Chicago Litogether 2008 After Action Report

Just wanting to ensure others reading the postings know, we're having fun, joking around and any play is personal. Expectations should not be a giant orgy. If you come, expect to have fun with like minded people, discuss a huge variety of subjects, family, work, life, fun, writing, etc.

Then you won't be disappointed, on the contrary, you will be very glad you went and will have lots to write about.

Evening, lovelies. :kiss:

My, we're starting early!

Yep, agree with Wenchie and pleaz_me. If something naughty happens, enjoy. But if not, that's okay, too. Hanging out with friends at these events is an amazing thing all by itself. ;)

I did receive two PMs last year (from people who did not attend) who were quite certain that it was my job to procure them a babe. I demurred.

Though at times I feel I am pimpin', in reality I hardly look the part.

Sex or no sex is not my responsibility - I just book the hotel.

:D
 
Evening, lovelies. :kiss:

My, we're starting early!

Yep, agree with Wenchie and pleaz_me. If something naughty happens, enjoy. But if not, that's okay, too. Hanging out with friends at these events is an amazing thing all by itself. ;)

I did receive two PMs last year (from people who did not attend) who were quite certain that it was my job to procure them a babe. I demurred.

Though at times I feel I am pimpin', in reality I hardly look the part.

Sex or no sex is not my responsibility - I just book the hotel.

:D

Evening beautiful :kiss:

We need to get together soon and go over the basics again ... I can head over that way some evening and talk with our lovely lady there.
 
Evening beautiful :kiss:

We need to get together soon and go over the basics again ... I can head over that way some evening and talk with our lovely lady there.

Patricia is her name, and it's so nice that you're now living so close to the area!

:heart:
 
Jen ~ Beautiful AV! Did you survive the waters earlier this summer?

Aw, thanks. :kiss: I like yours a lot too. :rose:

Yep, I survived... I've never been so glad to live on a hill as I was during that time. I was actually driving all over South Dakota and such with my family, taking a little vacation, a little cut off from news and such, and when we got back the city was under water. :eek:
 
Patricia is her name, and it's so nice that you're now living so close to the area!

:heart:

~Laughs~ The fact that I'm so close to the first location is a bit eerie! :eek:

You let me know when and I'll swing over there and set the details in motion. :kiss:
 
Evening, lovelies. :kiss:

My, we're starting early!

Yep, agree with Wenchie and pleaz_me. If something naughty happens, enjoy. But if not, that's okay, too. Hanging out with friends at these events is an amazing thing all by itself. ;)

I did receive two PMs last year (from people who did not attend) who were quite certain that it was my job to procure them a babe. I demurred.

Though at times I feel I am pimpin', in reality I hardly look the part.

Sex or no sex is not my responsibility - I just book the hotel.

:D

pssst...

can you procure me a babe please? The p.m.'s I sent you didn't work....
 
Aw, thanks. :kiss: I like yours a lot too. :rose:

Yep, I survived... I've never been so glad to live on a hill as I was during that time. I was actually driving all over South Dakota and such with my family, taking a little vacation, a little cut off from news and such, and when we got back the city was under water. :eek:

What a scary feeling! I'm glad to hear you made it through okay though! :kiss:
 
~Laughs~ The fact that I'm so close to the first location is a bit eerie! :eek:

You let me know when and I'll swing over there and set the details in motion. :kiss:

I didn't even realize you moved at all! Well that's certainly handy :)


I'm glad too that my drive next year will be so much shorter than it was before. I really wasn't enjoying that part.
 
*shudders*

I was not aware of that. That's a little disconcerting.

I know. Ick.

I did receive a couple of worried PMs from people who thought it was an all-out orgy and they weren't comfortable about it.

I was able to ease their fears, I thought. They did attend. Well, one of them did.

:rose:
 
It took me a while to realize how this might appear to others who weren't there. I've gotten pretty careful about the things I say since. After the Litogether last year, when I was just sort of joking and teasing with a few other attendees in a thread, I got two PMs from people who assumed that everything we talked about were things that actually happened that weekend. They weren't. But apparently it looked that way to some of those who hadn't attended and were sort of imagining that this was what it would be like. I feel really bad about having contributed to these false expectations some people might have gotten.

The last thing I want is for the Litogether to turn into something different than it has been. The thing I most fondly remember was, in fact, the getting to know everyone, talking to all the like-minded people, and just hanging out without there being any sort of sexual expectations in the air. And that's the part that truly makes me wish that it was March already. I miss many of those I met last year quite a bit.

That's all I'm expecting from the Litogether, everything else that might happen is just an unexpected bonus.

Jen you can't control people's imaginations.. they will run wild no matter what...
You are such a thoughtful and sweet one.....
 
I didn't even realize you moved at all! Well that's certainly handy :)


I'm glad too that my drive next year will be so much shorter than it was before. I really wasn't enjoying that part.

It just happened a month ago .. and VERY quickly too! Definitely all for the better though.

Did you move too?
 
Careful, dear, my blood pressure you know . . . :D
So sorry :eek: will try to keep my lustful appetites under control
Aphrodite ... I think Jen's post right above you is right on. NO ONE is going there for the sole purpose of sex.
Yes and neither would I if I attend... as I said, it's one of the reasons I left the lifestyle because I was "shunned" because I didn't have sex at every event
I've been to 3 hotel takeover parties with a lifestyle club in my area....

I actually didn't have sex at one of them... or do anything sexual.....

Oh yes.. THIS is totally different than that..... It's a hotel though.. sex does go on at hotels.. actually I always say hotel sex is the best.... But I wouldn't discuss any specific happenings with anyone unless in private with those involved..

hmm did I say "those" *laugh*
And that's why I am looking forward to being with like-minded people who don't mind my flirtatious attitude but aren't expecting me to put out either
 
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