Guys How Do You Do It.

Pinktacokitty

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You see a girl, she is hot sexy beautiful and you want her . How do you go about getting her in bed.:cattail:
 
You mean lines?? I have none. If I am at a bar or soemthing, I just introduce myself, pay her a compliment and talk to her. If she is into me, it happens, if not it doesn't.
 
It usually starts with eye contact and it seems like it takes care of itself from there.
 
i say hi, date her for 3 years n lose my virginity to her (took hers too btw).
 
You have about ten seconds to take in her body language and figure out what she wants.

Then go give it to her. Eye contact is a must, as is understanding her desire. Does she want a bad boy who will take her before they even leave the bar? Does she want a lap dog who's going to obey and do as she says? Does she want someone she won't regret waking to in the morning?

Times up. Hope you guessed right.
 
You have about ten seconds to take in her body language and figure out what she wants.

Then go give it to her. Eye contact is a must, as is understanding her desire. Does she want a bad boy who will take her before they even leave the bar? Does she want a lap dog who's going to obey and do as she says? Does she want someone she won't regret waking to in the morning?

Times up. Hope you guessed right.
Number one and three if she is in the zone, number two if she wants to just play around a bit.:rose::kiss: Very good answer. You do know she has already picked her companion for the evening before you approach her, you can't change her mind if you are not the one, but you can screw it up if you are.
 
i approach her and introduce myself and if she has friends talk to them too....make them laugh then give her the look...
 
I agree. If you are not the one, then you have no chance. If you are and you have made eye contact, then you go talk to her. I just be myself, make her laugh, flirt, and compliment her (honestly, don't make up some dumb line). If things go well, ask her if she would like to get out of there... if you haven't blown it, then she is in for a wonderful night. ;)
 
Generally....I don't. All kidding aside, I'm for a relationship first before a roll in the hay.
 
Depends on the girl

This much I do know. If a girl digs me, it's nothing I did. What I mean to say is...whatever approach you take is useless if the girl doesn't find you inherently attractive. I love when people tell you to ignore her etc. That only works if she's already into you. Otherwise...shes more then happy you ignored her.

If we are talking about in the real world, the most amount of girls I meet is at my job. I'm a bartender. And yes, you do meet a lot of hot women. Who have boyfriends. Who have former boyfriends they go to the bar just to "run into". Who are coke fiends. Who hate sex but love attention. Who couldn't care less you're the bartender. Who just want a free drink. Who think you're cute but would NEVER sleep with a bartender. Etc.

So that rules them out. BUT here's what I do always try and do with every girl I'm attracted to I meet at work. I always keep things sexual. I flirt. I make sexy borderline inappropriate comments. I get explicit or implicit. Whatever. The point is...I always want them to think of me as a sexual being. That may turn some off. But they never think of me as friend guy. That's the kiss of death you can never come back from.

And I'll tell my new policy since i got single. I'm through dating. I tried it. It sucks. If a girl really is interested she won't put you through that. And she wont put herself through it. She'll just want to see you. Make out with you. Fuck you. Watch a movie with you. All in one afternoon. That's a girl I want to hang with. A lot.

Is this the long answer to a short question:)

Anyways, thats for real life. Now meeting a girl in cyberspace...totally different...
 
This much I do know. If a girl digs me, it's nothing I did. What I mean to say is...whatever approach you take is useless if the girl doesn't find you inherently attractive. I love when people tell you to ignore her etc. That only works if she's already into you. Otherwise...shes more then happy you ignored her.

If we are talking about in the real world, the most amount of girls I meet is at my job. I'm a bartender. And yes, you do meet a lot of hot women. Who have boyfriends. Who have former boyfriends they go to the bar just to "run into". Who are coke fiends. Who hate sex but love attention. Who couldn't care less you're the bartender. Who just want a free drink. Who think you're cute but would NEVER sleep with a bartender. Etc.

So that rules them out. BUT here's what I do always try and do with every girl I'm attracted to I meet at work. I always keep things sexual. I flirt. I make sexy borderline inappropriate comments. I get explicit or implicit. Whatever. The point is...I always want them to think of me as a sexual being. That may turn some off. But they never think of me as friend guy. That's the kiss of death you can never come back from.

And I'll tell my new policy since i got single. I'm through dating. I tried it. It sucks. If a girl really is interested she won't put you through that. And she wont put herself through it. She'll just want to see you. Make out with you. Fuck you. Watch a movie with you. All in one afternoon. That's a girl I want to hang with. A lot.

Is this the long answer to a short question:)

Anyways, thats for real life. Now meeting a girl in cyberspace...totally different...
Bartenders are fun, in big clubs not so much, but in small less hectic places they make for a lot of flirty fun.


"And I'll tell my new policy since i got single. I'm through dating. I tried it. It sucks. If a girl really is interested she won't put you through that. And she wont put herself through it. She'll just want to see you. Make out with you. Fuck you. Watch a movie with you. All in one afternoon. That's a girl I want to hang with. A lot."


That depends on what she is looking for, for a boy toy that is great, but a lasting relationship has to go through the stages. Not that I am a person to take advice about lasting relationships, my longest is less than 18 months.
 
Just be yourself, if she is into you she will let you know, if not there is one sitting beside her that might be.
 
I just stare and stare- quess thats why I have no luck in the bars.
 
pray

pray that it's your lucky day...and be confident but not cocky

the best i've ever done is when i'm hanging out at a bar or club with one of my hot girl friends. I never used to think it worked when I was younger but now she's like a lucky charm for me. I get massive attention from women when she's with me
 
1. make her laugh
2. be genuine
3. get to the point of comfort where you can talk about sex in general
4. talk about things that you've enjoyed sexually (don't name partner etc)
5. Ask her what she enjoys about sex. IF she can't answer...she's either not ready to fuck or she's a prude. (return to step 3-4)


At some point she'll get horny enough thinking about sex things that you like and she likes... she's going to fuck you. If she doesn't fuck you...you're in the friend zone forever. You'll never fuck her. Get use to being her male girlfriend. Seal her panties and pine after her when you jerk off in them and cry.
 
1. make her laugh
2. be genuine
3. get to the point of comfort where you can talk about sex in general
4. talk about things that you've enjoyed sexually (don't name partner etc)
5. Ask her what she enjoys about sex. IF she can't answer...she's either not ready to fuck or she's a prude. (return to step 3-4)


At some point she'll get horny enough thinking about sex things that you like and she likes... she's going to fuck you. If she doesn't fuck you...you're in the friend zone forever. You'll never fuck her. Get use to being her male girlfriend. Seal her panties and pine after her when you jerk off in them and cry.
LOL.... u shold write a self help book.
 
1. make her laugh
2. be genuine
3. get to the point of comfort where you can talk about sex in general
4. talk about things that you've enjoyed sexually (don't name partner etc)
5. Ask her what she enjoys about sex. IF she can't answer...she's either not ready to fuck or she's a prude. (return to step 3-4)


At some point she'll get horny enough thinking about sex things that you like and she likes... she's going to fuck you. If she doesn't fuck you...you're in the friend zone forever. You'll never fuck her. Get use to being her male girlfriend. Seal her panties and pine after her when you jerk off in them and cry.

Make her laugh-------Very good, humor is always a good ice breaker, I love to chat with guys that are funny.
Be genuine--------if I am in a club and a guy begins to talk sex I know what he is genuinely interested in.
Ask her what she enjoys about sex. IF she can't answer...she's either not ready to fuck or she's a prude.----- Or she knows you don't have game and is tired of you.
 
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