is that so....? <grinning> Well, I should thank you for the compliment then...

I hope all is well with you too sexy..

 

[tmock]

I'd submit to a strap-on with a female in central N.C.

 

[shrek100]

Hey shrek may be this can help you : http://vibrater.blogspot.com/2009/08/heterosexual-mens-take-on-men-wearing.html

Thanks for that, but I am not going to be wearing the strap on. It should arrive today.... GULP

 

[realityischoice]

My girl and I live quite a distance apart, which kinda sucks in that I dont see her as often as I would like, but is nice because when I do see her, the results are nothing short of explosive I wrote on here before that we recently had our first strapon fun and are looking forward to exploring more...much much more.

We tease each other every night, about many hot subjects. One thing we both agree on is that we want to get a bigger dildo for me...and neither of us can wait to try it-she said she wants me on my belly with a pillow under my hips so she can straddle my body, hooking her feet on the inside of my thighs-effectively make it impossible to escape (yeah, right, like I would want to run!) while she makes me take it all for a good hard fucking!

Another idea getting us hot is adding a Bi/curious female playmate to our sexathons. My girl is bisexual and gets really hot thinking about being with me and another woman...she is looking forward to riding our new playmate's strapon while I take her ass! ;-)

Any ideas on where to find a willing lady, anyone?

 

[shrek100]

well its arrived, I have a look at it and I glad I got the Beginner one as i think any bigger would scare the hell out of me.

Here is looking forward to tomorrow night when the kids are away, any ideas in the best way to go about it? Shower, Glass or two of wine, kissing etc, should I make love to her first or her to me?

Should be interesting

 

[uptoplay2]

just suggestion...

well its arrived, I have a look at it and I glad I got the Beginner one as i think any bigger would scare the hell out of me.

Here is looking forward to tomorrow night when the kids are away, any ideas in the best way to go about it? Shower, Glass or two of wine, kissing etc, should I make love to her first or her to me?

Should be interesting

clean yourself... within... if you can do an enema... you don't want to turn her off ...

you can have lots of fun with her first..... but don't cum.... let her try to make you cum... or... just see if she can get her stroking good for herself and see if that works to milk you....

you'll have plenty of interest in making love to her afterwards, and she might need that reassurance that you love her and "normal" sex with her.

 

[yogi4tsplay]

Anal Play for men

I enjoy anal play immensely. I have had the fortune of having a string of girlfriends who have participated in rimming and finger play. My last gf eventually started using toys on me. She usually just rocked back and forth, but I liked it better when she pounded me. My favorite was when we watched a porn movie and she took me doggie like on the screen. I was face down and ass up while she pounded me well, long stroking me and dropping all of her weight into my hips. It felt AWESOME to reverse rolls like that and give myself up to her. As I recall I shot the hugest load on her face which we shared, but that is another kink.

 

[BustyBabeMA31]

Strap-on

I have to say that I do enjoy wearing the strap-on with my subs. It feels sexy and hot to stroke it and have sluts lick, suck, stroke and fuck it for me. It just is a really nice twist to a role play scenario whether it's used or just worn in play.

If you are curious about it try it!!

 

[Ladybugsjoy]

I haven't done anything but some kissing with a girl 6 years ago and I would love to try more. It would be fun to find someone who would be willing to be patient enough to try a strap-on on me to teach me so I could then do them. I have a dominant personality but love being forced to be submissive in bed. My soon to be ex husband I think I could have been convinced to allow me to use a strap on with him but I didn't want to force him. I would love the experience of doing it to a guy though.

 

[KinkyMichigan]

I haven't done anything but some kissing with a girl 6 years ago and I would love to try more. It would be fun to find someone who would be willing to be patient enough to try a strap-on on me to teach me so I could then do them. I have a dominant personality but love being forced to be submissive in bed. My soon to be ex husband I think I could have been convinced to allow me to use a strap on with him but I didn't want to force him. I would love the experience of doing it to a guy though.

I would love for you to take a strap-on to me. Though it would require a lot of patience like you mentioned. I am very tight still, only having taken a finger or two...and a tongue. But I would love for a woman to train my ass to take something much bigger...

 

[billc393]

Has anyone on this thread been fucked in the ass by a stiletto heel? I've never experienced it and wonder if it would be too difficult or painful, but it seems like such a sexy and submissive act!

Not with the heel itself, but with a dildo that the heel had been inserted into.

The steel edges of the bottom of the heel can cause real damage to your ass!

 

[smooth-boy]

I haven't had the strap on in a while, and I've been craving it pretty bad lately. It was great when I had it, but it was just some regular fucking. The girl had fun, but she wasn't interested in it as much as I was. I've been really interested in exploring a D/s situation now.

 

[dedic8ted2u2]

Not with the heel itself, but with a dildo that the heel had been inserted into.

The steel edges of the bottom of the heel can cause real damage to your ass!

Wow, that sounds pretty awesome! I realize the heel itself could cause damage so that sounds like a great answer. thanks for sharing!

 

[Zotted]

A long time ago...

...I was in a relationship that tried just about everything, including her using a strap on on me.

She enjoyed anal sex so much that I decided I should know what it felt like as well. We went to our favorite local toy store, and found a strap on double dildo with a realistic cock about my size. The other end of the toy is offset by about two or so inches, and has a smaller insert-able portion for her, as well as a raised nubby area to stimulate her clit.

The first time we used it, we started off with me on my back, so that she could see my face. I put my legs up over her shoulders as she lubed my asshole and the silicone cock that we had strapped to her. I was rock hard as she teased my opening. She started playing with my cock as she kept the head of the dildo pressed firmly against my ass. Then she grasped my erection, but held her hand still, so that the only way I could get stimulation on my cock was to raise up my hips, which would force the dildo farther into my ass. Painful at first, but as I'm a self-described sensation slut, I was really getting into it, especially when she would squeeze and pinch my nipples as I forced more of her fake cock into me. Once I had taken it all, and had gotten used to the size, she started fucking me for real while stroking my cock with one hand, and pinching and twisting my nipples with the other.

