does your SO know your deepest, darkest sexual fantasies?

[silverwhisper]

it's a simple question.

unlike my norm, i'm not making this a public poll. if people want to answer publicly, great, but i'm not particularly interested in making that a necessary part of participating in this poll.

ed

 

[bobsgirl]

Hi ed. I answered your poll -- bet you can figure out my answer.

 

[silverwhisper]

[trout-smack!]

hi BG!



to answer my own poll: yes. some i'm sure she's intuited already, but others i've definitely told her. they make for some very fun pillow talk. :>

ed

 

[sweet_escape]

My deepest, darkest fantasy? No, he doesn't. But that's half the fun of it. It's my little secret. I like to keep it just for myself.

 

[peterbrazen]

See

See the above answer!

 

[sexxx_kitten]

not yet, but it's getting there... my deepest darkest secrets are pretty deep and dark (at least for some), so i'm slowly weaning him into it

 

[lindahotstuff]

Yes he knows them all, and the best thing is, we always try them out ... wow!

 

[KarennaC]

I don't even know my deepest, darkest sexual fantasy, so I don't think he does.

 

[cadman7777]

She would leave before I got telling her

 

[infinity706]

Well, I'd have to get a SO and figure out exactly which one is the depeest, darkest. I'd say it's likely back when I had a SO, though.

 

[bailadora]

He knows.

 

[eudaemonia]

No. I've never been close enough to anyone to trust that much. Maybe someday.

 

[MissMDS]

My deepest, darkest fantasy? No, he doesn't. But that's half the fun of it. It's my little secret. I like to keep it just for myself.

+1 !!

 

[literal]

Nop for sure..and i like it to be that way to keep things normal

 

[wicked woman]

Well strangely. he seems to know them before I do...then goes about making them a reality. A bit of a win-win situation.

 

[werdsmith]

she does, but doesn't think I should have it

-w

 

[bitchee62]

He knows them all and we have done most of them so far. Of course I hope he tells me all of his so I can give him the same pleasure that he gives to me. It keeps things interesting and very intense.
R

 

[Jack_Samuel]

Not yet but i really hope that one day i can trust her enough to open up

 

[birdie87]

haha i think i am no where near to finding out my own i'm still exploring them.

i think sometimes when you have the right partner you're intimate with they almost find some of them out with you through relationship.

i doubt any of the girls i'm seeing at the moment or ones from the past couple of years i could trust enough, if i could just stop being a male ho bag and settle down i could maybe find somebody i could be that open with, goddamn myself.

but yeah, i really would love that.

 

[romantic_always]

Yeah, he knows them, and I know his.

 

[MisterSir]

That's a good question. K already knows most of my likes, but I'm waiting until next week before I start thinking of her as my significant other, and it'll take some time on top of that before she becomes my statistically significant other.

...sorry. That's what passes for mathematical humour, I nicked it from XKCD. All I knows is that it makes me smile.

 

[TrueFox]

If I had one, he would know. I want one to know everything.

 

[shewantsmore]

always best if you have some secrets left untold

 

[mylaceratedheart]

Nope, but it's early days. With a little bit of luck he won't run away screaming.

 

[badgirl_lucy]

Yes, my Husband knows all about me. Interestingly though he knew what I thought was my darkest corners very quickly without me even telling him - then helped me to realise that actually I had been hiding from myself and I was in fact far more peverted than I had wanted to admit to myself