What Turns you on? (Fetishes)

[rosco rathbone]

areas of interest

I have a coercive paraphilia. This means I can only become aroused when taking a woman by force, either physical force or otherwise.

Under physical force falls rape play, obviously

"victorian era sex" play ie woman's orgasm unimportant/lie back and think of england/"boring" 1950s sex

Under non-physical force, any kind of scenario involving coercion of one kind of another, ie I'm the landlord and the rent is late, strip club owner interviewing dancer, etc

harems and traditional (female submissive) societies

woman as shared sexual object between men. under this falls "black philanthropy"...lending my woman out to sexually disadvantaged or needy men

closely related is pimping and sex-work related activity

peeping tomism

 

[Ronnie_4]

I am a married submissive male. I don’t know if these are fetishes or just the things that I enjoy. But here is a list of what I like :

Submission to my Wife. I do call her mistress. I have come to think of myself as being owned by her.

Masturbating, either by myself or putting on a show for my Wife. Also love to watch her masturbate with her dildo.

Oral sex. I love fucking my Wife with my tongue.

Denial. I have not had vaginal sex for several years. My Wife prefers her dildo and or my tongue.

Cum. I love the taste of it. Snowballing, creampies I always clean up my mess.

Shaving. I love to keep my body smooth and hairfree.

Lingerie, especially panties. Love how they caress my balls.

Anal. I love fingers, butt plugs, dildos and rimming.

Strapon play. Both oral and anal. Makes my feel very feminine and submissive.

Ronnie

 

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[BlueEyesEternal]

Grammar police here! There's a ton of serious violations going on on this thread! This must stop immediately!

Per Dictionary.com:

"A fetish is something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

Basically "books" is the first correct response to this thread. Most of you are describing kinky play you enjoy, not listing non-sexual objects that cause you to get turned on. If you aren't talking about something that you can smell, see, or touch, you probably aren't talking about a fetish.

Personally, I have a metal fetish. Body piercings, rings, necklaces, cuffs, chains, spreader bars, nipple clamps, anything made of metal really gets me going. I love Industrial's avatar Mmmm chains...

 

[CutieMouse]

Grammar police here! There's a ton of serious violations going on on this thread! This must stop immediately!

Per Dictionary.com:

"A fetish is something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

Basically "books" is the first correct response to this thread. Most of you are describing kinky play you enjoy, not listing non-sexual objects that cause you to get turned on. If you aren't talking about something that you can smell, see, or touch, you probably aren't talking about a fetish.

Personally, I have a metal fetish. Body piercings, rings, necklaces, cuffs, chains, spreader bars, nipple clamps, anything made of metal really gets me going. I love Industrial's avatar Mmmm chains...

(Although books fall under the "arousal" category rather than the "necessary" category...)

 

[WCHSP]

Grammar police here! There's a ton of serious violations going on on this thread! This must stop immediately!

Per Dictionary.com:

"A fetish is something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."

Basically "books" is the first correct response to this thread. Most of you are describing kinky play you enjoy, not listing non-sexual objects that cause you to get turned on. If you aren't talking about something that you can smell, see, or touch, you probably aren't talking about a fetish.

Personally, I have a metal fetish. Body piercings, rings, necklaces, cuffs, chains, spreader bars, nipple clamps, anything made of metal really gets me going. I love Industrial's avatar Mmmm chains...

Grammar was made to describe the way people speak, not speech to conform to grammar. If popular usage disagrees with the dictionary, the dictionary is wrong.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Grammar was made to describe the way people speak, not speech to conform to grammar. If popular usage disagrees with the dictionary, the dictionary is wrong.

No, it depends on context.

Try writing a story for the New York Times with nonstandard grammar or word usage.

 

[lilylicious]

If you want to know what sexual activities turn me on, there are too many to list!

However, here are a few of my non sexual / fetishes:

Devoted daddies.
There's just something about a man with a lunchbox in one hand and his child's hand in his other that is so hot. I love men who talk about how wonderful their children are and who clearly enjoy being a father.

Hands.
My eyes are somehow instantly drawn to someone's hands and nice hands are a huge turn on for me.

The lower back.
This is just a beautiful area of the body, particularly on someone who is toned that has those two fabulous dimples there.

Men doing manly things like fixing things or moving large objects.
Yeah yeah yeah. I know this isn't necessarily the most enlightened thing I've ever said here but I can't help it. I like it when men do manly kinds of things.

Intelligence.
There is nothing hotter than a smart guy or woman. They can be talking about something completely non sexual but if they are speaking intelligently, somehow their hotness factor goes up significantly for me.

 

[Pr3ttykitten13]

I have a coercive paraphilia. This means I can only become aroused when taking a woman by force, either physical force or otherwise.

