new lover does not like getting oral

[Girl2P4U]

I have been with a new lover now for about a month, sex is great, only thing is she does not like me eating her pussy, she loves to eat me out, but I can only use my fingers or strap on to get her off. I love eating pussy and this is driving me crazy. She will not give me a reason as to why I can not have a taste. What should I do. Other then this one issue she is amazing.

 

[Wolfman1982]

I have been with a new lover now for about a month, sex is great, only thing is she does not like me eating her pussy, she loves to eat me out, but I can only use my fingers or strap on to get her off. I love eating pussy and this is driving me crazy. She will not give me a reason as to why I can not have a taste. What should I do. Other then this one issue she is amazing.

hmmm you could perhaps wait a little bit longer with the question about why she doesnt like cunnilingus done to her. Because if you have only have had as a lover for a month. Then perhaps she does not like open up for you, when it comes to the issue. So take it easy, and let her feel that she trust you , until she is ready to tell you why. But then again what do I know. But those are my two cents on the matter. I hope that I could put you at ease just for a bit when it comes to that. And I hope that I don't sound like a complete jerk with this post.

 

[hottalyssa]

hmmm you could perhaps wait a little bit longer with the question about why she doesnt like cunnilingus done to her. Because if you have only have had as a lover for a month. Then perhaps she does not like open up for you, when it comes to the issue. So take it easy, and let her feel that she trust you , until she is ready to tell you why. But then again what do I know. But those are my two cents on the matter. I hope that could you at ease just for a bit when it comes to that. And I hope that I don't sound like a complete jerk with this post.

ditto to all of the above. wolfman is on the mark i believe. has anyone ever eaten her before? are you her first lover. all these things must be considered. give her time.lots. if you really care for her. then have a quiet "snuggle" chat at some point and explain your desire to perform oral on her(i too am the same way,i love it soo).perhaps these thoughts might help you.please let me know how it goes.

 

[AdrianaSilver]

Well they have pretty much summed up what I would have said...

 

[slave2lust]

wow, not liking oral is a conundrum. i hope that you're able to find out what about it she doesn't like. hopefully it's something that can be resolved and you can show her what she's been missing. not liking receiving oral is like not liking chocolate. it just isn't possible!

 

[JohnMBrowning]

A guy here (and a het one to boot), but I too have an ambivalence to getting oral. Nothing psychological, it's just that the sensations don't turn my crank - too much stim in some places, not enough in other, "mechanics" and "geometries" that just are quite right for me, etc. I don't totally dislike it, but I'm not satisfying for a partner who really loves to do a lot of it.

Maybe it's something like that.

 

[Etoile]

If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. You can't make her like it. You can ask her to let you do it for yourself, though. I assume she knows you like to give it, you've talked about this, right?

 

[OnDisplay]

Yes

If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like it. You can't make her like it. You can ask her to let you do it for yourself, though. I assume she knows you like to give it, you've talked about this, right?

E has got the right answer