I think most women are basically sluts.

[rida]

It's funny, I wasn't even thinking about bored guys. I was thinking about fucking an indifferent girl. It's a cold shower for me.

I feel exactly the same. Maybe that is why I find straight women sexually repulsive. Even if they "try" for whatever reason I cannot make myself go on them. I tried just to be sure, it doesnt work for me.

My one and only female experience so far was with a woman that was basically put there by her Master. She was totally uncomfortable and yet loved what I was doing to her. ( I was totally worried that I would not know what to do but I guess I figured it out pretty well ).

I surprisingly enjoyed it more than I thought. So now I wish to try with a more willing one

 

[StrayKat]

My one and only female experience so far was with a woman that was basically put there by her Master. She was totally uncomfortable and yet loved what I was doing to her. ( I was totally worried that I would not know what to do but I guess I figured it out pretty well ).

I surprisingly enjoyed it more than I thought. So now I wish to try with a more willing one

I would separate "uncomfortable" and "indifferent". The main thing is that she loved what you did. I met such women and I have no problem with them. Actually it turns me on when I see she is clearly enjoying it in spite of herself.

What cools me off is when I am with a woman that is just not interested, or pretends she is. Not scared or uncomfortable, just cold and not interested. Those would never really enjoy and it totally turns me off.

Oh and just to add on "I was totally worried that I would not know what to do.." - I had less problems with my first pussy than I had with my first cock. I knew what made me good and where so I just did the same to her, but wth was I supposed to do with that... thing?!?
I dont think I have to say I was very young when I tried both

 

[gloriann]

I don't find straight women sexually repulsive, I just wouldn't mess with them when I was single because I'm not a science experiment.

So, have we landed here, or am I jumping to conclusions: a slut is simply not a woman who is sexually cold? Or is that over-simplifying?

In spite of the idea that being called a slut is generally not an insult, from what I gather, it still bothers the hell out of me! But that's just me...

 

[00Syd]

+1 for use of the word "cretin" in a thread.

 

[StrayKat]

In spite of the idea that being called a slut is generally not an insult, from what I gather, it still bothers the hell out of me! But that's just me...

If I ever heard that word directed at me on the street I would consider it a serious insult.

 

[Etoile]

Some people don't like the word cunt, either. YMMV!

 

[Keroin]

The following people may call me a slut and I won't be offended:

1. Chuck
2. Me
3. Clive Owen
4. Any man I've dumped in the past, (the fact that they haven't gotten over me makes me hot)
5. Viggo Mortensen
6. Random strangers, (their use of the word implies jealousy and that makes me hot)
7. Seriously ill people who have only weeks to live
8. Aliens
9. WD, no real reason
10. My imaginary friend Lucy. (She's no blushing flower herself though, I might add).

 

[Etoile]

oooooh now I have Cabaret in my head.

 

[Keroin]

oooooh now I have Cabaret in my head.

"As a matter of fact she rented by the hour.

 

[Keroin]

oooooh now I have Cabaret in my head.

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh


(double post)

 

[yourmissl]

The following people may call me a slut and I won't be offended:

1. Chuck
2. Me
3. Clive Owen
4. Any man I've dumped in the past, (the fact that they haven't gotten over me makes me hot)
5. Viggo Mortensen
6. Random strangers, (their use of the word implies jealousy and that makes me hot)
7. Seriously ill people who have only weeks to live
8. Aliens
9. WD, no real reason
10. My imaginary friend Lucy. (She's no blushing flower herself though, I might add).

K, you slut!!! You swore to me you were finished with Clive and Viggo!

Aaarrgh! Slut.

I suppose this means I have to share again.

Shall I bring the pina colada mix, or are you making that new mango thing?

Oh yeah, and can Etoile come to - 'cause we both really like the color plum so we're gonna be pals - wanna come, Etoile?

Slut.

 

[Keroin]

K, you slut!!! You swore to me you were finished with Clive and Viggo!

Aaarrgh! Slut.

I suppose this means I have to share again.

Shall I bring the pina colada mix, or are you making that new mango thing?

Oh yeah, and can Etoile come to - 'cause we both really like the color plum so we're gonna be pals - wanna come, Etoile?

Slut.

Can anyone ever really be finished with Clive and Viggo? I think not.

Oh and the plum is hurting my fat hangover head.

 

[WriterDom]

I didn't think this thread would go a page.

 

[Keroin]

I didn't think this thread would go a page.

Slut.

