Strap-on experiences

Yes, my wife uses a strap on on my ass . . . . . .

When I discovered my prostate and sphincter nerve endings I became crazy with that experience. I started masturbating my ass a long time ago. First fingers, then anything round around the house and finally vibs and dildos. All hidden from my wife. Until eventually I approached her. After some yelling, hollering and insults she calmed down and I had then to convince her that if mother nature put me the sphincter and the prostate there and they cause male sexual pleasure why let them go to waste. It took some more days to convince her until the strap on order arrived. As soon as she saw it, she tried it on and she kind of felt good with it. We fucked that day, or better, she fucked me that day and we have been doing it now for a couple of years. We now have a 10 incher which we both like. It also has like a 2 inch girth. It is pretty massive. My sphincter has been widening over the two years and it has been demanding a bigger cock. She also has one that goes inside her pussy at the same time. So now we have arrived at a great moment in our lives. I love for her to go slow penetrating me and getting the whole 10 inches inside. I love to feel her thigs on the back of my thighs. I ask her to stay there for a few minutes. No movement. I just like the feeling of having my hole full with her cock. Then she begins moving in and out. Oh so slowly. The head of the cock hits my prostate and continues in. Then the sphincter nerves tell my brain that I am having IMMENSE sexual pleasure. She begins her sexual vocals of her pleasure and my "bitch" condition at the time. I am her bitch when she is fucking me. Of course we have given my ass a name and a name also for her cock. She really has enjoyed her role and she plays with my hole a lot. She calls me at my office and she starts telling me what she is going to do to me as soon as I arrive. Once, or twice, I have left work to run to the house and receive my wife's promises. No, no quickie. Rather a very extensive sex.
Ok enough for now. She is out now but I am hot and need to fill my hole and cum . . . . . so until later.
Please comments, questions, suggestions . . . . . . .
 
When I discovered my prostate and sphincter nerve endings I became crazy with that experience. I started masturbating my ass a long time ago. First fingers, then anything round around the house and finally vibs and dildos. All hidden from my wife. Until eventually I approached her. After some yelling, hollering and insults she calmed down and I had then to convince her that if mother nature put me the sphincter and the prostate there and they cause male sexual pleasure why let them go to waste. It took some more days to convince her until the strap on order arrived. As soon as she saw it, she tried it on and she kind of felt good with it. We fucked that day, or better, she fucked me that day and we have been doing it now for a couple of years. We now have a 10 incher which we both like. It also has like a 2 inch girth. It is pretty massive. My sphincter has been widening over the two years and it has been demanding a bigger cock. She also has one that goes inside her pussy at the same time. So now we have arrived at a great moment in our lives. I love for her to go slow penetrating me and getting the whole 10 inches inside. I love to feel her thigs on the back of my thighs. I ask her to stay there for a few minutes. No movement. I just like the feeling of having my hole full with her cock. Then she begins moving in and out. Oh so slowly. The head of the cock hits my prostate and continues in. Then the sphincter nerves tell my brain that I am having IMMENSE sexual pleasure. She begins her sexual vocals of her pleasure and my "bitch" condition at the time. I am her bitch when she is fucking me. Of course we have given my ass a name and a name also for her cock. She really has enjoyed her role and she plays with my hole a lot. She calls me at my office and she starts telling me what she is going to do to me as soon as I arrive. Once, or twice, I have left work to run to the house and receive my wife's promises. No, no quickie. Rather a very extensive sex.
Ok enough for now. She is out now but I am hot and need to fill my hole and cum . . . . . so until later.
Please comments, questions, suggestions . . . . . . .

Comments???
YOU LUCKY BASTARD!!! That's my first reaction...I too adore the feeling of a thick toy filling my arse and whatever i can find around the house that gets you that full feeling. My wife knows i play, but is not interested in joining in with me, more like outa mind, out sight for her. Pity, i say.
I would so love her to have an assortment of strap on's and treat me like a cheap slut!!
Maybe you should suggest to her to line another guy up to fuck you as you are tied to a bed blind folded, so you don't even know what he looks like, would that turn you on???
 
Shane . . . . .

