Pinktacokitty
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You see a girl, she is hot sexy beautiful and you want her . How do you go about getting her in bed.

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You see a girl, she is hot sexy beautiful and you want her . How do you go about getting her in bed.![]()
Number one and three if she is in the zone, number two if she wants to just play around a bit.You have about ten seconds to take in her body language and figure out what she wants.
Then go give it to her. Eye contact is a must, as is understanding her desire. Does she want a bad boy who will take her before they even leave the bar? Does she want a lap dog who's going to obey and do as she says? Does she want someone she won't regret waking to in the morning?
Times up. Hope you guessed right.
Bartenders are fun, in big clubs not so much, but in small less hectic places they make for a lot of flirty fun.This much I do know. If a girl digs me, it's nothing I did. What I mean to say is...whatever approach you take is useless if the girl doesn't find you inherently attractive. I love when people tell you to ignore her etc. That only works if she's already into you. Otherwise...shes more then happy you ignored her.
If we are talking about in the real world, the most amount of girls I meet is at my job. I'm a bartender. And yes, you do meet a lot of hot women. Who have boyfriends. Who have former boyfriends they go to the bar just to "run into". Who are coke fiends. Who hate sex but love attention. Who couldn't care less you're the bartender. Who just want a free drink. Who think you're cute but would NEVER sleep with a bartender. Etc.
So that rules them out. BUT here's what I do always try and do with every girl I'm attracted to I meet at work. I always keep things sexual. I flirt. I make sexy borderline inappropriate comments. I get explicit or implicit. Whatever. The point is...I always want them to think of me as a sexual being. That may turn some off. But they never think of me as friend guy. That's the kiss of death you can never come back from.
And I'll tell my new policy since i got single. I'm through dating. I tried it. It sucks. If a girl really is interested she won't put you through that. And she wont put herself through it. She'll just want to see you. Make out with you. Fuck you. Watch a movie with you. All in one afternoon. That's a girl I want to hang with. A lot.
Is this the long answer to a short question
Anyways, thats for real life. Now meeting a girl in cyberspace...totally different...
lmao........I am sure it works at times.easy answer: I leave my wallet open a bit longer so she can see the green & plastic!
lmao........I am sure it works at times.
LOL.... u shold write a self help book.1. make her laugh
2. be genuine
3. get to the point of comfort where you can talk about sex in general
4. talk about things that you've enjoyed sexually (don't name partner etc)
5. Ask her what she enjoys about sex. IF she can't answer...she's either not ready to fuck or she's a prude. (return to step 3-4)
At some point she'll get horny enough thinking about sex things that you like and she likes... she's going to fuck you. If she doesn't fuck you...you're in the friend zone forever. You'll never fuck her. Get use to being her male girlfriend. Seal her panties and pine after her when you jerk off in them and cry.
1. make her laugh
2. be genuine
3. get to the point of comfort where you can talk about sex in general
4. talk about things that you've enjoyed sexually (don't name partner etc)
5. Ask her what she enjoys about sex. IF she can't answer...she's either not ready to fuck or she's a prude. (return to step 3-4)
At some point she'll get horny enough thinking about sex things that you like and she likes... she's going to fuck you. If she doesn't fuck you...you're in the friend zone forever. You'll never fuck her. Get use to being her male girlfriend. Seal her panties and pine after her when you jerk off in them and cry.