When did you realize you were in something 'different'

[sb2009]

I was thinking about this today. I think i can pin it down to one time when (future) husband and I were messing around and I ran into the bathroom to hide. Shortly after, the door came off the hinges and he was standing there, drill in hand, and said
"just who the fuck do you think you are dealing with?"

he took the fucking door off the hinges!!!!!! I knew I was in BIG TROUBLE/WHERE I WANTED TO BE right then.....

 

[Redhead_378]

Oh, I love that anecdote!

I realized something was different when he, while kissing me, grabbed my hair at the back of my skull and pulled-- rendering me nearly senseless with desire. I think he realized it when I ended up kneeling on the floor in front of him.

 

[sb2009]

yes...god....hair pulling...

 

[StrayKat]

Very sexy story, sb.
I love that kind of men. My problem is I tend to be like that too, so I dont think it would work on long run.

 

[sb2009]

stray Kat...I like you. you want to visit? LOL I need a bit more domination...

hope I didnt' insult...just being flirty....

 

[StrayKat]

Hey, dont tempt me

 

[sb2009]

so I'm not *alllowed* to tempt you, or you are *suggesting* I don't tempt you?

 

[StrayKat]

I am suggesting you dont tempt me if you dont mean it... like I said I am bit alike your hubby
You better kick me out of this thread though if you dont want it to end in Cafe.

 

[sb2009]

oh, I would never kick you out! i have a sort of lit crush on you...which I know is different than a real-life crush---but you always post such thoughtful and interesting responses...so I confess my devotion, at least in this thread!!!!! however, it is under the influence of a bottle of wine...but honestly

I enjoy your posts. they are so much more intelligent then mine... could i at least imagine myself sitting at your feet, you reading to me.....

 

[StrayKat]

It would be interesting to try that "sitting at my feet" for real actually, I wouldnt mind at all

You will make me join MisterSir and his hating-the-Atlantic-ocean club if you go on like that...

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I always knew I was different to other girls. I just didn't know why.

Poor Stefan. I picked him to be the one I pretended I had the hots for, for most of high school, just to be like the other girls, who had crushes, and boyfriends, and whatnot.

 

[HottieMama]

Like Lizzie I always knew I was different as well. It wasn't until I got into my first lesbian relationship at 18 that I really discovered kinky/rough sex. H and I learned a lot together for the three years we were a couple as far as BDSM play goes.

 

[sb2009]

It would be interesting to try that "sitting at my feet" for real actually, I wouldnt mind at all

You will make me join MisterSir and his hating-the-Atlantic-ocean club if you go on like that...

ah, so you are accross the Atlantic? and I am stuck in VA...

 

[caela]

I always knew something was different but wasn't really able to pin down why it was that I grew bored with sex so quickly when I had a pretty high running libido. Made no sense to me and for a long time I just thought that there was something wrong with me.

The first time my ex, Z, tied me to a bed though (hehehe, he thought he was being clever and keeping me from scratching) I nearly came unglued! I knew right then that I'd found something and went into research mode finding anything I could about bondage which led me into areas of BDSM. The more I read the further down the rabbit hole I fell and now I'm quite content to still read and learn new things and to experiment with friends from my munch group since I don't actually have an SO at home to play with.

 

[SimonBrooke]

It would be interesting to try that "sitting at my feet" for real actually, I wouldnt mind at all

You will make me join MisterSir and his hating-the-Atlantic-ocean club if you go on like that...

+1

If Angel and I don't make it together, I swear - I swear! That I am never again going to get interested in a woman who lives more than a day's bicycle ride away.

Atlantic Ocean, I piss in you.

 

[StrayKat]

+1

If Angel and I don't make it together, I swear - I swear! That I am never again going to get interested in a woman who lives more than a day's bicycle ride away.

Atlantic Ocean, I piss in you.

I am going to make that a day car ride , I could drive 1540 km for a blind date once, I can do that again.

How is Angel, everything all right with her?

 

[MisterSir]

And since I can't drive, I will...er, I'll think of a better answer once it stops being a moot point. Good to know I have followers.

 

[StrayKat]

And since I can't drive, I will...er, I'll think of a better answer once it stops being a moot point. Good to know I have followers.

If you were a bit closer I would drive you around, I love scaring young guys with my driving exhibitions

 

[MisterSir]

If you were a bit closer I would drive you around, I love scaring young guys with my driving exhibitions

Bring it. I've been in a car with my younger brother, who was taught to drive by soldiers and who think the footbrake is for sissies. Cars no longer hold any fear for me (nor, for that matter, does death)

 

[2cute2cyber]

I was thinking about this today. I think i can pin it down to one time when (future) husband and I were messing around and I ran into the bathroom to hide. Shortly after, the door came off the hinges and he was standing there, drill in hand, and said
"just who the fuck do you think you are dealing with?"

he took the fucking door off the hinges!!!!!! I knew I was in BIG TROUBLE/WHERE I WANTED TO BE right then.....

That would be a turn on.

 

[StrayKat]

Bring it. I've been in a car with my younger brother, who was taught to drive by soldiers and who think the footbrake is for sissies. Cars no longer hold any fear for me (nor, for that matter, does death)

Uh oh is that a dare?
I was taught how to drive by my father on BMW 1502 1981. I was fine tuned by my crazy husband who used to drive rallies. He does complain I spare my brakes too much as well.
I am going to hit the road February/March next year and God only knows where I might end.
I have some friends in UK I really want to visit so I could get closer than you would like.... dont challenge me

Ok, enough hijacking now, sorry sb

 

[graceanne]

In response to the OP, I knew what I was getting into when I got into it. We didn't have any terms, but I wanted a Godly man who would be the head of my household and was specifically looking for that. I knew, from the time I was 17, that I did not want a yes man for a mate (been there, done that - they annoy the snot out of me). The kinky sex didn't come until almost ten years later, but our relationship has always been D/s.

 

[katt_g]

Shortly after, the door came off the hinges and he was standing there, drill in hand, and said
"just who the fuck do you think you are dealing with?"

THAT is so totally, unbelievably hot!

there were a lot of little moments leading to my something different, but i met a man once who kissed me full on the lips and smacked my ass within the first few seconds of our first face to face meeting.

i have never looked back....

 

[ultramarineblue]

You mean everyone isn't like me?????

 

[celticsunspiral]

I have always been kinky and open about sex. Very promiscious as a teen. I realized this is what I need, about the time that I couldn't have a good orgasm without some pain. hmm. Or maybe when my toy box took up an entire drawer in my dresser.