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ecstaticsub
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Morning es,
and thank you for your kind welcome!
Does your daddy know you are talking to strange men?
Are you strange?
Lady_Fiona
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Morning all, 
Just thought I would poke my nose around the door, life is ticking on, missing Daddy very very much so basically occupying myself as much as possible. but I keep throwing tantrums out of the blue which neither Daddy or I are greatly enamoured of.....
Hope everyone is well and happy.....huggles for wenchie being on the wrong shifts
Just thought I would poke my nose around the door, life is ticking on, missing Daddy very very much so basically occupying myself as much as possible.
but I keep throwing tantrums out of the blue which neither Daddy or I are greatly enamoured of.....Hope everyone is well and happy.....huggles for wenchie being on the wrong shifts
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I am as normal as everyone else here.
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Morning all,
Just thought I would poke my nose around the door, life is ticking on, missing Daddy very very much so basically occupying myself as much as possible.
Hope everyone is well and happy.....huggles for wenchie being on the wrong shifts
Hugs to you Lady_Fiona. When I read this it brought me back to about 3 yrs ago when Daddy and I had only been together for about 2 yrs. At the time we lived about 2000 miles apart. We had gotten together for short visits 3 times in those almost 2 years. I remember having mini but frequent breakdowns that would be almost tantrum-like. (I had other things going on in my life, too my husband was deployed).
Looking back at that time now it was very difficult for Daddy and I being in constant turmoil, but on the other hand in many ways it brought us closer together. He saw me at my rawest emotional mess but he still stood by me and still loved me. With firmness and compassion we got through that time and our relationship is better for it.
SInce then it has seemed like every winter we go through another meltdown time. It is my fault. It is not seasonal depression, it is more of a seasonal anxiety. There always seems to be so many demands on me in the winter from family, work etc. Along with that is frequent guests that we both have which decreases the time we can spend talking.
I've already brought it up to him in a playful manner to "warn" him. I am hoping we can get through this winter without our usual winter drama. But, as I said after each time...we get through it and our relationship has been enriched.
Sorry for the tangent...your post just got me thinking...
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Dear girl, I'm not certain that's anything to boast about!
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minx1
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well...near enough.
I'm an english girl in Perth
Well bugger me, (not an invite!
I'm an English bloke in Perth!!!!
Where are you from in the old country?
*grins*
I'm a manc, though lived in London for about 8 years,
how about yourself?
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Oh I worked in yorkshire for a while too!
I think there should be room in there somewhere now!
the captians wench
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I'm realizing more and more how right his words were when I was there.
Every other day he would ask me if things were how I expected them to be. A day or two before I left he asked me if I would have changed anything, more specifically more pain play/ D/s.
I told him I was happy with how things went, it felt natural nothing forced and that's how I like things. He agreed, but added "beating you and stuff we we can do anytime. But things like hanging out, watching tv and fucking we can't do."
I'm realizing that's what I'm missing most. Just the every day things, simple things like holding hands walking down the street and curling up on the bed watching movies. Or just snuggling in general.
D/s seems to be very easy to feel and maintain over the distance and I don't miss it like I do the "normal" relationship stuff.
Every other day he would ask me if things were how I expected them to be. A day or two before I left he asked me if I would have changed anything, more specifically more pain play/ D/s.
I told him I was happy with how things went, it felt natural nothing forced and that's how I like things. He agreed, but added "beating you and stuff we we can do anytime. But things like hanging out, watching tv and fucking we can't do."
I'm realizing that's what I'm missing most. Just the every day things, simple things like holding hands walking down the street and curling up on the bed watching movies. Or just snuggling in general.
D/s seems to be very easy to feel and maintain over the distance and I don't miss it like I do the "normal" relationship stuff.
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Oh what an echo there is here. You just hit the nail on the head for me wenchie honey, thats what I miss most, normality. Walking through the park at St Stephens Green, hand in hand while He told me stories of his childhood days out there, making me smile just by simply standing there drinking a cup of tea, curling up on the bed, His arms around me. THATS what I miss, THATS what makes me cry.
Sometimes I simply want to stomp until I can turn back time and we could have been together with no hiccups, nothing stopping us, when I was free and could have moved, WOULD have moved and not cared that he is still entangled. I would have accepted that. How long for? I don't know but we would still have had the chance to make it work.
Going to find a quiet corner now.....
the captians wench
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Oh what an echo there is here. You just hit the nail on the head for me wenchie honey, thats what I miss most, normality. Walking through the park at St Stephens Green, hand in hand while He told me stories of his childhood days out there, making me smile just by simply standing there drinking a cup of tea, curling up on the bed, His arms around me. THATS what I miss, THATS what makes me cry.
Sometimes I simply want to stomp until I can turn back time and we could have been together with no hiccups, nothing stopping us, when I was free and could have moved, WOULD have moved and not cared that he is still entangled. I would have accepted that. How long for? I don't know but we would still have had the chance to make it work.
Going to find a quiet corner now.....
I still get butterflies when I hear places that we were.
Him and I were reminising the other day on my visit. Then walking to the housing office to drop off my rent reminded me of standing on the balcony of our hotel room. It's just hard sleeping alone sometimes.
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This. I am missing the two weeks of "normal relationship" things. Snuggling on the couch watching You Tube. Walking hand in hand. Snuggling on the bus. Eating out occasionally. Cooking breakfast or meals together, doing dishes together. Those are what I miss most of all. I miss of course the "bedroom" time, but...
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I don't miss the normal things because well...we don't do anything normal when we get together. We have 48hrs together and that's it until our next visit. I guess that isn't totally correct sometimes we get out to go eat.
Lately both he and I have had wicked chest colds and almost flu-like symptoms. We haven't had as much time available to just talk. Today we did though. We both stayed home in bed all day sick. (unfortunately in our own beds 100's of miles away but...) It was great talking about nothing.
I've been really wanting the normal stuff lately. It seems that my cravings go in cycles. Sometimes I want nothing more than to be forced into submission, hurt, and taken without any seblance of care as to what I want or feel; but other times I just want the normal every day stuff like curling up together, holdng his hand, or being able to kiss him. The thing I've wanted most lately is to just feel him pull me closer into him in bed. Nothing sexual, just closeness.
That said, I still always want the sexual stuff, too, with him. It would just be nice to have it real life instead of just talking about it. And then there comes the word that's become almost like a bad word to me... eventually.
That said, I still always want the sexual stuff, too, with him. It would just be nice to have it real life instead of just talking about it. And then there comes the word that's become almost like a bad word to me... eventually.
the captians wench
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For me it's two words: "soon....hopefully" or "hopefully soon".
I'm tired of hoping for soon! I want to take action. Next time I talk to him I'm hoping to get up enough nerve to ask him how much trouble I'd be in if I just showed up on his door step one day.
For me it's two words: "soon....hopefully" or "hopefully soon".
I'm tired of hoping for soon! I want to take action. Next time I talk to him I'm hoping to get up enough nerve to ask him how much trouble I'd be in if I just showed up on his door step one day.
Hmmmmm, that is a thought! Just like "ta-da, I'm here, so spank me!"
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