"On The Fence" Attraction

[plaidscott]

Today while driving I passed a guy (mid 20s) mowing a lawn shirtless. Quite ripped, nice stomach. It was only a short glance, but I was instantly turned on.

This was the first time I was ever turned on by a member of the same sex, in person or otherwise. It feels... Interesting. Up until this point I was only focused on the cock. I think I may be becoming more comfortable with my recently-accepted bisexuality.

So, I thought I may as well post this and ask when you guys and gals who were "on the fence" about their attractions were first physically attracted to the same sex.

 

[Shywong]

I always though straight guys who have spontaneous bisexual desires towards other straight guys as kind of strange. For me it was a gradual change. Mine started with accepting the fact that I liked shemales, then androgynous males, then rather young boys and finally anyone who just has a nice, hairless ass. Masculinity is still a no-go for me, manly men still aren't the least bit sexy. An ass on one might be attractive but not the rest of his body. I never went through that urge to suck cock phase as most bi-curious guys seem to do. Especially the ones here..

 

[kingkhan1]

^^^ Yeah it was gradual for me too. I can only recall a few times where a guy instantly turned me on. The last time was when I saw a guy at the bus stop and he was wearing a shirt where I could see his muscular arms, in general I am not into muscles.But, what think turned me on to him was his skin tone was similar to mine, half black half white, and I just found it sexy.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

Today while driving I passed a guy (mid 20s) mowing a lawn shirtless. Quite ripped, nice stomach. It was only a short glance, but I was instantly turned on.

This was the first time I was ever turned on by a member of the same sex, in person or otherwise. It feels... Interesting. Up until this point I was only focused on the cock. I think I may be becoming more comfortable with my recently-accepted bisexuality.

So, I thought I may as well post this and ask when you guys and gals who were "on the fence" about their attractions were first physically attracted to the same sex.

Interesting. Thanks for sharing. I would imagine it makes sense. Start with being comfortable with one thing (cock) then move on as you become more and more comfortable with that idea

 

[Heatlessfever]

Women...have always held a pull for me. It started just as I hit puberty. I started with anime characters, then moved onto real women, eventually finding my attraction was centered on androgynous, but clearly female individuals. Butch dykes hold absolutely no attraction for me. "Lip stick" can be gorgeous, I could do it, but something about that casual wife beater, low slung jeans with boy cut panties or boxers hanging out, that hang of curvy, gorgeous hips makes me wet. I love nicely sized breasts, B cups being the best. Then, if her eyes are lined with eyeliner, her hair short but not buzz short, but framing her face, or hell medium, falling around her neck...and shit, I'm sold.

It's also a turn on when she dresses up, or caves and wears a skirt. Basically, the tomboy lesbian...or what in lesbian terms, the soft butch, strokes my fancy.

I love women who straddle the gender fence.

 

[ilike2try]

Interesting initial post. I've found that I, too, can now occasionally see a man (usually he'll be in some state of public undress, such as jogging in a pair of shorts with no shirt, tan and well-built). and I'll be overcome with a strong sense of physical desire. This wasn't always the case. For a long time, it was only about the cock... and cum!

Still is about the cock and cum, for the most part, though I am not unwilling to appreciate an attractive, desireable man when I see him. Also, the thought of having full on sexual intercourse with another man is not as strange as it might once have been. I do fantasize about it quite frequently. And yet, I still feel predominantly "straight," fwiw... though I know I'm really as bi as can be. I'll go either way.

 

[Jander1]

Interesting initial post. I've found that I, too, can now occasionally see a man (usually he'll be in some state of public undress, such as jogging in a pair of shorts with no shirt, tan and well-built). and I'll be overcome with a strong sense of physical desire. This wasn't always the case. For a long time, it was only about the cock... and cum!

Still is about the cock and cum, for the most part, though I am not unwilling to appreciate an attractive, desireable man when I see him. Also, the thought of having full on sexual intercourse with another man is not as strange as it might once have been. I do fantasize about it quite frequently. And yet, I still feel predominantly "straight," fwiw... though I know I'm really as bi as can be. I'll go either way.

This is similar to how my sexuality toward men has played out. I still feel predominately straight (I think) but things that I used to not consider doing with a man I now fantasize about. I also occasionally lust when I see a hot guy. Sometimes just knowing that another man is gay or bi really gets me going...if only the right situation/

 

[SilkyDave]

saw a guy playing basketball today in his driveway, no shirt, jeans, barefoot, got hard as soon as I saw him...

 

[Chedder99]

Had a guy spot me at the gym doing a bench press and could see his cock up his shorts and smell it. And since then haven't been able to get it off my mind. Never felt like this before

 

[Gods_Favorite]

Hmm this is interesting, I have recently admitted to myself I am bisexual but I haven't had a moment when I look at a guy and get turned on, I'm only turned on when I think about men sexually. I think I'm mostly straight you can say but I know I'm bisexual because I wouldn't be having these urges to play with other men sexually if I were jus straight.