We currently have taken another member in our love making. I posted somewhere that it is a lesbian girl, Nancy. I had been telling Gaby, my wife, that she can not go through life without tasting pussy. I consider pussy juices to have more flavor than orange juice and better taste than peach juice. Since I began eating pussy, starting with Gaby some 20 years or so I have thoroughgly enjoyed her juices. I am so addictive that we were starting all our lovemaking with me eating her to orgasm, From there the sex was always FANTASTIC. So I convinced Gaby to try pussy. She said that there was a cute girl at work that was hitting on her. I told her to give this girl some rope to see how far she would go. Nancy went all the way finally prompted by me and Gaby, They went out to a lesbian bar and the rest is history. Nancy is part of our love making now and she can fuck me while I eat Gaby. Or viceversa, Gaby fucks me and I eat Gaby. And from there , the present variations are many and all enjoyable.
Now regarding men. No, I have no interest on me, I ama heterosexual that happenst to understand the function of the prostate and the sphincter nerve endings for sexual pleasure. My wife is opposed to another man and I am opposed to another man. So no, there wikk be no man fucking me ever.
The mild BDSM we play is entirely for our sexual gratification. No degrading or humiliation phase ever comes to play with us. And with tge lesbian girl it has been established that at the first signs of emotional involvement she goes. Both Gaby and I have spoken with her on these matters. Gaby loves eating her pussy and may be, like me in love with the pussy juices but not with the owner of the juices. Nancy is OK with this.
 
Nancy shouldn't give you a choice! If you were my bitch, you'd be dripping with cum and begging for more.
 
Miss Fiona and Lady C,

Please elaborate. I really do not understand the criticism. I do have to enphasize that in this relationship, nobody is the bitch of anybody. Gaby, my wife, and I do have some moments at peeking time when she calls me her bitch. But that is conditioned by the very spot that is making it to happen. We have agreed that there will be no humiliation nor demening attitude nor pain. This si not a Fem/dom situation. So, no I am nobody's bitch. My wife knows it and Nancy knows it. Our mild BDSM is all for my sexual pleasure. Gaby derives no pleasure from it. She, Gaby, has no sexual satisfaction with our mild BDSM.
So, PLease explain a bit more your comments, thank you.
 
Please elaborate. I really do not understand the criticism. I do have to enphasize that in this relationship, nobody is the bitch of anybody. Gaby, my wife, and I do have some moments at peeking time when she calls me her bitch. But that is conditioned by the very spot that is making it to happen. We have agreed that there will be no humiliation nor demening attitude nor pain. This si not a Fem/dom situation. So, no I am nobody's bitch. My wife knows it and Nancy knows it. Our mild BDSM is all for my sexual pleasure. Gaby derives no pleasure from it. She, Gaby, has no sexual satisfaction with our mild BDSM.
So, PLease explain a bit more your comments, thank you.

That's the way Billy-boy and I began. Just for kicks....mostly for his pleasure and I went along with it for him. Eventually, I started to find pleasure in dominating him, and now he is my minion all day every day.
 
Lady C . . . . .

At our home, right now, a fem/dom situation is not contemplated. I am too much the macho man and I still control our home and our relationship. For sexual pleasures we have some role reversal at sex time. Gaby's (my wife) fucking me with her cock is one that I give in gladly. The sex is incredible and we both enjoy it. I am not saying that we will not turn into a fem/dom relationship. Just that right now it is not in the radar. I really do not think that Gaby is into that idea. Regarding Nancy, I believe that she understands also that we are providing her with sex and she is providing us with sex. Besides that we invite Nancy out to dine with us and we are known to give her some good gifts. She is happy with us and we are happy with her. Dining and gifts are not for payment. However, they are an indication of our appreciation for the sex she has brought to us. She is not our slave and she is free to give us her opinion on sex and what she likes. We try to give her her likings. She also give us our likings. If she feels bad with us, she knows she can leave us any time. We will be sorry seeing her leave because she has been to us quite an addition. And as far as I understand Gaby is not falling for Nancy. Will Gabt be faithfull to me always??? Gee, I don't know. I certainly pray for Gaby's love for ever. Gaby is a terrific woman, wife and mother. We have been through a lot together and we are really well adjusted to each other. I hope this answers your comments.
Again, questions and/or comments are very much appreciated.
** I have a question for the men on this thread that enjoy being fucked bybtheir wives with a dildo/strap on. I have said that I enjof my wife's cock all inside of my ass. I enjoy the feeling it gives me to feel FULL. I enjoy the cock just lying there inside of me. Dioes any of you have a similar experience??? Do you like knowing that your wife's cock is buried inside of you to the hilt??. Is it only me or is it a generalized liking??? And why???? what is your experience???? Thank you. Certainly would love an answer on these. Thank you!!
 
