Born Again or BDSM Death?

[OldGuy1026]

I was looking at some of the various writers and noticed quite a few have, well, died. In my own experience my Switch Mistress became a born-again Christian. She was terrified that people would discover her kink and not approve. She helped me find my wife, who is very much a Dom in lots of ways, just not in the bedroom. That doesn't matter I'm very happy and financially secure.

The thought of this thread is, well, anybody else in the same situation? I thinks lots of people drift in and out again. I would just like some thoughts and opinions.

 

[nh23]

I don't get what you're asking.

 

[00Syd]

I don't get what you're asking.

Ditto.

 

[OldGuy1026]

Okay clairifcaton, has anybody noticed that some people are not BDSM for life, I mean I may be living a very vanillia life, but my heart is still in need of a good spanking.

 

[nh23]

I don't know any.

 

[Etoile]

You know me!

 

[minx1]

I think for some its a permanent part of their life and it unlikely to change and for others its a bit of a moving feast.

I led a vanilla life, then dipped my toe into BDSM and loved it. It fulfills what i need. But I am a believer that needs evolve...maybe I will need more, maybe less. Maybe my future circumstances or needs will mean that at some point I will opt out for a while to return at a later date.

Maybe I will lead more of a vanilla life than some but with enough of a bdsm influence to satisfy me. Maybe i will become a 24/7 slave....

Its not a case of one shoe fits all...I like that you can take it and tailor it to your own life and needs. There is no right way, just a broad spectrum on which we all sit.

 

[nh23]

You know me!

Oh, LOL. I recant. I do know one.

 

[intothewoods]

I think for some its a permanent part of their life and it unlikely to change and for others its a bit of a moving feast.

I led a vanilla life, then dipped my toe into BDSM and loved it. It fulfills what i need. But I am a believer that needs evolve...maybe I will need more, maybe less. Maybe my future circumstances or needs will mean that at some point I will opt out for a while to return at a later date.

Maybe I will lead more of a vanilla life than some but with enough of a bdsm influence to satisfy me. Maybe i will become a 24/7 slave....

Its not a case of one shoe fits all...I like that you can take it and tailor it to your own life and needs. There is no right way, just a broad spectrum on which we all sit.

Yup. There ate moments and days when I feel like we're equal partners. Then there are days and periods of time when the power exchange goes deeper and deeper. I definitely enjoy the journey so much more now that I see it as such.

 

[DVS]

BDSM lifer, here. For ever and ever and ever.