Anyone Ever Videoed A Session Of Chastisement?

[rosco rathbone]

Seems like it could be a good thing to have around. "Watch this. You want that to happen again?"

"We have your apology and promise not to repeat on the hard drive".

I'm also fascinated by the idea of capturing it.

Would that somehow negate the "punishment" effect?

 

[myinnerslut]

watching it would seriously hurt me emotionally. im not sure what the intended result would be but i dont think i would recover from that easily, to say the least.

 

[Netzach]

Seems like it could be a good thing to have around. "Watch this. You want that to happen again?"

I know someone who would find this sooooo hot.

As actual behavior modification it might still even work.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I know someone who would find this sooooo hot.

As actual behavior modification it might still even work.

I'd find it majorly hot, but I'm disturbed at the way I eroticize chastisement. The accusation "you are just looking for me to screw up so that you can beat me" stings.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

I have had it done

(I was the one videotaped during punishment, ages ago) It was humiliating and not in any way that could be considered hot. (At least not to me) The further punishment came from my Ms showing the tape to others as an *object lesson* in how good girls were NOT to behave.

The only thing it did was end my feeling of submissiveness long before I would have willingly ended those feelings. It also caused me to lose faith in HER as well as myself. As my Ma'am, she should have known my reaction and dealt with it in another way.

I have also been taped as a training exercise to help others. THAT experience was far different and one i would willingly repeat.

*shrugs*

 

[00Syd]

Sounds harsh.

 

[Netzach]

I'd find it majorly hot, but I'm disturbed at the way I eroticize chastisement. The accusation "you are just looking for me to screw up so that you can beat me" stings.

Yeah, I'm not normally into chastisement at all, but humiliation. Another thing I've wanted to do is to videotape a slave doing something exceptionally stupid-looking and then replace all his porn/stimulation/photos with that image. Over and over. Until he began to erotocize a visual of himself doing this exceptionally stupid-looking thing.

So this kind of thing floats my boat and I know H would just die/hate/love it.

 

[rosco rathbone]

The only thing it did was end my feeling of submissiveness long before I would have willingly ended those feelings.

Taping it, or showing the tape to others? Or both? Which more?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Yeah, I'm not normally into chastisement at all, but humiliation. Another thing I've wanted to do is to videotape a slave doing something exceptionally stupid-looking and then replace all his porn/stimulation/photos with that image. Over and over. Until he began to erotocize a visual of himself doing this exceptionally stupid-looking thing.

So this kind of thing floats my boat and I know H would just die/hate/love it.

I've got weird conflicts about punishment.

The best way I can reconcile them is to say "ok, I'm not really doing this in order to bring about any change in behavior. I'm doing it because of my wrath and so my blood pressure doesn't get too high."

But the old "punishment/behavior modification" paradigm keeps a-creepin up on me. It's just ambient in this scene, I guess.

 

[Netzach]

I've got weird conflicts about punishment.

The best way I can reconcile them is to say "ok, I'm not really doing this in order to bring about any change in behavior. I'm doing it because of my wrath and so my blood pressure doesn't get too high."

Oh if they only made more like you, hon.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Oh if they only made more like you, hon.

Isn't revenge the origin of justice? I forget my Foucault, but I think behavior modification came along much later.

 

[Netzach]

Isn't revenge the origin of justice? I forget my Foucault, but I think behavior modification came along much later.

Probably. Hm.

 

[ecstaticsub]

My PYL has taped a couple beating sessions but they weren't punishment, they were play. The one and only time that I was beat as a punishment he did not tape but did have me pose for normal erotic pictures afterwards. The belt bruises and welts and very visible in those pictures. He has never had me look at them as a reminder to keep me in line or any thought process of that sort.

Now humiliation photos/videos as a form of behaviour modification is a totally different story. It is one of those things I absolutely hate yet gets my pussy uncontrollably wet and my mind into submissive mode immediately.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I would be more into chastisement than humiliation (on either side of the equasion)...

I'm torn though about the whole "wrath as stress relief" style of play. Theraputic though it may be, for the top at least, it seems to me there is less concern for the welfare of the bottom in that scenario, even if it does make the sub hot.

On the other hand I do remember times when I would get so frusterated with one thing or another that I really wanted to scratch someone till they bled or bite down and gnaw past the whimpering.

I can certainly see how it might appeal to some masochists to have the top actually getting something out of it for themselves rather than constantly gauging the bottoms responses.

hmmm...

Anyone who expects to have a relationship with me has to give me that outlet: "you keep it safe and sane and I won't call the cops". I'm too aggro.

