Are you kinkier than your partner?

[TonyUK]

So this is aimed at couples really;

Who's the kinkier/more sexually adventurous in your relationship, and can we have examples please?

 

[Bends_Arod]

I would say that I am the kinkier one.

I am 38 and she is 46 so that might have something to do with it.

 

[TonyUK]

So what will you/won't she do?

 

[blackdragonfly]

I thought I was the kinker one, but my man has surprised me (in a good way). I still like more of the BDSM then he does I think though.

 

[Molly123]

Easy one.
I am the kinkier one. DH is pretty much up for anything I throw at him though. Not everything but we are getting there.

 

[Mike2697]

I know I am the kinkier one...I brought in the toys, encourage anal play and desparately want her to take me with a strap-on...still hoping.

I also got her to enjoy some light BDSM

 

[kinkymomjianlis]

YES and it sucks...

 

[onthedf]

I would definitely have to say yes... although we've been passionless for over a year now, so the question is... am I kinkier then my own hand....

 

[StormCat]

Yeah no question I am. She is pretty good about doing what i ask her to do but if I didnt beg for somethings, it would never happen. My mind goes in lots of places that hers does not.

 

[janeyl]

We are equals in every way and both love each other for it. We each share our fantasies and try to enable the other to live it out-it makes the sex the best either of us has ever had

 

[Malerik]

I am...unless she's drunk, then all bets are off

 

[gothic_nymph]

I guess I would say I am. I'm all for doing a threesome but he's dragging his heals... Just need to urge him a little...

 

[IsabellaKing]

My husband says - anything I can think of, he's willing to try. So I guess the ball's in my court

 

[PervyRomantic]

If I had a partner...I probably would be, as I am one kinky mofo!

 

[wanttorock]

No doubt about it I am. A couple times she told me about seeing a girl going down on a guy in a car in the parking lot, but says no when I request it. I would like to try including some anal stuff, she wouldn’t. I did get her to try spanking tho, and she loves it. Hey one step at a time right?

 

[lilly85]

I'm way kinkier than my boyfriend. I gave him a hand job yesterday and tried to get him to lick the cum off my hand and he wouldn't. He cringes at kissing me after I've given him a BJ...he won't even tie me up for sex!

And he definitely isn't into watersports or pain or anything. Won't go near my ass and won't let me near his.

He likes latex and he wants ME to dominate him...but I'm no good at that.

He prefers tender slow love making. He loves cuddling and being all mushy....which sometimes makes me wanna puke. i like tenderness and love making too...but most of the time I want it rough and kinky.

 

[blackdragonfly]

I'm way kinkier than my boyfriend. I gave him a hand job yesterday and tried to get him to lick the cum off my hand and he wouldn't. He cringes at kissing me after I've given him a BJ...he won't even tie me up for sex!

And he definitely isn't into watersports or pain or anything. Won't go near my ass and won't let me near his.

He likes latex and he wants ME to dominate him...but I'm no good at that.

He prefers tender slow love making. He loves cuddling and being all mushy....which sometimes makes me wanna puke. i like tenderness and love making too...but most of the time I want it rough and kinky.

Wow you sound alot like me. I would much rather be ruff and kinky then have any kind of soft kisses and what not. BUT I will say due to this my bf doesn't know how to touch me anymore it seems, or do we kiss nearly enough (lil pecks don't count). But I love him dearly and am willing to try to find a good middle ground.

What I think is funny is all the pm's I get saying they wanna have me curled up in their arms and shit like that, um no......turn off for me there unless I'm in love and am in the mood.

Glad to know there is another chick like me out there

 

[TonyUK]

I'm way kinkier than my boyfriend. I gave him a hand job yesterday and tried to get him to lick the cum off my hand and he wouldn't. He cringes at kissing me after I've given him a BJ...he won't even tie me up for sex!

And he definitely isn't into watersports or pain or anything. Won't go near my ass and won't let me near his.

He likes latex and he wants ME to dominate him...but I'm no good at that.

He prefers tender slow love making. He loves cuddling and being all mushy....which sometimes makes me wanna puke. i like tenderness and love making too...but most of the time I want it rough and kinky.

Can I borrow you for a night...or three

 

[lemmesee]

So this is aimed at couples really;

Who's the kinkier/more sexually adventurous in your relationship, and can we have examples please?

I'm more kinky than she is, but she surely goes along with me....I like to see her wearing see-thru items, bras, panties, nighty tops, etc....and showing herself to me....trying to excite me....while I peer and peek and leer and lurk....and she plays along with me

 

[omgitselaine]

I'd have to say the husband is and it seems from my experience guys tend to be and it's not because im a prude or anything cause i'm willing to try anything once

 

[Stryderthorongil]

I have been told I am kinkier, but she is learning.

 

[throbbingclit69]

Ok, so with a non scientific survey of the responses, it looks like 95% of the folks answering this question are kinkier than their partners. Does that surprise anyone? Maybe that's the reason we're all out here on Lit, because we can't get the kink we want in the next room. But we still love them, and know they're just different, right? So we Jill / Jack off, post our horny messages, and think what life would be like with another horny bastard like us! Am I way off track here?

 

[Shysweet]

I would say that I am the kinkier one.

I am 38 and she is 46 so that might have something to do with it.

It has NOTHING to do with it.

 

[Shysweet]

So this is aimed at couples really;

Who's the kinkier/more sexually adventurous in your relationship, and can we have examples please?

Me. The older he gets the less adventurous. Unfortunately...

 

[Kingofmycastle]

Partner? what partner?