Ever had 3 or More in your bed?

[dannieleigh]

Hello All,

I'm new to Lit, I love what I've seen and read so far,

I wanted to start a thread and ask a question:

Me and hubby are thinking about pursuing threesomes and more somes, I love to hear of other's experiences, If you'd like to share, I'd love to read it

Thanks
~Dannieleigh

 

[dannieleigh]

Hi Mr. Ron,

Good to have you on board, I sure it'll be a exciting ride, lol

 

[Kazoora]

I'm watching, too! I'd love to be the third ... or fourth ... or ... *weg*

 

[Mansa Musa]

Yeah, I've been there. From personal experience, it's always better to have one extra man. I say this for one reason: a woman can satisfy two men with relative ease, but it's murder trying to satisfy two women simultaneously. Unless, of course, you're really good at eating pussy. Then you can do the one on the mouth, one on the cock maneuver, and that's always fun.


I need a minute.

 

[dannieleigh]

Still the thinking about it stage , I have some apprehensions... Like most couples do, I suspect, looking for words of wisdom and steamy stories, too

 

[dannieleigh]

I think we are leading towards couple, although all combinations sounds fun!

 

[dannieleigh]

He has had experiences in both MMF and MFF, I have had none (yet) each would be very exciting After Six years together, I think I may be ready to give it a go,

 

[Mansa Musa]

Still the thinking about it stage , I have some apprehensions... Like most couples do, I suspect, looking for words of wisdom and steamy stories, too

Is your wife bi? If so, is she comfortable with (or even aroused by the idea of) watching you have sex with another woman? If the answer to both of these questions is "Yes", I'd suggest MFFM. If the answer to both of these questions is "No", I'd suggest a MFM. If it's one "Yes" and one "No", then try for the FFM/FMF/FM~F combination.

 

[dannieleigh]

I would be more than willing to explore my curiosities with the right girl, lol

Thanks again for your advice

 

[dannieleigh]

That is one of the big questions at this point, he has already seen a previously SO, with a man and loved watching. We talked about it, I think I would enjoy seeing him with other, just not sure yet...

 

[Mansa Musa]

That is one of the big questions at this point, he has already seen a previously SO, with a man and loved watching. We talked about it, I think I would enjoy seeing him with other, just not sure yet...

I have bad news: By starting this thread and posting a picture of yourself, you've already attracted the Lit Vultures. Get ready for a few weeks (if you're lucky) of random PM's asking about the wife.

Here are a few tips about life on this site:

1. Bad writing (leet speak/text message slang/misspellings)=douchebag. Trust me on this one.
2. Post counts matter. If you receive a PM from someone with a few thousand posts, you can find people who can vouch for that person or you can check their profile for a better look at their background. If you receive a PM from someone with a dozen posts, you don't know what you're getting. Yes, that includes yourselves.
3. Pick a board, and stay on it. AmPics is great, but it isn't a great place to get to know a potential bedmate. Unless, of course, you're looking for a "one and done". As far as finding a regular partner(s) is concerned, you'd be better off getting to know some of the polyamorous groups and/or veteran swingers in the Playground. If you're a misfit with more brains than common sense, visit the lunatics in the General Board. If you like to be beaten, visit the BDSM board. If you've decided to take a walk on the same side of the street, visit the GLBT board. It may take a few weeks to get to know the regular posters, but you'll be able to use their experiences to establish workable boundaries.
4. Pick me. Just kidding. Not really.

 

[dannieleigh]

I have bad news: By starting this thread and posting a picture of yourself, you've already attracted the Lit Vultures. Get ready for a few weeks (if you're lucky) of random PM's asking about the wife.

Here are a few tips about life on this site:

1. Bad writing (leet speak/text message slang/misspellings)=douchebag. Trust me on this one.
2. Post counts matter. If you receive a PM from someone with a few thousand posts, you can find people who can vouch for that person or you can check their profile for a better look at their background. If you receive a PM from someone with a dozen posts, you don't know what you're getting. Yes, that includes yourselves.
3. Pick a board, and stay on it. AmPics is great, but it isn't a great place to get to know a potential bedmate. Unless, of course, you're looking for a "one and done". As far as finding a regular partner(s) is concerned, you'd be better off getting to know some of the polyamorous groups and/or veteran swingers in the Playground. If you're a misfit with more brains than common sense, visit the lunatics in the General Board. If you like to be beaten, visit the BDSM board. If you've decided to take a walk on the same side of the street, visit the GLBT board. It may take a few weeks to get to know the regular posters, but you'll be able to use their experiences to establish workable boundaries.
4. Pick me. Just kidding. Not really.

Thank you so much for laying it all out there for us, it nice to get a veteran's point of view on the whole subject, I appreicate you taking the time to help us out.

I love the term "Lit Vultures", lol, so true. We are very much so in research mode, and we'll check out the vets in the playground.