 

[satindesire]

I'd find it majorly hot, but I'm disturbed at the way I eroticize chastisement. The accusation "you are just looking for me to screw up so that you can beat me" stings.

I was with a guy that was like this. For years, he changed 'our rules' so many times (without telling me) that I walked on eggshells our entire relationship to avoid getting screamed at or beaten up. He wasn't a good person by any means, I'm not saying this couldn't be hot for the right person, but for me, this would drive me back to my old suicidal ways. I have to know what's expected of me!

 

[rosco rathbone]

I was with a guy that was like this. For years, he changed 'our rules' so many times (without telling me) that I walked on eggshells our entire relationship to avoid getting screamed at or beaten up. He wasn't a good person by any means, I'm not saying this couldn't be hot for the right person, but for me, this would drive me back to my old suicidal ways. I have to know what's expected of me!

I have some tendencies in that direction, but I'm not happy with that side of my character at all.

 

[satindesire]

I have some tendencies in that direction, but I'm not happy with that side of my character at all.

It's good that you see it.

There's a difference between being a Dom and being a physically and emotionally abusive asshole. He didn't get that. I think you do, even though I don't know you that well. ^_^

 

[rosco rathbone]

It's good that you see it.

There's a difference between being a Dom and being a physically and emotionally abusive asshole. He didn't get that. I think you do, even though I don't know you that well. ^_^

So what do you think about my video idea?

 

[satindesire]

So what do you think about my video idea?

For a person who enjoys that particular kink, I think they would find it extremely effective and very hot.

It helps that the Dom in question is rumored to be a very good looking guy with piercing blue eyes and great smelling pheromones, so that helps. *teasing*

 

[rosco rathbone]

For a person who enjoys that particular kink, I think they would find it extremely effective and very hot.

It helps that the Dom in question is rumored to be a very good looking guy with piercing blue eyes and great smelling pheromones, so that helps. *teasing*

How these rumors get started I'll never know.

 

[myinnerslut]

i think i figured out the root of why this bothers me so much.

when i get in trouble i am very hard on myself. often, harder then Master wants me to be on myself. i punish myself longer then he does, and usually need t be reminded after the fact that i am forgiven.

Master works off of a "its a new day, blank slate, start fresh the next morning" kind of a model. saving a recorded version of a punishment or disciplinary action/activity "just in case it needs to be viewed again" is contradictory to the idea of starting fresh once its behind you. i think this is the reason i am having such a strong dislike for this idea.

 

[satindesire]

How these rumors get started I'll never know.

Well, you started one of them. I won't say which.

i think i figured out the root of why this bothers me so much.

when i get in trouble i am very hard on myself. often, harder then Master wants me to be on myself. i punish myself longer then he does, and usually need t be reminded after the fact that i am forgiven.

Master works off of a "its a new day, blank slate, start fresh the next morning" kind of a model. saving a recorded version of a punishment or disciplinary action/activity "just in case it needs to be viewed again" is contradictory to the idea of starting fresh once its behind you. i think this is the reason i am having such a strong dislike for this idea.

Good point!

 

[rosco rathbone]

i think i figured out the root of why this bothers me so much.

when i get in trouble i am very hard on myself. often, harder then Master wants me to be on myself. i punish myself longer then he does, and usually need t be reminded after the fact that i am forgiven.

Master works off of a "its a new day, blank slate, start fresh the next morning" kind of a model. saving a recorded version of a punishment or disciplinary action/activity "just in case it needs to be viewed again" is contradictory to the idea of starting fresh once its behind you. i think this is the reason i am having such a strong dislike for this idea.

Excellent post.

 

[FantaSeaGirl]

I'm with MIS and a few others on this. If I deserve chastisement then it is most likeily that I know this & am already beating myself up over it. I'm too vulnerable about this for it then to be thrown back in my face later down the track.

Videoing in general though I am not against (although I prefer an artistic approach rather than straight out porn). For me I guess it is part the humiliation of it.... video me & then make me watch it and not only see but also relive how much I enjoyed it even though I was a) behaving in a wanton way that I would hate to admit I am capable of b) looking so silly (pathetic... mmm *shivers*) doing whatever task has been set and not minding at all because he has ordered it.

Oh, the joys & versatility of a good mind fuck.

 

[00Syd]

After coming back and reading MIS and others posts, I would have to say that yes, the reason why that sounds so harsh is because I would already be beating myself up over it more then anyone else could.

I'm also just against being recorded or photographed in an erotic or pornographic or naked manner to begin with, but that's a whole different thing.