Gay men - do you want kids?

Sorry, this poll is only for gay men, women and bi or straight men please don't vote

  • I already have children from a previous straight relationship

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I already have children from adoption

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I already have children from a surrogate

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I don't want children, ever

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I may want children in the future but not soon

    Votes: 2 66.7%
  • I want children and would prefer to adopt them

    Votes: 1 33.3%
  • I want children and would prefer to ask a female relative to have one with my partner

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I want children and would prefer to hire a surrogate

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I want to sire children but would prefer someone else raised them, maybe a lesbian couple

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • I'm waiting for cloning or the ability to put male dna into a female egg so I can have a child with

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    3

sunandshadow

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(If you want to vote Other, feel free to do so by posting a reply to the thread. :cattail: )

I was reading about surrogate mothers and seeing some really conflicting information: some people are saying there is a strong recent demand for women to bear children for gay couples, and to a lesser extent for single men of any sexuality, on top of the long-standing demand for surrogates by infertile heterosexual couples. I was thinking about it and realized I would really really like to be a surrogate.

But then I looked at 3 different online applications to become a surrogate, and none of them even let you fill out the application if you haven't already had a baby. WTH? :confused: Guess there must not be that much demand if they can be so picky. Why would a woman who already has children of her own want to have more but give them up? It's the women like me, nearing thirty but not well-off or in a long term relationship, who most want to be a surrogate so they can experience childbearing before they are too old.

The only somewhat positive thing I saw is that because gay couples aren't accepted as clients in some surrogate programs, there have sprung up informal gay-friendly surrogacy matchmaking organizations which allow anyone to apply and each client can choose which traits are important to filter out and which they don't care about.

But before I get my hopes up too much and run around filling out applications, I wanted to make this poll to see how small a % of gay men are actually interested in having a child via a surrogate mother.
 
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Having had a baby already proves you're fertile, that's all.
 
(If you want to vote Other, feel free to do so by posting a reply to the thread. :cattail: )

I was reading about surrogate mothers and seeing some really conflicting information: some people are saying there is a strong recent demand for women to bear children for gay couples, and to a lesser extent for single men of any sexuality, on top of the long-standing demand for surrogates by infertile heterosexual couples. I was thinking about it and realized I would really really like to be a surrogate.

But then I looked at 3 different online applications to become a surrogate, and none of them even let you fill out the application if you haven't already had a baby. WTH? :confused: Guess there must not be that much demand if they can be so picky. Why would a woman who already has children of her own want to have more but give them up? It's the women like me, nearing thirty but not well-off or in a long term relationship, who most want to be a surrogate so they can experience childbearing before they are too old.

The only somewhat positive thing I saw is that because gay couples aren't accepted as clients in some surrogate programs, there have sprung up informal gay-friendly surrogacy matchmaking organizations which allow anyone to apply and each client can choose which traits are important to filter out and which they don't care about.

But before I get my hopes up too much and run around filling out applications, I wanted to make this poll to see how small a % of gay men are actually interested in having a child via a surrogate mother.

Don't judge.
 
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