That occasional slap to the face to keep her in line...

[Over_Lord]

... does anyone else here use it and do they get as much of a buzz from it as she and I used to..?

 

[gingermango]

My Goddess/wife uses it from time to time when the kids aren't around.

We both get a tremendous erotic rush from it . . . for us, it is almost the ultimate corporal punishment in the best psychological sense. Not quite as good for her as having me drop my pants and bend over for a spanking, but very close.

 

[Bandit58]

Hard limit here, not just to me but Him as well.

 

[BiBunny]

To keep me in line? No. I don't need to be slapped around to know my place.

Because I get goosebumps all over my whole body at the display of power of me when he does it? Yes.

One of the greatest moments ever was when he slapped me hard enough to make me see stars and make my head snap back. My hands were bound behind my back, and I was standing in front of him. My knees got weak; I almost fell on my ass. He grinned his little sarcastic smile and said, "I'm the only man in the world who can get away with that."

THAT is why we do it.

 

[ecstaticsub]

No. I have never set it as a limit but I can not even begin to imagine that he would ever slap my face. Too much of a risk for real injury.

 

[Sir_Winston54]

To keep me in line? No. I don't need to be slapped around to know my place.

Because I get goosebumps all over my whole body at the display of power of me when he does it? Yes.

One of the greatest moments ever was when he slapped me hard enough to make me see stars and make my head snap back. My hands were bound behind my back, and I was standing in front of him. My knees got weak; I almost fell on my ass. He grinned his little sarcastic smile and said, "I'm the only man in the world who can get away with that."

THAT is why we do it.

Quoted for truthiness, and because it made me grin.

If I can't keep a pyl in line with my voice, we're not a couple. But then, I don't often use any type of corporal punishment for discipline. When I do, it's a pretty serious matter, and a slap just wouldn't do it. No... What Bunz said above ("goosebumps ... at the display of power") is what it would be for me.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Master has quite a thing for slapping my face, with his hand and sometimes with his cock. It's not so much to keep me in place as to get my full attention and prevent me from zoning out into subspace. It's a light rebuke that tells me if I have misinterpreted an instruction or failed in my service in some minor fashion. Being slapped with his cock is also a rush because it feels so humiliating and derogatory.

The slap is always light but sharp and sometimes he holds my chin in place while he administers it. Only his fingers strike my face, he never gives me a full, open handed slap to the face and he doesn't backhand my face either. I don't think there's much scope for serious injury if the PYL is careful and I speak as an epileptic for whom blows to the head are potentially very dangerous.

When I was new to BDSM I thought that this would be an enduring hard limit but now I really enjoy being slapped and reminded forcibly of my place and the consequences of failing to please him. Master also likes to spit and piss on my face sometimes and it gives me the same sense of being only as valuable as the quality of my service to him. We used to enjoy breathplay but have given it up as I have had issues related to my epilepsy that make it a very bad idea. I used to get the same feeling from his hand around my throat, of being owned and potentially disposable.

Very hot.

 

[IsabellaKing]

To keep me in line? No. I don't need to be slapped around to know my place.

Because I get goosebumps all over my whole body at the display of power of me when he does it? Yes.

One of the greatest moments ever was when he slapped me hard enough to make me see stars and make my head snap back. My hands were bound behind my back, and I was standing in front of him. My knees got weak; I almost fell on my ass. He grinned his little sarcastic smile and said, "I'm the only man in the world who can get away with that."

THAT is why we do it.

That's kinda hot.

But, as a general rule, face slapping feels wrong to me. If he slapped my face I think I'd be hard pushed to stop myself from slapping back - and if my hands were tied I'd kick.

 

[rida]

I wrote my first thought on the matter in this post within this thread "Face Slapping"

As for an answer more in line with the OP:
Hubby has never slapped my face, and I don't think it will happen anytime soon (than again he suddenly develops a taste for things previously not even on his radar so I cannot be sure). With the Sadist (something between Top/bottom and D/s) face slaps are now used as a way to quickly put me in the right mind frame or to correct a behavioral slip such as looking at him when not allowed or not answering fast enough (although the crop also get used for this), but mostly just because he enjoys them.

 

[subxboi]

I like it a lot in theory, but my express permission would have to be given before administering one to my cheek, lest I break a well-meaning Dom's hand. n_n;;

 

[ecstaticsub]

Master has quite a thing for slapping my face, with his hand and sometimes with his cock. It's not so much to keep me in place as to get my full attention and prevent me from zoning out into subspace. It's a light rebuke that tells me if I have misinterpreted an instruction or failed in my service in some minor fashion. Being slapped with his cock is also a rush because it feels so humiliating and derogatory.

The slap is always light but sharp and sometimes he holds my chin in place while he administers it. Only his fingers strike my face, he never gives me a full, open handed slap to the face and he doesn't backhand my face either. I don't think there's much scope for serious injury if the PYL is careful and I speak as an epileptic for whom blows to the head are potentially very dangerous.

When I was new to BDSM I thought that this would be an enduring hard limit but now I really enjoy being slapped and reminded forcibly of my place and the consequences of failing to please him. Master also likes to spit and piss on my face sometimes and it gives me the same sense of being only as valuable as the quality of my service to him. We used to enjoy breathplay but have given it up as I have had issues related to my epilepsy that make it a very bad idea. I used to get the same feeling from his hand around my throat, of being owned and potentially disposable.

