"Bases" for Lesbians?

[SCblondetiger]

My girlfriend and I are just curious if there are bases that exist for Lesbians like there are for heterosexual couples? We'd love to hear your opinions!! :-D





*****This post was not ment to offend anyone at all!!! and I hope that it didn't! Sorry if it did *****

 

[emap]

I don't really see why not, be much less confusing with lesbians to, guys tend to forget where the bases are anyway.

I could relate stories explaining but then I'd be talking about sex with a guy and you would either turn green or run for the bathroom.

 

[Tymeless]

hmm thats an interesting question.

 

[playwithlezli]

My girlfriend and I are just curious if there are bases that exist for Lesbians like there are for heterosexual couples? We'd love to hear your opinions!! :-D





*****This post was not ment to offend anyone at all!!! and I hope that it didn't! Sorry if it did *****

how would it actually be different? kissing, boobies, pussy, some kind of finale (whether it be penetrative or not, we all kinda know when we have "made love".) Not that I took offense, just saying....

 

[A_Kefka]

I'd think the only thing you'd have to redefine would be home. I mean, kissing, manual stimulation, oral, those would still apply. And if you liked strap on play home could be the same too, but I"m sure not all do.

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

Oral sex; fisting; strap-ons. Home base is the vagina.

 

[Safe_Bet]

I'd think the only thing you'd have to redefine would be home. I mean, kissing, manual stimulation, oral, those would still apply. And if you liked strap on play home could be the same too, but I"m sure not all do.

That's prolly because, according to your profile, you're a dude!

I've yet to meet a lesbian that wouldn't consider erotic touching to be 2nd base and vaginal penetraton to be 3rd base.

 

[A_Kefka]

That's prolly because, according to your profile, you're a dude!

I've yet to meet a lesbian that wouldn't consider erotic touching to be 2nd base and vaginal penetraton to be 3rd base.

yes, I'm a guy. Thought this was an interesting conversation and that I might have something to add anyway. And if I was wrong, thanks for correcting me.

 

[gloriann]

They're the same. Why wouldn't they be the same?

 

[SCblondetiger]

Thanks for the replies. Where the question came in was Home base... that was the main thing...

 

[staciliv]

My girlfriend and I are just curious if there are bases that exist for Lesbians like there are for heterosexual couples? We'd love to hear your opinions!! :-D

So with guys they always want to skip the bases and slide into home. With girls what would it be - you'd have to stop every five minutes and explain the rules of the game?

*LOL*

 

[emap]

Actually I'm seeing the problem, 3rd was always fingers and oral with a guy, lesbians can't go past that without some attachments, and on a date bringing those would be kinda rude.

Though I would think home would be more along the lines of breathless after sex snuggles you hit home, anything short of that you only went to third.

 

[A_Kefka]

So with guys they always want to skip the bases and slide into home. With girls what would it be - you'd have to stop every five minutes and explain the rules of the game?

*LOL*

I dissagree about guys wanting to skip bases. I rather enjoy spending time on second and third.

 

[wetfortaryn]

Its funny, my girlfriend and I were having this same conversation a few weeks ago. I think if in hetero relationships 3rd base is oral or fingers and home is penetration, then I think for us, we decided home could either be penetration of some kind, or tribadism...which we loooove because we feel like we are inside each other and its insanely intimate, warm, wet pussy to warm, wet pussy.

 

[playwithlezli]

Its funny, my girlfriend and I were having this same conversation a few weeks ago. I think if in hetero relationships 3rd base is oral or fingers and home is penetration, then I think for us, we decided home could either be penetration of some kind, or tribadism...which we loooove because we feel like we are inside each other and its insanely intimate, warm, wet pussy to warm, wet pussy.

I think that sums it up well, although I would count digital penetration to orgasm as a home base type activity. I must admit however that I don't really think in terms of "bases" or whether I not it was a real score when I am with women. I guess I think of all of it as making love if I am really into it, especially emotionally, and "fooling around" if it is some kissing or touching that may or may not lead to a full scale night of passion.

I guess the only reason this might be really important to some folks (in a general sense, this is not directed to anyone in particular) is that when it is hetro, you can say you didn't "cheat" if there was no penetration, but when it is lesbian sex, then it is harder to define.

Don't know how it would work for the fellows.

 

[A_Kefka]

I think that sums it up well, although I would count digital penetration to orgasm as a home base type activity. I must admit however that I don't really think in terms of "bases" or whether I not it was a real score when I am with women. I guess I think of all of it as making love if I am really into it, especially emotionally, and "fooling around" if it is some kissing or touching that may or may not lead to a full scale night of passion.

I guess the only reason this might be really important to some folks (in a general sense, this is not directed to anyone in particular) is that when it is hetro, you can say you didn't "cheat" if there was no penetration, but when it is lesbian sex, then it is harder to define.

Don't know how it would work for the fellows.

a bit off topic,but I'd dissagree with that definition of cheating. I know I'd be just as upset if a woman I was seeing were giving handjobs or having someone lick her as I would be if she had gone all the way. To me any physical intimacy beyond a hug from a friend would be cheating. But thats if you are going beyond your partner's back about it, if you two are ok with things happening with other people then its not really cheating.

 

[playwithlezli]

a bit off topic,but I'd dissagree with that definition of cheating. I know I'd be just as upset if a woman I was seeing were giving handjobs or having someone lick her as I would be if she had gone all the way. To me any physical intimacy beyond a hug from a friend would be cheating. But thats if you are going beyond your partner's back about it, if you two are ok with things happening with other people then its not really cheating.

I personally agree with you Kefka, but it seems like a lot of people take the Clintonesqe approach to fidelity. I am not sure that it is off-topic really though, it seems that some people need definations of actions in order to justify or qualify their behavioural choices.