Help me!

[Seductryss]

New to this board....so *waves* *blows kisses*

I'm currently involved in an on again off again sub/dom online relationship with a married man.

Currently we're headed towards off again...

I'm looking for ideas on how to spark things up between us, something hot that would catch his attention. I'm currently wearing his collar as per his request and yet he ignores me as if I don't exsist...what should I do?

And ideas, thoughts, ANYTHING, would be much appreciated!

Also looking to make some new friends male or female, VERY bi-curious but have yet to meet any women that catch my attention.

 

[avvikande]

*wave* back at ya... seems we're neighbors

Is the relationship you're in totally online? If so, I'm not sure what to do to "spark" his interest. If any offline involvement is taking place, the first thing I would try would be to misbehave.

Admittedly, I'm quite new to the dom/sub relationship area. I enjoy being the more submissive in a sexual relationship, as submissive men make me cringe (sorry, it's just the way it is). But my thought process would be that if he is ignoring you, he isn't being a very good Dom. Maybe he needs you to show him that others are willing to do what he isn't?

Perhaps someone with some Dom experience can help you out ... anyone?

 

[Seductryss]

Yes, strictly online.

 

[Mason_Tr]

Another Ontario neighbour saying hi

The only thing I would suggest is maybe you are ready to meet him for real... Seems to me online S&M can only take you so far, and ultimately you both need the real thing


The other thing, and I hate to say, is maybe his conscious is bothering him and he feels bad for stepping out on his wife... and like all of us men who are really big sissies, instead of dealing with the issue, we ignore and act distant...

Was that too harsh? I'm sorry

 

[Yakkul]

Always good to make new friends... welcome to Lit' !


Might I suggest though, that if he's ignoring you... perhaps he doesn't deserve you?

 

[RuneBlade]

Avvikande gives sound advice here. If he's really not going to pay attention, maybe you should find someone else who is willing to do what he isn't.

 

[Seductryss]

.......maybe I should.

 

[Noor]

ignore him? Add a second or third guy to fill your time? Get a husband to balance his wife?

 

[RuneBlade]

ignore him? Add a second or third guy to fill your time? Get a husband to balance his wife?

Oohh, sassy!

Extra points++

 

[avvikande]

A stroke of genius hit me (wished it was a stroke of something else but hey, we can't all be lucky) while I was puttering around the kitchen making dinner. Truly, I was, and yes, I was thinking about your dilemma.

You're bi-curious; it's purely online with him. Find that woman you've been longing for, let him know he's been usurped by a dripping pussy and if you're really nice, set up a web cam for him to watch the action from afar. He'll be *demanding* your affections in no time flat. And I'll lay good money (cute colourful Canadian money) that he'll be paying attention to you in the near future.

I'd offer for the role of dripping bi-lover but two subs never did a decently vicious encounter make

 

[Seductryss]

A stroke of genius hit me (wished it was a stroke of something else but hey, we can't all be lucky) while I was puttering around the kitchen making dinner. Truly, I was, and yes, I was thinking about your dilemma.

You're bi-curious; it's purely online with him. Find that woman you've been longing for, let him know he's been usurped by a dripping pussy and if you're really nice, set up a web cam for him to watch the action from afar. He'll be *demanding* your affections in no time flat. And I'll lay good money (cute colourful Canadian money) that he'll be paying attention to you in the near future.

I'd offer for the role of dripping bi-lover but two subs never did a decently vicious encounter make

*grins*

I think you just made my day.

Looking for the above mentioned dripping pussy.....any takers?

(I really do like that advice)

 

[avvikande]

*grins*

I think you just made my day.

Looking for the above mentioned dripping pussy.....any takers?

(I really do like that advice)

You have no idea how much I like that advice as well *grin*

Now if only I hadn't fucked myself (pun intended) with the "two subs don't mix" comment, lol

I wish you great luck in your search! Let me know if you have an overflow and I'll pick through your cast-offs *laugh*

 

[Seductryss]

I forgot to add......I'm very much attached to my master. So thank you to all who filled my inbox with one liners such as....."he doesn't deserve you, but I do" and "hot horny, such and such...lets chat" I'll have to politely decline. Like I said, I'm very attached to my master, I was just looking for ideas or suggestions on how to spice things up between us and capture his attention...oh, how I crave.

Lastly, apparently "let me spank you" has become a popular phrase, you might wanna mix things up a bit boys.....

I'm not looking for a quick fuck, interested in meeting new people and chatting....toss me a PM if you have something intelligent to say and we can see what happens from there.

 

[seflamaster]

advice

I have been in the life over 35 years trained many in many ways. Online is not for everyone! If he does not pay attention to you he might have found someone else or his wife is keeping him busy.
I assume you are on a web cam when he does come to you?
Here is a ad I use to find cam play toys.
Web Cams!!!!
So you now have a computer with a web cam. You turn it on and come on the net.
You show yourself. What do you feel? Are you turned on? Getting excited?
A female gets wet You start to play with yourself.
Now what? What do you do to get more turned on?
Is this you? Would you enjoy showing yourself to me on cam?
Playing or taking orders? Get training online?
Hit me up if you are getting turned on by this let me take you to
places you have never been b4.

Here is my ad on most web site dealing with bondage.

Online Master seeks Slut with class and creativity
I begin my search in looking for an online slave/slut

I am 56 yo retired firefighter from N.Y. with over 35 years experience


Age: any above 25
Gender: Women submissive or slave looking for more training

Note: An online relationship is not for everyone
the most common misconception is that people don't think an online relationship is real but they are mistaken an
online can be very real and offer many of the benefits a real relationship offers yet it can sometimes require
more dedication as no one is physically there to keep an eye out. some type of camera or web cam is preferred

To Me an online relationship is real and I would expect the same. It is preferred that you have such experience
however newcomers are more then welcome. At the end of this process one person will be selected

Are you the one craving to have someone lead you to bring you to places you never thought possible are you craving
for that control you are missing in your regular life?

Activities: control play, humiliation, self humiliation, Role play of all sorts, Protocol training
in a typical day you can expect being told how to dress to the exact detail, what to do in your free time,
have a online IM session with Me, a homework assignment.

I should make it clear that I have no desire to meet in real time however if the other so desires there may Me that
possibility

Your's