Very hot.

I do get my face slapped often with his cock.

Reading your comment I can see whee face slapping may be done safely. I guess for me I can't really imagine my PYL doing it because he is more of a all or nothing type of impact inflicter. When he hits, he hits hard, all the time. There is never any light slaps to the ass or light floggings. It is always hard or much harder. Maybe he knows any slap he would make to my face would most likely be too hard for either of us.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I like to hold that one in reserve. THere's a temptation to overuse it, but I really like it to mean something.

 

[Guest]

Those harsh slaps to the clit do more than a face slap ever could.

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

Those harsh slaps to the clit do more than a face slap ever could.

Boy do they! I got a clit/pussy slapping for saying something I shouldn't have and the sting lasted for two whole days. It stings now just thinking about it

 

[Over_Lord]

Well, I don't claim to be in a current relationship but, from what I can remember of my last one, I had a light face slap developed to a fine art. It had to be enough to produce a little sting but NOT so much as to leave any bruise... she had marital commitments elsewhere.

It would be administered on random occasions and, by 'in line' I mean it was the standard physical tool used to maintain the natural order between us. I have little doubt that she actually looked forward to it and it took some ingenuity to produce it at times when she was expecting it least.

 

[ZoGoZo]

I do get my face slapped often with his cock.

To be slapped in the face with a hard cock is a sensation that is both physically and mentally well remembered.

Those harsh slaps to the clit do more than a face slap ever could.

My cunt was so swollen from at least twenty lashes with a small crop to my clit and cunt last week that it was swollen humongous and red for several days. I most definately have to be in my subspace to receive such treatment and when I do it is like an enormous never ending 'O'. Plus after which my awareness is so heightened and I am so sensitive any little action sends me easily, even walking. I am, as Master says, such a good pain slut

 

[Homburg]

I like to hold that one in reserve. THere's a temptation to overuse it, but I really like it to mean something.

Quoted for truth.

 

[im_a_voyeur]

The only time I enjoy being slapped in the face is during sex. It brings on the tears in a cathartic way for me. Outside of that, it would have to be something really extreme for me to believe I deserve a slap to the face. Maybe like lying or being flagrantly disrespectful. Otherwise, the tiger comes out and I'm boxing. My parents rarely used corporal punishment on me so I have a hard time accepting physical violence just because you're mad and feel like kicking a puppy.

 

[incubus666]

Slave and I have been together for nearly 10 years. 2 yrs. long distant. 4 yrs. living together and nearly 4 yrs married.

I fairly recently discovered her love of having her face slapped. It puts her in a much more submissive head space. Kinda reminds her of who she is. She loves it and I like it too.

Nothing like some of the full roundhouse slaps you sometimes see in the movies. Just little short stingy ones so she know who she and who I am. I am always careful with my toys cuz if you break them then you can't play with them.

I just read her the comment from CM. She said "Oh yeah, Damn now I have goose bumps all over."

So like so much of BDSM, what ever turns you on.

Works for us.

 

[tenchikoi]

I have no desire for anyone to slap me in the face. I would be most offended and pissed off. I may be small, but if any man did that to me he's going to get messed up in a big way. But I do enjoy having my bottom swatted hard on occasion as a reminder that my man wears the pants in the family.

 

[Over_Lord]

The last two remarks show the 'infinite variety' of human response.

They get the same feeling from different 'acts'.

In other words, we're all different and long may it remain so.

 

[daddysgirl83]

love it

i for one love having my face slapped. the instant humility i feel, hanging my head because i know i have displeased Him. it's quite a rush of emotions all in one little slap. whether it be His hand or His cock - both create the same reaction. if i dare to smart off i can be certain that by the words have left my lips, His hand has connected with my cheek. but as others have said ... whatever works for you. some like it, some dont. and others like myself, long for it!

 

[Moehrchen]

I like face slaps, it does not depend with me on the strength. I like simply the Symbolig them behind it stands. For me one is the very intimate and intense moment which one reaches, however, only with love.

greets

moehrchen

 

[Netzach]

I use faceslapping to drop T and H like rocks. Nothing too out there, they both just drop. I can flip T with it any time.

And I never strike M like that, no good comes of this.

It's completely different for different people and it's often a landmine.

As for me, I don't mind it as part of aggressive chick sex, personally. It's kind of hot.

Men slapping me in the face is not forthcoming in this lifetime, it's not remotely T's style, and that's that.

 

[midwestyankee]

Those harsh slaps to the clit do more than a face slap ever could.

Boy do they! I got a clit/pussy slapping for saying something I shouldn't have and the sting lasted for two whole days. It stings now just thinking about it

My cunt was so swollen from at least twenty lashes with a small crop to my clit and cunt last week that it was swollen humongous and red for several days. I most definately have to be in my subspace to receive such treatment and when I do it is like an enormous never ending 'O'. Plus after which my awareness is so heightened and I am so sensitive any little action sends me easily, even walking. I am, as Master says, such a good pain slut

Indeed....it's at times like this that a single strand of menthol-flavored dental floss can be an effective flogger.

Face slapping is simply not a part of my vocabulary. It's unnecessary in any event.