Well.. if it can't be a temporal "date" at least plan a different type of date.
Well.. if it can't be a temporal "date" at least plan a different type of date.
You two should plan your "date" now. Like for example.... seeing a play, then a nice dinner, followed by a walk through a park downtown.
Then you would have a "date" to look forward to.
I am sad for you as well I am sorry you arent flying but sometime soon youll be there or maybe better yet he will come to the states.
P.S. You deffo dont want to fly stuffed up take it from a Pro
I wubbs you..
Well.. if it can't be a temporal "date" at least plan a different type of date.
You two should plan your "date" now. Like for example.... seeing a play, then a nice dinner, followed by a walk through a park downtown.
Then you would have a "date" to look forward to.
Thanks for the suggestion. 
I can't help but wonder if things would be different if I was across the country insted of across the ocean.
knowing the right thing to do, and doing the right thing can often be very difficult. Especially when the two might be complete opposites.
I should be there right now. If he hadn't canciled my trip, I would have been there while he's going through this. I want to jump the next flight and be there, okay I almost did that yesterday and the day before. But I started thinking about what's really best for him, then I let others actually talk to me and I listened, including a very insightful male perspective. I realized that me being there would probably be more stress than he could deal with right now, and when I recended my "warning" that I was coming it was confirmed.
It's hard for me to remeber sometimes that he's my other side of the coin in so many ways. And loosing those little cues in the voice really doesn't help much.
So while I feel like I should be there and that I am neglecting in my duities for not being there But my job is to do what he needs me to, not what I think he needs me to. Those can often be very different things.
I can't help but wonder if things would be different if I was across the country insted of accross the ocean.
I know..
I know I know.. I am glad you made the decision you did. I know isnt what you thought it would be.. But your support is felt worldwide.
I love you both..
You've been such a great shoulder for me to lean on.
*hugs* chick.
You must be missing him big time, as i am sure he is you.
Hope you get to see him soon
I dream about being in his arms every night now. We were musing last night about the dream I had the night before. I had come home and started stripping down like I always do when I first walk in and when I glanced over at the love seat there he was hiding under a blanket. *giggles* I pounced on him and curled up in his lap. He wraped me up in the blanket with him and set a movie on. I was so excited to see him there and asked how he got her and was just over whelmed. Then my phone wrang and broke the whole thing. Big hugs Wenchie. It does suck to not be there when He is going through stuff and on top of you had planned on being there during this time. B reminds me when i get like that that i am always with him, in his heart and in his soul, even if not in body.
It really is nice hearing all of the exicting little prep worky things others are doing, it helps me to remember me going through it. But then I'm always over prepared. *giggles*
I'll just live vicariously through you for a bit.
I had my bags almost totally packed 2 months before my trip. I also had no clue as to how the weather there was, and when I planned this trip the first time he told me I would only be allowed short skirts and low cut tops, but then when I was packing for the actual trip he kept telling me to be prepared for cooler weather. They lost one of my bags some where between London and Dublin. When I looked up at him with a checked bag in one hand, a carry on in the other hand and a back pack on my back and told him "they lost one of my bags" he looked down and replied: "You mean there was another?" *giggles*
I am very upset that I'm not there now, but it would be a much more pleasant trip if I'm there for happy reasons. I can see how he wouldn't want to have any dark clouds over a visit. It's just hard to be here when I feel like he needs me there.
Daddy and I have been together a year today.
I miss him so much it hurts and today I am flying around getting things together to go away with family tomorrow so we probably wont get the time together that we should.
But the important thing is, we ARE still together despite some hard times occasionally. Now, I am working towards us being together next April. Its doubtful there will be time before that but at least I have something to work towards.
Huggles to everyone
Have a great time
Trust me Wench, I understand. I do, in many ways. Me, I'm always over prepared too. I'm even right now, brewing a pot of coffee (I don't drink it, He does) so that I know the pot works, is clean and has no "aftertaste" so that He can enjoy it on Friday morning when he gets up.
So far when flying, I've never had a lost bag, but then I always carry on. Don't know what will happen if I ever fly again...given all the new rules and such.
I wish you could be there for your Sir too. I don't know what is going on and that's okay, but it sounds like you really want to be there to help him through something really big and rough. He knows you care so much. Trust him that for now, that is enough. He knows if everything were as you both would like it, you would be there for him without a doubt. You are there for him, in the way you can be for now. I am certain he appreciates it like nobody's business.