The completely filled feeling, and the sensation of *being fucked* is incredible, something I had never come close to experiencing before. I don't think I've ever shot off as hard in my life as I did that time. The visual stimulation of seeing a gorgeous creature doing me like that was a huge part of the experience.

Having the strap on used on me from behind was a different, although still great, experience. I was usually the dominant one sexually in that relationship, and the submissive, vulnerable feelings I got when taken from behind were surprisingly enjoyable to me; and revealed to me a new aspect about my sexuality. We started playing a lot more 'power struggle' sexual games after that, and I started describing my self as a 'switch' for the first time. I think that it also made me a better lover (especially when it comes to 'pitching' during anal sex), as I believe I have a *little* more insight into how women sometimes feel during the act.

We had lots of experiences with that particular toy. I still have one unfulfilled strap on fantasy though - I want to have one used on me by one woman, while I'm fucking a different woman. I think at that point I might be able to die happy.

 

[sub_rapport]

I've always had a sordid fantasy, but have never gotten to fulfill it (apparently Dominant Women in Colorado must all be hiding somewhere).

I always wanted to role play a scenario with a lover that involves myself being drugged at a casino, then being dragged to her hotel room where I would be promptly and professionally tied to her couch with a long tether, which would, subsequently, be strung through the leather cuffs adorning my wrists and ankles.

Taut and resistant to struggle, this tether would hold me in place firmly as she doused my puckered asshole with icy lube and slipped her feeldoe past my fleshy defenses.

The pounding sensation drives me wild when I think about it. That and the psychological factor of losing control and feeling the intermingle of pleasure and pain.

 

[mslv4Her]

I have to say that I do enjoy wearing the strap-on with my subs. It feels sexy and hot to stroke it and have sluts lick, suck, stroke and fuck it for me. It just is a really nice twist to a role play scenario whether it's used or just worn in play.

If you are curious about it try it!!

I'm betting I'd enjoy you trying it on me.

 

[PolyLvr]

Well I am not mixing the opertunity. I must say I am really nervous but so turned on by the thought of the weekend fun. Being a coward I am going to start small. and have just ordered this

http://www.vivavibrators.co.uk/buy-strap-ons/the-beginners-strap-on.html

Any one any experiance with it let me know.

Wish me luck

I've tried jelly toys. For some reason they sting. If you want to use one, make sure you use a condom.
silicon causes no reaction for us, so we just use it and clean it when we're done.

 

[AlecBond]

I've tried jelly toys. For some reason they sting. If you want to use one, make sure you use a condom.
silicon causes no reaction for us, so we just use it and clean it when we're done.

It's a common/known problem with cheaper jelly toys - they use phthalates to soften the rubber. Many people have a stinging sensation from these, and any good-quality toys will have a notice that they are phthalate-free (if they are rubber) or notes that they are silicon, etc. You can also tell from the scent of a toy if it has phthalates (most of the time). They're also more likely in the more see-through toys than in darker ones.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

It's a common/known problem with cheaper jelly toys - they use phthalates to soften the rubber. Many people have a stinging sensation from these, and any good-quality toys will have a notice that they are phthalate-free (if they are rubber) or notes that they are silicon, etc. You can also tell from the scent of a toy if it has phthalates (most of the time). They're also more likely in the more see-through toys than in darker ones.

Ahh I didnt know that!! a million things slide into place

 

[TC1017]

Dildo's

My ex-girlfriend use to use them on herself first and then she would use them on me. It was kind of hot knowing her juices were in my ass. They kind of hurt at first but then I got used them.

 

[shrek100]

1st TRY
well last night, we went out for a meal and got a few drinks down. We returned home in a cab and started to get a little frisky.

We went up to our bedroom and the wife tied my hands and blind folded me. I was laying there almost knowing what was going to come. .... My wife left the room and then returned with what turned out to be ice cubes, and started to give me a great blow job - I was slightly disipointed as I was hoping to use our new toy. She then stoped and started to rub her finger around my arse........ she then stoped again, I then felt the lube on my arse and a finger working its way in, then two, then My cock back in her mouth. Her fingers where rubbing my prostate as she sucked my cock before she stopped again.

The next thing I felt was a cold hard feeling against my arse, at the same time she lightly rubed my cock with her hand and she worked her way into me. I had to ask her to stop for a few minutes so my ass could get used to the sensation, which she did then she pounded away and I must say it was good, but not as good as I thought it may have been. her fingers feel better, saying that I will be trying again

To finish she took the strap on off and put it back in my ass whilst she rode my cock until I came inside her before making me lick her clean. A good night.

We have spoke about it and she thinks that that the strap on is not big enough to hit "the spot" I have suggested we get used to the one we have first, but she might supprise me for christmas! 7

sorry about spelling

 

[tiez]

1st TRY


We have spoke about it and she thinks that that the strap on is not big enough to hit "the spot" I have suggested we get used to the one we have first, but she might supprise me for christmas! 7

Sounds like one of the best plans going. A great idea.

Congrats on the fun and thanks so much for sharing your story!

 

[cryingalien]

I posted this on another part of lit, but I am looking for someone to help teach me how to pleasure my ass. Nobody at home willing to do it one-on-one so i thought I would search out possible help on lit.

 

[OwnedByDuece]

Sucking on it would be about as far as I would go with this. Perhaps, if I was still having relationships with women. As far as using it with my man, no thanks!