At our home, right now, a fem/dom situation is not contemplated. I am too much the macho man and I still control our home and our relationship. For sexual pleasures we have some role reversal at sex time. Gaby's (my wife) fucking me with her cock is one that I give in gladly. The sex is incredible and we both enjoy it. I am not saying that we will not turn into a fem/dom relationship. Just that right now it is not in the radar. I really do not think that Gaby is into that idea. Regarding Nancy, I believe that she understands also that we are providing her with sex and she is providing us with sex. Besides that we invite Nancy out to dine with us and we are known to give her some good gifts. She is happy with us and we are happy with her. Dining and gifts are not for payment. However, they are an indication of our appreciation for the sex she has brought to us. She is not our slave and she is free to give us her opinion on sex and what she likes. We try to give her her likings. She also give us our likings. If she feels bad with us, she knows she can leave us any time. We will be sorry seeing her leave because she has been to us quite an addition. And as far as I understand Gaby is not falling for Nancy. Will Gabt be faithfull to me always??? Gee, I don't know. I certainly pray for Gaby's love for ever. Gaby is a terrific woman, wife and mother. We have been through a lot together and we are really well adjusted to each other. I hope this answers your comments.
Again, questions and/or comments are very much appreciated.
** I have a question for the men on this thread that enjoy being fucked bybtheir wives with a dildo/strap on. I have said that I enjof my wife's cock all inside of my ass. I enjoy the feeling it gives me to feel FULL. I enjoy the cock just lying there inside of me. Dioes any of you have a similar experience??? Do you like knowing that your wife's cock is buried inside of you to the hilt??. Is it only me or is it a generalized liking??? And why???? what is your experience???? Thank you. Certainly would love an answer on these. Thank you!!
I love having my wife fuck me in the ass. The fullness, the pressure . . . she pumps me gently to allow me to feel each stroke. Then she'll lean on my back, reach around and strok my cock to orgasm as she continues to pump my ass with her strap on.

It's an experience / pleasure we can share with each other. I get to feel what she feels when she has me fuck her ass. There is no domination or bitch. Just an exchange of pleasure for each.
 
Thank you bear A . . . .

I appreciate your reply.
I understand you well. We also enjoy our joint orgasm.
 
Miss I . . . . .

Thank you also for your reply. Being new on this threads and having experienced a dildo in my ass for some time I have questions that appear stupid but frankly I had nobody to ask them to. And again, Gaby (my wife) and I have been enjoying sex this way for some time but failing to share experiences and to verify that we were not weird. I am glad to know that when it comes to Gaby's cock in my ass, there is nothing weird about it. And having the feelings I have is also not weird. Very pleasurable for me I might add.
So thank you very much Miss I.
 
enjoy?

I believe that all of my boys have enjoyed me filling them. At least they all said they did. I enjoy filling them as well. <grin>

Please define "enjoy" do you cum? If so, is there any reason not to build your orgasms up to a "mother of ALL orgasms" while you are fucking him... before allowing him to have a real... "cockgasm"... he can of course have analgasms ... which you'd have a hard time stopping.

(can you go from analgasm to cockgasm... ??)

(sorry for the new term... it seems to apply)
 
At our home, right now, a fem/dom situation is not contemplated. I am too much the macho man and I still control our home and our relationship. For sexual pleasures we have some role reversal at sex time. Gaby's (my wife) fucking me with her cock is one that I give in gladly. The sex is incredible and we both enjoy it. I am not saying that we will not turn into a fem/dom relationship. Just that right now it is not in the radar. I really do not think that Gaby is into that idea. Regarding Nancy, I believe that she understands also that we are providing her with sex and she is providing us with sex. Besides that we invite Nancy out to dine with us and we are known to give her some good gifts. She is happy with us and we are happy with her. Dining and gifts are not for payment. However, they are an indication of our appreciation for the sex she has brought to us. She is not our slave and she is free to give us her opinion on sex and what she likes. We try to give her her likings. She also give us our likings. If she feels bad with us, she knows she can leave us any time. We will be sorry seeing her leave because she has been to us quite an addition. And as far as I understand Gaby is not falling for Nancy. Will Gabt be faithfull to me always??? Gee, I don't know. I certainly pray for Gaby's love for ever. Gaby is a terrific woman, wife and mother. We have been through a lot together and we are really well adjusted to each other. I hope this answers your comments.
Again, questions and/or comments are very much appreciated.
** I have a question for the men on this thread that enjoy being fucked bybtheir wives with a dildo/strap on. I have said that I enjof my wife's cock all inside of my ass. I enjoy the feeling it gives me to feel FULL. I enjoy the cock just lying there inside of me. Dioes any of you have a similar experience??? Do you like knowing that your wife's cock is buried inside of you to the hilt??. Is it only me or is it a generalized liking??? And why???? what is your experience???? Thank you. Certainly would love an answer on these. Thank you!!

Macho men make the best minions for a Domme. They have so many traits a woman of my sort may exploit for her pleasure.
 
Lady C . . . . .

I am pretty sure you are right, but give me a break, I am just starting. Somewhat. Right now I still want to enjoy my mild BDSM and my two girls, Gaby and Nancy. Oh yeah, they are enjoying me too. Recently they kind of ganged up on me. I enjoyed it. I know they did too.
 
I am pretty sure you are right, but give me a break, I am just starting. Somewhat. Right now I still want to enjoy my mild BDSM and my two girls, Gaby and Nancy. Oh yeah, they are enjoying me too. Recently they kind of ganged up on me. I enjoyed it. I know they did too.