Under physical force falls rape play, obviously

"victorian era sex" play ie woman's orgasm unimportant/lie back and think of england/"boring" 1950s sex

Under non-physical force, any kind of scenario involving coercion of one kind of another, ie I'm the landlord and the rent is late, strip club owner interviewing dancer, etc

harems and traditional (female submissive) societies

woman as shared sexual object between men. under this falls "black philanthropy"...lending my woman out to sexually disadvantaged or needy men

closely related is pimping and sex-work related activity

peeping tomism

Very hot fetishes

 

[ataxia.girl]

Daddy...

and His thing.

 

[ataxia.girl]

I have a coercive paraphilia. This means I can only become aroused when taking a woman by force, either physical force or otherwise.

Under physical force falls rape play, obviously

"victorian era sex" play ie woman's orgasm unimportant/lie back and think of england/"boring" 1950s sex

Under non-physical force, any kind of scenario involving coercion of one kind of another, ie I'm the landlord and the rent is late, strip club owner interviewing dancer, etc

harems and traditional (female submissive) societies

woman as shared sexual object between men. under this falls "black philanthropy"...lending my woman out to sexually disadvantaged or needy men

closely related is pimping and sex-work related activity

peeping tomism

yea... see... this is all just really hot.

Rosco is one of those men my Daddy has warn me about but its just so hard to stay away

 

[castagnus]

If you want to know what sexual activities turn me on, there are too many to list!

However, here are a few of my non sexual / fetishes:

Devoted daddies.
There's just something about a man with a lunchbox in one hand and his child's hand in his other that is so hot. I love men who talk about how wonderful their children are and who clearly enjoy being a father.

Hands.
My eyes are somehow instantly drawn to someone's hands and nice hands are a huge turn on for me.

The lower back.
This is just a beautiful area of the body, particularly on someone who is toned that has those two fabulous dimples there.

Men doing manly things like fixing things or moving large objects.
Yeah yeah yeah. I know this isn't necessarily the most enlightened thing I've ever said here but I can't help it. I like it when men do manly kinds of things.

Intelligence.
There is nothing hotter than a smart guy or woman. They can be talking about something completely non sexual but if they are speaking intelligently, somehow their hotness factor goes up significantly for me.

From the man's side, I am very turned on by women who are good mothers and put their children first. This was the main reason, 15 years ago, I married a lady with 4 young children and we soon had our own - whom I helped deliver durinmg a 20 minute perfect birth. It also turned out she was delightfully submissive and a real pain slut, and we had married bliss for about 7 years. Unfortunately she divorced me a few years ago, although I now have primary custody of a wonderful exuberant young boy who brings me much joy every day.

I also share your "sapio-sexual" fetish, being turned on by super intelligent women !

 

[HotheadKali]

From the man's side, I am very turned on by women who are good mothers and put their children first. This was the main reason, 15 years ago, I married a lady with 4 young children and we soon had our own - whom I helped deliver durinmg a 20 minute perfect birth. It also turned out she was delightfully submissive and a real pain slut, and we had married bliss for about 7 years. Unfortunately she divorced me a few years ago, although I now have primary custody of a wonderful exuberant young boy who brings me much joy every day.

I also share your "sapio-sexual" fetish, being turned on by super intelligent women !

I agree with these sentiments; I'm turned on by women or men who have their priorities in order. I'm always drawn to people who have enthusiasm for knowledge.

And yeah, super-intelligent people get me every time. I'm especially attracted to very intelligent older people; my earliest example I can think of is my 8th grade science teacher that I was madly in love with. She was barely 30 years old, had multiple degrees, and had hand-done the circuiting for her entire house. Needless to say, I was smitten the whole year and didn't even notice that the boy sitting next to me was trying to flirt with me because I was too busy staring at her.

Also, for some reason...history teachers. People who are good with history and science turn me on. I have no idea why.

I think being able to have an intelligent discussion with a person is the sexiest thing you can do, though.

Oh, and I like men in stockings. One of many other fetishes. XD

 

[Betticus]

A soft, slow, gentle, subtle mindfuck... The kind you don't see coming until it's far too late.

Also, oral.
Also, cute panties on a girl... yummy!
Also, playful lil skinny tomboy girls <3 I almost fall over when I see em. They're like feisty kittens

 

[eastern sun]

A soft, slow, gentle, subtle mindfuck... The kind you don't see coming until it's far too late.

Hear. Hear.

A good mindfuck . . . from a penetrating mind . . . (blissful sigh)

I love the naked confusion it brings.

Oh, and all things shaped like a bishop.


I've always had a hard time concentrating while playing chess.

 

[midwestyankee]

Books.

Unless you rub them over your pussy it doesn't qualify as "fetish". Care to share?

No one ever believes me when I say "books".

(Although books fall under the "arousal" category rather than the "necessary" category...)

I have no fetishes of which I'm aware. What excites me is always of or about a person and not a thing.

However, since this thread seems to be much more about kinky behavior than about fetishes, I'll toss this contribution into the heap: it excites me to cause a helpless woman (perhaps bound, perhaps bound only by her submission to my will) psychological or physical pain. Reading this string of posts that started with CM's "Books" entry, I imagined a scene in which she lay helpless while I slowly, methodically, and with apparent glee destroy a beautifully bound classic book - perhaps a century old leather-bound copy of a Victorian erotic novel. Yes, that would do it just nicely.

