Vocal Men ?

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What kind of phrases really make u hot...ladies?

Which phrases do you hate....ladies?

 

[timy756]

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I'm a guy. Always been vocal, especially during oral sex. I wanna let em know what they're doing right and let em know that I am being satisfied in real-time. Hmmm, maybe women are a bit like guys - they wanna know what they do to and with us is good?

 

[CherryBomb24]

I'm a guy. Always been vocal, especially during oral sex. I wanna let em know what they're doing right and let em know that I am being satisfied in real-time. Hmmm, maybe women are a bit like guys - they wanna know what they do to and with us is good?

lol what gave you that impression?

 

[jhuson]

I like a man who is vocal, shouting obscentities, what he is going to do to me, asking me stuff, making me answer all the while, he is in control.

The only question I have, how do you stop him moaning outside of the bedroom?

You just described me to a T.

I am definitely a talker in bed. I used to be quiet when I was younger (thinking it was sexier) but as I've aged I've gotten more verbal and louder with my moaning and groaning.

 

[dixiedarlin81]

amazing noises

Women are so turned on by the noises and amazing sounds guys make that several have been kind enough to record themselves while stroking their cocks and letting up hear all their grunts and groans while still hearing their voice in the story telling. I just have to say its amazing to listen to!

 

[Jackotheshadows]

Making noises is involuntary for me....better I feel, the louder I get.

maybe I should make a recording...

 

[manofsteel52]

Women are so turned on by the noises and amazing sounds guys make that several have been kind enough to record themselves while stroking their cocks and letting up hear all their grunts and groans while still hearing their voice in the story telling. I just have to say its amazing to listen to!

I don't normally yell or anything, but I do a lot of moaning, talking, coaxing and all that, especially during a good BJ, the moaning while I'm doing the licking... some very good vibrations to be had there...

 

[horsie_gurl]

okay well ive had multiple partners and even looked at some porn. the hottest thing for a guy to do for me is to moan, especially when he's orgasming. Because I get so focused on giving him so much pleasure (esp. during oral) that i want him to be in the middle of an uncontrollable orgasm. i want him to moan in pleasure. Its disappointing to me when im having sex and then have to ask him if came because he just stops (ex. my recent rendesvous) Thats quite disappointing.

I'm not much of a talker myself so I get annoyed when he keeps asking me questions to try to get me to talk, its too uncomfortable for me. I am quite a moaner though

 

[TallMan60]

I love to be very loud when I climax, I find that it increases the intensity of my orgasm. I'm sure the neighbors can hear.

 

[vrosej10]

My ex was very vocal. I liked it but my brother and sister who slept next door had problems with it.

 

[Ravenwind]

My Husband is normally very quiet (truth be told, we both are, not by choice, but by familial circumstances)... but he gave me a very special treat for our anniversary and didn't hold back vocally one bit... hottest thing ever to hear him moan, grunt, whimper... guide, direct, command, beg... without words, he told me everything he wanted about what I was doing to him... every little sound was music to my ears. Best anniversary present yet. ^_~

 

[fishnetstocking]

At first my ex husband was the silent type. And it really bothered me. I didn't know if he was enjoying himself or not. After years of gently bringing up the subject out of the bedroom and asking him what he wanted while we were between the sheets I got him talking. It was great. I knew what turned him on and what didn't, I knew when he was getting close to climax and when he came, I just hoped he wouldn't wake the kids. And the best part was, it made me more confident and I had a much better time. Be vocal. And never forget that telling your lover that she is beautiful, a great lover, sexy and so on goes a long ways.

 

[tinawill77]

I have to agree that a completely silent guy is weird and depending on where you are, it's eerie. Even more so if there's no background noise.

I like it when the guy moans or grunts so I know he's enjoying himself, but doesn't get too loud. That's my job.

 

[eudaemonia]

What kind of phrases really make u hot...ladies?

Pretty much anything that comes naturally to him indicating his enjoyment. "Don't stop," "I love that," "ohmygod," and other simple utterances are like aural catnip to me. Hearing my name in connection with the above is like flipping the switch on the afterburners.

Which phrases do you hate....ladies?

Anything that comes off scripted, time-worn. "I'm cumming!" drives me nuts-off, as well as anything along the lines of "ooh baby blah blah blah..." Crudeness in general is total deal killer for me. Phrases that include words such as 'bitch' or 'whore' or 'cunt' (used in a derogatory way) stop me cold in my tracks.