 

[bruisedangel]

Wow, so much catching up to do, after only 24 hours. I know that somewhere in this mess was a question that someone asked me. I'm not sure I can answer i t, however. I can only answer based on my own opinions and observations. Anyhow, I'm join rida, graceanne and Gilroygal69 with this one. Part of who I am demands that I give in to my PYL's demands for sex, regardless of extenuating circumstances. His want over-rides whatever else I may be feeling at the moment. If he wants sex, he gets sex. If he wants sex, then I want sex. End of story to that. However, the thought of having sex with a random stranger, regardless of how the opportunity may be presented to me, repulses me. I most likely would have thought differently ten years ago. Scratch that. I would have answered differently ten years ago. I was on a bit of a dead end search for a dom, and didn't even know what I was really looking for.

I can't say I've ever once minded being called a slut, though. I'm perfectly aware of my sex drive, for one thing. In addition, I've always thought that if someone was using 'slut' as an insult in regards to me, they really should learn the art of the creative insult.

 

[SimonBrooke]

So which is the worse insult, girls? Really? 'Slut', or 'frigid'?

In fact, I've just been praising my own particular favourite toy for her sexual performance. I called her a 'good girl'; and she is. She performs beautifully, and willingly, and gives me great pleasure.

But if someone you'd just met called you a 'good girl' would that be a worse insult than calling you a 'slut'?

Discuss.

 

[Aquila1]

Ah, I dunno. Of course the bigger question here is what would the Taleban do?

 

[StrayKat]

I didn't think this thread would go a page.

Now that is even worse insult than "slut".

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

So which is the worse insult, girls? Really? 'Slut', or 'frigid'?

In fact, I've just been praising my own particular favourite toy for her sexual performance. I called her a 'good girl'; and she is. She performs beautifully, and willingly, and gives me great pleasure.

But if someone you'd just met called you a 'good girl' would that be a worse insult than calling you a 'slut'?

Discuss.

Frigid is an insult, yes

Good girl is not an insult, but it would rankle me.

I *hate* endearing terms from people who don't know me, unless they're clearly the type that calls everyone "honey" or "sweetie" or whatever. Blergh.

 

[StrayKat]

I *hate* endearing terms from people who don't know me, unless they're clearly the type that calls everyone "honey" or "sweetie" or whatever. Blergh.

Or "little one"
Ok I might be short but if anyone calls me "little one" without my permission they are going to be called something very nasty back.
I so hate that one.

 

[ecstaticsub]

So which is the worse insult, girls? Really? 'Slut', or 'frigid'?

In fact, I've just been praising my own particular favourite toy for her sexual performance. I called her a 'good girl'; and she is. She performs beautifully, and willingly, and gives me great pleasure.

But if someone you'd just met called you a 'good girl' would that be a worse insult than calling you a 'slut'?

Discuss.

Being called girls is worse...

There are many things worse than being called a slut. I can't imagine anyone ever calling me "good girl" except my PYL and I like hearing it from him. I don't know if it would be worse than slut.

The worse things people could call me would be names that attack my competence as a mom. Being called a liar is up there too.

 

[Cattypuss]

To me the sex is only worth having if we're BOTH in the mood. So I refuse sex (and foreplay) when I'm not in the mood and I back off when he's not in the mood.

I've always been this way. To me, sex (whether loving or casual, whether vanilla or kinky-as-hell) is only worth having if it involves two people who are (a) in the right place mentally and (b) in the right mood physically.

I do have a very high sex drive though, so I tend only to "not feel like it" a small handful of times per year.

 

[FurryFury]

I think most men are sluts, at least mentally. Therefore I think most men believe / hope most women are sluts.

 

[WriterDom]

I think most men are sluts, at least mentally. Therefore I think most men believe / hope most women are sluts.

Men think about sex more often but not as intensely as when a woman does.

 

[ownedsubgal]

So which is the worse insult, girls? Really? 'Slut', or 'frigid'?

In fact, I've just been praising my own particular favourite toy for her sexual performance. I called her a 'good girl'; and she is. She performs beautifully, and willingly, and gives me great pleasure.

But if someone you'd just met called you a 'good girl' would that be a worse insult than calling you a 'slut'?

Discuss.

if someone i'd literally just met called me "good girl" i would think they were pretty strange, as how the heck would they know?? lol.

as for slut v. frigid, i've been called both plenty of times. slut for the obvious reasons of promiscuity and being "easy," and frigid for not being a particularly horny, aroused person. the way i view it, both are pretty much facts (i can only say "pretty much" as i am too lazy to find out precisely how "frigid" is defined), therefore cannot be insults. however they both hurt my feelings in most circumstances because usually it means the person calling me that term is viewing me in a negative light. probably "frigid" hurts just a bit worse, as i've only heard that one from people i've actually had sex with, whereas "slut" can often come from strangers.