I didn't mean to try to rush you, Darliin'. I simply meant to point out an eventual, greater pleasure for all involved.
 
I didn't mean to try to rush you, Darliin'. I simply meant to point out an eventual, greater pleasure for all involved.

Not everyone is cut out for BDSM, and, therefore, some might experience greater pleasure without the involvement of BDSM.
 
Not everyone is cut out for BDSM, and, therefore, some might experience greater pleasure without the involvement of BDSM.

Of course, but where there is an interest, who can be sure how far it may go. The was a sign above the back bar in a S&M club I once visited which read: "First they are Curious; Then they become Curiosities."
 
Of course, but where there is an interest, who can be sure how far it may go. The was a sign above the back bar in a S&M club I once visited which read: "First they are Curious; Then they become Curiosities."

Well, it's good to make suggestions. But, what you think is wonderful to you may not be wonderful for them. Your post came off as sounding like you were telling them that they were doing it wrong.
 
Well, it's good to make suggestions. But, what you think is wonderful to you may not be wonderful for them. Your post came off as sounding like you were telling them that they were doing it wrong.

I'm glad you expressed this. I know what Lady C is saying, and it's hard not be be all enthusiastic if you're into that aspect too, but that vibe isn't for everyone, and it isn't necessarily a foregone conclusion that every man who likes to be pegged also likes power play or submission.

I'm fond of both aspects, the macho man type and the role playing with power exchange. But there's no point in trying to make one into the other.

Just my two cents. This is a lovely thread.

bj
 
Thank you also for your reply. Being new on this threads and having experienced a dildo in my ass for some time I have questions that appear stupid but frankly I had nobody to ask them to. And again, Gaby (my wife) and I have been enjoying sex this way for some time but failing to share experiences and to verify that we were not weird. I am glad to know that when it comes to Gaby's cock in my ass, there is nothing weird about it. And having the feelings I have is also not weird. Very pleasurable for me I might add.
So thank you very much Miss I.

You're very welcome Vacheron! Welcome to Lit, and I hope you'll feel welcome here. The strap on threads are my favorite places to hang out as it is one of my favorite subjects.

I find it humbling that you've opened your situation right up to all readers and sharing your history and of learning about the strap ons along with your wife Gaby. Neither of you are wierd. Experiencing what normal couples should do when lovemaking gets stale and making what you have from it is a situation to envy for anyone. I wish I could have found a man like you years ago. That time is lost for me now, I'm sure. You and Gaby are very fortunate to have each other, fortunate to still be interested in each other, and to love each other as you do...you'll probably be together forever. What a wonderful thing you have. I am personally very envious of the both of you! Now to throw your lover into the mix...evenmore envious, and lucky for you! I'm sure you have grand times in your home.

Your questions do not appear stupid. If this is your first exposure to knowing others are doing this, and that it's more common than you think, then no questions are stupid.

You two made vows years ago to each other. Part of all that was to keep your love for each other going and fresh enough to maintain your interest in each other. How does that go....? "Until death do us part...." Have fun in your bedroom, you've raised your family, go back to enjoying what made you fall for each other in the first place. Do what turns you on, and feel what you want to feel with it. Do not let others force your thinking into another avenue if that is not your choosing. You're both in love, you're not hurting anyone, enjoy each other. It's what life is all about.

Have fun on the threads! Thank you for your candor!
 
Please define "enjoy" do you cum? If so, is there any reason not to build your orgasms up to a "mother of ALL orgasms" while you are fucking him... before allowing him to have a real... "cockgasm"... he can of course have analgasms ... which you'd have a hard time stopping.

(can you go from analgasm to cockgasm... ??)

(sorry for the new term... it seems to apply)


I do cum! You've seen proof...<grin>

I don't think I've had the right lover to be able to build any orgasms to make something new such as a mother-of-all-orgasms. It's been good for me but well, I can't say I've been with enough men to experience the one that I have that certain chemistry with. I think that there has to be a certain connection between the two people involved for that really big mother of all orgasms to happen. I do have orgasms but I think I am the kind of person that needs that emotional connection to someone to get that far with it. I need to feel really safe and secure with that person and know that we are indeed out for only each others pleasure. I've taken lovers that I don't know and become acquainted with them enough to be intimate with them on that intimate level of sexual safeness but not the intimate level I need for that intense deep felt connection to have that special orgasm.

I wouldn't even expect it until I meet my dream man that loves strap on sex, has tendencies to be submissive, is willing to do anything to make me happy (of course that's a two way street) and well, he's got to accept me for who I am. Of course those are not all of my relationship requirements. I'm much more complicated than that. <grin>

I know- not much of an answer to your question...as usual, I haven't experienced that yet.
 
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