Chocolate Domination

[DiscusDave]

I have a sweet tooth. I inherited it as a family legacy. This mixed with a conversation earlier today where CurlyKat helped spark the idea... I figured this might be a good topic for my first thread.

I know chocolate has been found to have positive medical effects; has created massive amounts of work opportunities (farming, processing, etc.); and well... just tastes so damn good. (Sorry to all those allergic) It can be claimed to be an artistic medium and competitions are held to see who is the best at creating with it.

Chocolate has become one of many symbols of love/affection- especially for Valentine's Day. From here, rightly so, chocolate has moved into the bedroom. From foreplay to being a main part of some people's sexual experience. But has it really entered the BDSM world?

Especially with regard to positive reinforcement, I definitely see how chocolate could be utilized in a D/s relationship... but I want to hear other sentiments.

Does anyone have experience with regard to using chocolate to dominate someone or be dominated by someone? Or any other food for that matter?... but mostly chocolate. I have heard of dietary servitude/domination where someone's diet is decided by another, but what else can be done with chocolate?

I'd love to hear everyone's thoughts.

 

[ZRT]

Well damn it, I was hoping this was going to be an interracial BDSM thread, and because I'm all about tasting the rainbow, I got my hopes up.

Um, to do justice to the topic, I like slicing the tip off a strawberry and icing it a bit for coldplay and leaving a flavor trail. Nothing major, but it is a fun bit of diversion.

 

[DiscusDave]

Well damn it, I was hoping this was going to be an interracial BDSM thread, and because I'm all about tasting the rainbow, I got my hopes up.

Um, to do justice to the topic, I like slicing the tip off a strawberry and icing it a bit for coldplay and leaving a flavor trail. Nothing major, but it is a fun bit of diversion.

Definitely a fun diversion. And it still could be an interracial thread too... i guess.

But I was thinking more along the lines of this....
http://www.erosblog.com/sex-blog-pictures/chocolate-covered-nude-woman.jpg

 

[ZRT]

Definitely a fun diversion. And it still could be an interracial thread too... i guess.

But I was thinking more along the lines of this....
http://www.erosblog.com/sex-blog-pictures/chocolate-covered-nude-woman.jpg

Hijacking your first thread would be a totally appropriate way of welcoming you into the fold, being as how we never stay on topic anyway. But no! I will be strong this time and stick with food.

 

[DiscusDave]

Hijacking your first thread would be a totally appropriate way of welcoming you into the fold, being as how we never stay on topic anyway. But no! I will be strong this time and stick with food.

Your perseverance is commendable...

 

[graceanne]

That would be a hard limit for me.

I honestly couldn't be trusted to stay away from chocolate.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I LOVE chocolate, in all it's many forms. But it's never been used as a reward or a form of domination.

If this thread does turn into an interracial thread then I can talk about being dominated by chocolate.

 

[DiscusDave]

That would be a hard limit for me.

I honestly couldn't be trusted to stay away from chocolate.

The powers of chocolate are very great indeed. Would it work as positive reinforcement though?

 

[graceanne]

The powers of chocolate are very great indeed. Would it work as positive reinforcement though?

Possibly. I don't know. I do know that K always got me chocolate for having a child. LOL

 

[DiscusDave]

I knew it!!! CHILDREN = CHOCOLATE

 

[midwestyankee]

I like to use M & M candies in a game that's a lose/win proposition.

 

[DiscusDave]

And what M&M game is that?

 

[graceanne]

Ooh! M&M's!

 

[DiscusDave]

It'd be cool to scene and do some puppy play with those...

Have her kneel down in front of me... then I'd place an M&M on her nose and tell her to balance it until I give the word. I'd hold her like that for a while. Make her really focus on the M&M. Make her wait for the command. Then she would have to flick it up into the air and catch it in her mouth like a doggy treat.

 

[Kikori]

I just got the mental image of a lady rubbing chocolate within herself until her slave could get to lick it as a reward, or she would give it to someone else.

 

[FurryFury]

First I chose my chocolate.

Soon it falls under my domination as I break it.

Then I trample it with my teeth.

 

[DiscusDave]

http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_aNjAWcBCAEo/SBACUhqtPvI/AAAAAAAAAZg/MLXK2oC4cGc/s400/HNT8.JPG

 

[graceanne]

First I chose my chocolate.

Soon it falls under my domination as I break it.

Then I trample it with my teeth.

LOL!!

 

[JMohegan]

I've been at objectification parties where participating females served as various inanimate objects, one of which was a platter of sorts.

She lay, nude, mute, and immobile, on a table with a bowl of melted chocolate placed on her stomach. Various pieces of fruit, thin slices of pound cake, and whatnot, were on plates surrounding her, ready for dipping. Over the course of the evening, she got dripped on a lot.

 

[Anne_Prospere]

It'd be cool to scene and do some puppy play with those...

Have her kneel down in front of me... then I'd place an M&M on her nose and tell her to balance it until I give the word. I'd hold her like that for a while. Make her really focus on the M&M. Make her wait for the command. Then she would have to flick it up into the air and catch it in her mouth like a doggy treat.

great idea. love this.

 

[CurlyKat]

It'd be cool to scene and do some puppy play with those...

Have her kneel down in front of me... then I'd place an M&M on her nose and tell her to balance it until I give the word. I'd hold her like that for a while. Make her really focus on the M&M. Make her wait for the command. Then she would have to flick it up into the air and catch it in her mouth like a doggy treat.

Dang it, I'm such a slow girl! Stupid sleep deprivation.... anyway, back to topic.

I've done this, only with the little Dove dark chocolate bits since they were what I had and balanced way easier than anything else. Major issues came from the flipping into the mouth part, though. I had bits of melted chocolate all over my face. It really was way too much fun.

Chocolate is definitely a positive reinforcement for me. I've had to work to earn a bite of chocolate, or chocolatey dessert, and let me tell you I was motivated! Positive reinforcement like this definitely works better than negative reinforcement (punishment).

 

[CurlyKat]

P.S... Mr. Dave, you now have 100 posts, so I think we, the community as a whole, need you to have an avatar.

Perhaps the yumminess you sent me last night would do?

 

[harrlequin]

Seconded on the AV, Davey.

*ahem*

ooh! Eeee - please! - stop pouring sticky chocolate over my body! Oooooh - I can't stand it! Oh, oh, oHHHHHH!

Erm - nope - not getting the whole dommed by chocolate thing.

 

[DiscusDave]

http://softmelon.files.wordpress.com/2009/03/choc.jpeg

 

[Netzach]

Chocolate is serious business, no games there.

Sushi on the other hand...