hints on punishment

[loneranger8921]

I am looking for ideas on what would be different punishments for my sub
small heels?
bengay on tits and other body parts anyother ideas?
for dicipline purposes other than spanking

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Here's a hint: Try to find out what kind(s) of thing(s) would be punishment for her. That may seem kind of elementary, but let me assure you, what is a severe punishment for one person is pure screaming pleasure for another. For example, moderate swats with a belt is pleasurable pain for many; for others, though, anything with a belt is either punishment or even a hard limit.

It all goes back to the mantra:

Communicate. CoMmUnIcAtE. COMMUNI-fuckin'-CATE!

Talk to her, learn what her hard and soft limits are, learn what is desirable, what is desperately wanted/needed, learn what will bring her to tears before it even begins (in the realm of punishment).

I've had a pyl who I could not punish physically...she got off on it. But for me to tell her I was disappointed in her, and (on occasion) have her write about her unacceptable behavior and explain why it was unacceptable brought her near to the breaking point. And never once did she repeat one of those behaviors.

Let me reiterate:

Communicate. CoMmUnIcAtE. COMMUNI-fuckin'-CATE!

 

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[Homburg]

Can we get a sticky covering "Please tell me how to punish!" threads? These things are absurdly tiresome.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Can we get a sticky covering "Please tell me how to punish!" threads? These things are absurdly tiresome.

What he said.

 

[CutieMouse]

Can we get a sticky covering "Please tell me how to punish!" threads? These things are absurdly tiresome.

Try hanging out here a few more years...

 

[Homburg]

You are raining on my parade.

 

[CutieMouse]

You are raining on my parade.

I was sorely tempted to go all eloquently postal on the GB troll in the Cafe instead, but decided against it.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Try hanging out here a few more years...

ditto, n00b.

 

[CutieMouse]

ditto, n00b.

*snort*

 

[Homburg]

I was sorely tempted to go all eloquently postal on the GB troll in the Cafe instead, but decided against it.

I laughed over the "you are so original" comment from some git using another poster's av and making the same tired BSDM lines.

--

ditto, n00b.

Uncle Rosco! Tell us a story of the olden days!

 

[rosco rathbone]

Uncle Rosco! Tell us a story of the olden days!

cymbidia....johnny whatsisname and whatshername.......wheese hack cough.

Quint!

We had to walk through the snow just to get to a munch.

 

[Homburg]

Snow? What's that, Uncle Rosco?

 

[Sir_Winston54]

cymbidia....johnny whatsisname and whatshername.......wheese hack cough.

Quint!

We had to walk through the snow just to get to a munch.

Five miles, uphill both ways?

 

[rosco rathbone]

I'm seriously blanking out. Johnny something and his annoying girlfriend, who was sub librarian for a while. Her name started with A. His av looked like a melting Oscar.

 

[Kajira Callista]

We had to walk through the snow just to get to a munch.

bareassed!


and I miss quint. *sigh*

 

[Adakgirl]

But for me to tell her I was disappointed in her, and (on occasion) have her write about her unacceptable behavior and explain why it was unacceptable brought her near to the breaking point. And never once did she repeat one of those behaviors.

BINGO! This is exactly what works on me. Along with a firm lecture.