And I know I'm in waaaaay in the minority on this point but I really really dislike the use of 'fuck' or 'fucking' in the context of sex/making love. I think this is to do with the fact that inside a committed relationship I don't make much distinction between sex and making love, be it sweet, slow and sensual or rocks-off/fast-furious, an erotic adventure or a long session of kissing. That all comes under the genus of love-making in my book.

Making noises is involuntary for me....better I feel, the louder I get.

Much as I love sexy suggestiveness and/or erotic wordplay in the run up to clothes coming off, I mostly prefer the involuntary reactions once we're down to the inevitable. The combined moans, sighs, cries, grunts, gasps, etc., is all the music I need and what I remember most afterward.

 

[Shadowann2]

I love a guy who makes noise! Groans, grunts, moans...they are all wonderful! I want to know that you are enjoying what we are doing as much as I am! Talking is good too, but nothing that requires too much of a response! If he's doing what he should be, I shouldn't be able to compose too many coherent thoughts! I'm ok with mild cussing, but excessive cussing, using degrading names, or "Who's your daddy?!" (which will get you physically kicked out of my bed!) are not sexy to me.

I have been with men who were silent, and I didn't like it. I shouldn't have to ask if he had an orgasm! I don't want to feel like I'm having sex with a ninja!

 

[djskrimp]

I'm as vocal as my partner spurns me on to be. Not saying that she has to initiate, but the more free she lets me feel when I AM vocal, the more vocal I become. Particularly if she reacts well from it. Also, I notice that if I am more vocal (which is a reflection of how relaxed and comfortable and into the sex with my partner I am, because that editor is shushed, because I don't feel embarrassment) I am, the more intense the orgasm I have.

 

[ClootieDumpling]

It is definitely a positive feedback loop for me. Each partner generally relaxes in light of the other's obvious enjoyment thereby making more noise themselves. It's a lovely thing to behold!

As has been mentioned earlier in the thread, I think total silence would be a little disheartening because you'd begin to think you were not providing the necessary enjoyment for your partner.

 

[CaRaMeLPoleDoll]

Noise is GREAT!!!

There's nothing sexier than a the sound of an uncontrollable grunt/ sigh/ moan when i'm doing my thing.

with my current SO even if he is silent i don't have to ask if he's cum... the head to toe goosebumps are a pretty good indicator

 

[BustyBabeMA31]

LOVE 'em vocal. Tell me what you like, what you want, compliment me, talk dirty, beg, moan....And, if your talking (or screams of pleasure/pain) bothers me or is not wanted (or might disrupt my neighbors) I will simply gag you. *wink*

 

[CaRaMeLPoleDoll]

LOVE 'em vocal. Tell me what you like, what you want, compliment me, talk dirty, beg, moan....And, if your talking (or screams of pleasure/pain) bothers me or is not wanted (or might disrupt my neighbors) I will simply gag you. *wink*

Right on Busty!

 

[RedheadedHaze]

I am in agreement.

LURVING vocal guys is an understatement of the worst kind.

I don't care if they're vocal via silky smooth whispers or outright forceful diatribe; I just like hearing what they have to say, be it their next move, what they've been thinking about prior to our meeting, dirty talk, etc. And I find I really enjoy a smattering of both; quiet whispers combined w/ more aggressive dialogue.

Hell, you can tell me the 8 things we're most compatible on, as long as you make it sound fuckin' sexy.

And yeah, don't whimper like a girl in my ear when you're coming or when I'm kissing on you or giving head. I hate that. You're a man....sound like one, dammit.

 

[lennythelion]

who's honestly really silent?

I cannot recall ever having had sex with someone who was completely silent. I am sure that *would* be weird. I don't need my partner to be especially vocal, I usually find you can tell from body language if you're doing the right things. And a partner who shouts obscenities when they cum or just rolls their eyes inside their head is equally fun to watch.

However, I have found recently that I actually really like my partner to be verbal. I find it really turns me on when they tell me what they're going to do to me, how I feel to them, how I look to them, how they feel about me. And because I realise I like it, I also try and reciprocate.

 

[kimbernee]

I don't mind if they whimper. Actually, that sounds really hot.

 

[miss_bopeep]

I luurrvvee vocal men.

I like the groans, moans, gasps and all the encouragement. I particularly love my Catholic Scottsman, who mentions the saints, Jesus, and a number of other heavenly references in an incredibly loud voice while he's orgasming.

WOW now that is hot! Gotta agree with Kimbernee too, a little whimper when your going down on him does wonders.

 

[username_69]

I'm quite vocal and my gf loves it.