Question: Using a Hook???

[chrprov]

Ok,

I have a new gf and she revealed to me a submissive side and we started down the BDSM road. I have had a few lovers that enjoyed bondage, spankings, anal play and some humilation or sexual dominance. So far my new gf seems to like all of this and I have gradually expanded things. In some of our recent talks she mentioned a pussy or ass hook and i did som searching on-line about it. Can't seem to find anything definitive, but it seems the device is mainly used to cause discomfort on its own or in concert with some type of bondage combination. What I want to know is if I am correct in this.

Thanks in advance for the help.

 

[KinkyRascal]

Check out...

...hogtied.com and their associated sites like sex and submission, they use them quite often.

 

[Essene]

Ok,

I have a new gf and she revealed to me a submissive side and we started down the BDSM road. I have had a few lovers that enjoyed bondage, spankings, anal play and some humilation or sexual dominance. So far my new gf seems to like all of this and I have gradually expanded things. In some of our recent talks she mentioned a pussy or ass hook and i did som searching on-line about it. Can't seem to find anything definitive, but it seems the device is mainly used to cause discomfort on its own or in concert with some type of bondage combination. What I want to know is if I am correct in this.

Thanks in advance for the help.

There have been several mentions of this in the Talk forum in the past. You might want to see if it's in the archives by using the "search" function.

Yes they do exist, but in no way should they ever ever ever be used for load/weight bearing. Serious injury can result.

 

[Homburg]

Yes, using them for weight bearing is a quick way to cause a perforation. Perforations are bad. They are intended to humiliate and cause discomfort. Do NOT use them as attachment points, and be EXTREMELY careful when using them in situations where your bottom may fall or tip over.

 

[Etoile]

NEVER NEVER NEVER use a hook for anything weight bearing. NEVER. EVER.

 

[sinnocence]

*whines and shivers* Why oh why the hooks?

 

[unregistered]

 

[sinnocence]

Cause... Cruel = Fun Maybe...?

I understand that. I just said that because I don't really care for them.

 

[MasterTennessee]

I don't have any experience here, but you can see them in action on sexandsubmission & whippedass sites.

 

[Hotch]

Fucking scary. Better be certain your knots are sound. Get the direction of pressure wrong or have a tie slip the wrong way and that hook is going to cause emergency surgery.

 

[Etoile]

Every time this thread pops up in my email inbox (I'm subscribed to it) I keep thinking it means crochet hook.

 

[Dreamliner]

Don't even think about going there. The pics you see are staged. RL, you will do damage.

 

[Etoile]

Don't even think about going there. The pics you see are staged. RL, you will do damage.

I haven't seen the pictures in question, but just because some pictures were staged doesn't mean anal hooks cannot be used safely. You will not always do damage from using one...only if you use it improperly. Now it may be that these photos show what appears to be weight-bearing use of a hook, and that WILL do damage as has been said multiple times already. But anal hooks are not inherently unsafe, it is only misuse that would make them so.

 

[BiBunny]

Can I be stupid for a second? What's the point of a hook?

Duh, you obviously can't do anything weight-bearing with it. So it basically amounts to a curved dildo that you can tie loose ends to, right?

I don't get it.

 

[Etoile]

Can I be stupid for a second? What's the point of a hook?

Duh, you obviously can't do anything weight-bearing with it. So it basically amounts to a curved dildo that you can tie loose ends to, right?

I don't get it.

I think the point is that it should seem weight bearing. The weight would actually be held by other methods of getting somebody off the ground, and then the hook is placed so that if the person lets their full feet touch down (vs just tiptoes) they would be rudely impaled. Or something like that. Hard to describe, but I can picture it in my head!

 

[HarlotMinx]

NEVER NEVER NEVER use a hook for anything weight bearing. NEVER. EVER.

Pshhhhh Of COURSE you can use hooks for weight bearing..... well assuming you're willing use.... say these hooks.

-poppet

P.S. PLEASE, PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF WHATEVER YOU WORSHIP, DO NOT USE SUSPENSION HOOKS ANALLY....

 

[Etoile]

Pshhhhh Of COURSE you can use hooks for weight bearing..... well assuming you're willing use.... say these hooks.

-poppet

HA! I was hoping when I saw your post that you'd be talking about something like that.

Oh man, now I'm going to be looking at barbells and shields now...

 

[HarlotMinx]

HA! I was hoping when I saw your post that you'd be talking about something like that.

Oh man, now I'm going to be looking at barbells and shields now...

There and there. Never let it be said I'm not helpful.

-poppet

 

[Etoile]

There and there. Never let it be said I'm not helpful.

-poppet

LOL! Man, I see all the cool 14g stuff and I really feel like I should taper up from my 16g. All my holes are 16g.

 

[HarlotMinx]

LOL! Man, I see all the cool 14g stuff and I really feel like I should taper up from my 16g. All my holes are 16g.

14 is a fairly decent size, though I've never been a fan of anything larger. And actually I have very few body piercing of my own.... just a lot of temp piercings. It's always been more about the needle than the jewelry for me. However, you reminded me to look for a ring for a nostril piercing I've been planing.

-poppet

 

[pussy_liquor]

The hook turns me on. I'd like the wife to hook me while I'm fucking her and gently tug! That's one of my hook fantasies.

 

[Essene]

Can I be stupid for a second? What's the point of a hook?

Duh, you obviously can't do anything weight-bearing with it. So it basically amounts to a curved dildo that you can tie loose ends to, right?

I don't get it.

I think the point is that it should seem weight bearing. The weight would actually be held by other methods of getting somebody off the ground, and then the hook is placed so that if the person lets their full feet touch down (vs just tiptoes) they would be rudely impaled. Or something like that. Hard to describe, but I can picture it in my head!

*nod*

Yeah I see it as totally a psychological thing, yanno, where the sadist is all like : "Har har har" and the maso is all like "Oh noes I've been impaled!!!!" It's all pretend-sexy-dangerous.

I can also imagine a hook being far more useful when enacting a Dolcett fantasy vs. a glitter pink dildo.

 

[myinnerslut]

i think this is the sort of thing they are intended for:
http://rainbowrope.com/images/tail1a.jpg

picture from the rainbow ropes website. (enter>products>metal ware). they sell a few different types and stress after each one that they are NOT for weight bearing.

i think the cool thing about them is the ring at the top for bondage work. i can think of a few ways it could be used to anchor rope that wrapped around the body. if you tie a line to the top after insertion and the run it over your shoulder or tie it to something around your waist then it will stay in place without holding weight. it looks like a neat idea to me.

 

[HarlotMinx]

picture from the rainbow ropes website. (enter>products>metal ware). they sell a few different types and stress after each one that they are NOT for weight bearing.

i think the cool thing about them is the ring at the top for bondage work. i can think of a few ways it could be used to anchor rope that wrapped around the body. if you tie a line to the top after insertion and the run it over your shoulder or tie it to something around your waist then it will stay in place without holding weight. it looks like a neat idea to me.

I'm sorry but that picture just makes me wince. I mean, don't get me wrong, I love anal hooks and think they're sexy as hell.... It's just I'm looking at that picture and waiting for the first whip crack that makes her head jerk, just seems like that's going to end up with a painful wedgy.

-poppet

 

[ecstaticsub]

I would feel much safer with an anal hook with a ball at the end rather than ones that are just a hook. I would find the whole idea of having a hook with a large ball inserted into my ass and then attached to my collar while on all fours and then whipped to be rather humiliating and very exciting.