Thanks again for showing the new kids who who on the playground, lol

 

[Mansa Musa]

Thank you so much for laying it all out there for us, it nice to get a veteran's point of view on the whole subject, I appreicate you taking the time to help us out.

I love the term "Lit Vultures", lol, so true. We are very much so in research mode, and we'll check out the vets in the playground.

Thanks again for showing the new kids who who on the playground, lol

Don't mention it, it was my pleasure.

 

[dirtycarol]

Does a living room floor count?

 

[slutgirl1]

Make very sure that both of you really want this and both of you can deal with the aftermath. Because it's the hottest thing in the world when you and two other people are writhing around, sweaty and cum covered for a couple of hours. It's the next morning when you wake up and realize that your partner fucked someone else that can be the hard part.

I'm not saying you shouldn't. Personally, MMF threesomes are one of my very favorite things, followed closely by FFM threesomes, but the conversation afterwards can be a little awkward if you all haven't been honest and open with each other from the beginning.

My .02.

 

[Mansa Musa]

Make very sure that both of you really want this and both of you can deal with the aftermath. Because it's the hottest thing in the world when you and two other people are writhing around, sweaty and cum covered for a couple of hours. It's the next morning when you wake up and realize that your partner fucked someone else that can be the hard part.

I'm not saying you shouldn't. Personally, MMF threesomes are one of my very favorite things, followed closely by FFM threesomes, but the conversation afterwards can be a little awkward if you all haven't been honest and open with each other from the beginning.

My .02.

Bolded for truth. Anyone on the planet can do anything, no matter how taboo, if they've been led to believe that they don't have any choice in the matter. The morning after is always the hardest part, unless you're an amoral sociopath.

 

[youngleo]

You said bed. How about a trampoline? Had a ball literally on a trampoline. When you got done, the next day just spray it off.

 

[dannieleigh]

I'm not a vulture. I prefer to think of myself as more of a weasel.

Of Course I wasn't including you as a Vulture, Plus weasels are more cuddly anyways right? lol

 

[dannieleigh]

Make very sure that both of you really want this and both of you can deal with the aftermath. Because it's the hottest thing in the world when you and two other people are writhing around, sweaty and cum covered for a couple of hours. It's the next morning when you wake up and realize that your partner fucked someone else that can be the hard part.

I'm not saying you shouldn't. Personally, MMF threesomes are one of my very favorite things, followed closely by FFM threesomes, but the conversation afterwards can be a little awkward if you all haven't been honest and open with each other from the beginning.

My .02.

Thanks so much for the honest point of view, I very much so see this reality in the situation, that's why I love the feedback from everyone, we want to make sure we are thinking about all the reprecussions and possiblities, and also we know that small steps will help us either decide if it's for us or not before it's huge mistake. Thanks again

 

[dannieleigh]

You said bed. How about a trampoline? Had a ball literally on a trampoline. When you got done, the next day just spray it off.

A trampoline, do tell? lol

 

[dannieleigh]

Bolded for truth. Anyone on the planet can do anything, no matter how taboo, if they've been led to believe that they don't have any choice in the matter. The morning after is always the hardest part, unless you're an amoral sociopath.

Very true, We want to be very comfortable with the what-ifs before we make any more of our fanasty a reality, Thanks again for the words of wisdom

 

[coastal-boy]

another option is to bring in just a F for your pleasure and letting him watch until he can't stand it any longer...best to take it slow and be safe than make a mistake.

 

[enigma1]

Hello All,

I'm new to Lit, I love what I've seen and read so far,

I wanted to start a thread and ask a question:

Me and hubby are thinking about pursuing threesomes and more somes, I love to hear of other's experiences, If you'd like to share, I'd love to read it

Thanks
~Dannieleigh

Hi there!

We have had several sessions mainly with other couples rather than just an additional individual. Before my wife & I met I had been involved in several group sessions from fmf to mmf and larger groups. However, as a married couple, having 3 or more in the bed was originally my wife's idea. Personally, I highly recommend the experience...even just once...and I live in hope that my wife & I will indulge again, (not on the menu since kids arrived ) My only advice to you, if you are contemplating it, if that you and your partner establish excellent communication!!! You both need to know whet you are doing it for and what you want to get out of the experience...thins will help avoid any emergence of the 'green eyed monster'!

Oh...for the record...I much prefer MFM with my wife as the F! My experiences with FMF have never been as great as MFM, (actually they were MFMF...but who's counting! )

 

[dannieleigh]

enigma, Thanks so much for the words of wisdom, I'm so glad I posted this question and have received the advice of people who have been there. It does require a very honest look at what we are doing and what the consequences could be. Thanks again for sharing

 

[enigma1]

enigma, Thanks so much for the words of wisdom, I'm so glad I posted this question and have received the advice of people who have been there. It does require a very honest look at what we are doing and what the consequences could be. Thanks again for sharing

Pleasure baby!!

Let us know what happens wont you!