Of course, the snarky part of my personality would have me turn this into a ginormous mind-fuck because I love books far too much to actually ruin one. I'd have to go to some lengths to create a faux version of said leather-bound classic and pull a switcheroo on her in medias res.

 

[CutieMouse]

I have no fetishes of which I'm aware. What excites me is always of or about a person and not a thing.

However, since this thread seems to be much more about kinky behavior than about fetishes, I'll toss this contribution into the heap: it excites me to cause a helpless woman (perhaps bound, perhaps bound only by her submission to my will) psychological or physical pain. Reading this string of posts that started with CM's "Books" entry, I imagined a scene in which she lay helpless while I slowly, methodically, and with apparent glee destroy a beautifully bound classic book - perhaps a century old leather-bound copy of a Victorian erotic novel. Yes, that would do it just nicely.

Of course, the snarky part of my personality would have me turn this into a ginormous mind-fuck because I love books far too much to actually ruin one. I'd have to go to some lengths to create a faux version of said leather-bound classic and pull a switcheroo on her in medias res.

That is really really really mean.

Re: the book "thing"... sigh. Yes, I really do get aroused [literally] when around books printed prior to 1750. For some reason the modern ones do very little for me (although technically a 1750 biding is modern).Then you get into things like this, or paper cuts, or playing with all sorts of everyday pervertables like bone folders, bookbinders knives, glue brushes, leather, [heavy] four cord bindings...

Odd, odd little mind.

 

[BlueEyesEternal]

Odd, odd little mind.

I like your odd little mind Especially when it's located in a beautiful body wearing glasses. I think I might have a glasses fetish too...

 

[Raisin7734]

As far as traditional, conventional fetishes go-if one were to go by the strict definition of a "fetish" the closest thing I have is a hand "thing". I love men who have long slender fingers, the backs of the hands have a lot of strong veins across them, bony knuckles, and rough skin-I just have this hand "thing". Red hair on a man is also guaranteed to make me wet.

What turns me on in general?

object insertion/stretching
being forced to serve many men at once.
being drenched in cum.
being bound and used/abused in a "party" setting
giving really good oral-I really like to suck dick. It's a power thing.
I have serious and sick rape fantasies.
nipple torture.

 

[ataxia.girl]

Waking up to having my panties pulled down, him climbing on top of me, putting his hand over my mouth and telling me shhhhh while he fucks my brains out.

When he walks in the bedroom after i'm already in bed, instead of leaving the door open as usual i hear him lock it. i love that click.

Half way through either of the above scenarios being forcibly turned over and fucked from behind. i absolutely melt being dragged around a bed. Being pulled sideways so my head falls off the side and having my throat fucked is also good.

i sometimes think of myself as just sort of a handy little attachment to the bed. While the above are my favorites i also enjoy following simple orders. i find lots of props or complicated scenes kind of annoying and dull. A piece of rope and a princess crown is plenty.

 

[lilylicious]

I love men who have long slender fingers, the backs of the hands have a lot of strong veins across them, bony knuckles, and rough skin-I just have this hand "thing". Red hair on a man is also guaranteed to make me wet.

Yes to your oh so hot description of nice hands. Yum!

Redheads! So glad you mentioned that!

 

[Pr3ttykitten13]

hip bones are very hot also rawr something about seeing/feeling them turns me on!!

Does it do that to anyone else?
http://s.a.cnn.net/si/features/2004_swimsuit/images/gallery/lg/siss04_marisa_mid_2.jpg

 

[kara24]

Belts !

I have loads, but the one which is above all others, is belts!

In the "dictionary" type meaning of fetish, this sits perfectly! Any belt, (only on a guy and expecially in jeans) will do it for me, every time.

Straight away, my mind wanders, and I imagine myself bound and helpless as he draws it slowly, out through the loops, and then snaps it in front of my eyes.

Oh God !

kara x

 

[ataxia.girl]

Straight away, my mind wanders, and I imagine myself bound and helpless as he draws it slowly, out through the loops, and then snaps it in front of my eyes.

mmmmm belts ARE good

Fast is good too. Like from out of nowhere he just pulls it out and starts beating. No warm up, no teasing. i like abrupt displays of power.

 

[Pr3ttykitten13]

Bondage
Erotic wrestling/fighting
Pain, especially involving my testicles or her pussy or nipples
Rape roleplay

The above going either direction. I also like to bite a lot, but I prefer to be the giver.
You sound like my kind of kitten. I should state for the record that I've got a vampiric thing going on (skinny, toned, pale skin, long hair, nocturnal, like to bite and generally sadistic) but have never really had the opportunity to explore it sexually. Think you could handle me?

Damn you sound hott haha I do believe I can handle you though

real question is: can you handle me? lol