Predicament Bondage

[ammre]

So recently I played with a guy, and he's a fan of sensory deprivation and predicament bondage.

The first time I played with him, He tied me up and put the pussy hook in me, ran the rope from that up, through a support above me, and back down to the chain connecting a pair of clover nipple clamps, then topped it off with tying a vibrator to the rope. If i moved it pulled and hurt but i wanted to move and well.. you get the idea...

The second time I played with him, he went for the nipple clamps again, but this time ran a thin rope through my ear (I have stretched lobes) behind my head and over my other shoulder to the chain for the nipple clamps. That kept my had pulled back and to the side so basically I couldn't see anything he was going to do to my body.

It was kinda awesome.


I was wondering if any of you have ever been in or put someone in that kind of bondage and if so, please share your experiences.

 

[intothewoods]

Oh, just in the itty witty shallow end of the pool. Like restraints that get tighter if you struggle. In a top/bottom casual play situation, this kind of thing works well for me so I can focus. Otherwise I get antsy.

 

[Netzach]

I've enjoyed this a bit. Sometimes I've gotten antsy though, as I've seen some very good bondage tops take risks I would never take with bondage that depends on people's balance in order to not seriously injure them.

I'm not going to depend on a guy's balance in five inch heels not to rip the nose hook out of his nose if he goes down. Just sayin'.

Love Midori's wshop on this one as she's someone I've seen keep it responsible and safe in all ways, while very ambitious and hot, too.

My favorite incidence with this was flogging and paddling M and my lover I switch with. Both were on facing St. Andrew's and both had clamps on nipples and ballsacs, which I attached nearly invisibly with lengths of dental floss. No one was bored at any point because the one being beaten was always tugging the clamps on the other a lot. Not that dramatic, but getting the right people all under one roof was a rare treat.

 

[im_a_voyeur]

I don't exactly like to be in predicament bondage but I do find it interesting to watch. I've seen some of it done in person and I was impressed by some of the intricate details the rope artist was able to come up with.

I'm hoping there will be some pics to go along with any experiences that are posted.

 

[wouldloveto]

This is the best!

Yet, so difficult to find someone to do it right.

When I have done it from the top, I was careful and conservative due to not enough experience and practice.

Done to me it was exquisite to have my head and scrotum in such a predicament that flinching from the flogger or cane made things quite painful... Yes!

 

[DreamSensualist]

......

 

[myinnerslut]

one of the most notable predicament anything i did was something i did to myself. i taped one of my larger (large enough i wouldnt want to take all of it without warm up, and even with, the end doesnt really fit in me) vibrators to the desk upright. i then got onto a stool to slide the tip inside of myself, moved the step stool and balanced on my tiptoes. as long as i could balance and my legs didnt scream out, i did go crashing down on the slightly too large vibrator. this was all well and good untill my muscles begn screaming for holdng this difficult position and i kept slipping down. the result was something along the lines of

have to hold the position
but fuck my legs hurt
ok just a second of relief for my legs
too big for me! ow!
*jumps* back to my tiptoes
my legs hurts

repeat.


i enjoyed it, but i see where it would be boring for a PYL to watch as im doing everything but they just sit and watch it.

we did a variation of a horse to the same effect (legs stretched to prevent putting body wieght on my pussy) but instead of patiently waiting untill my legs gave out, Master wanted to play too. he said just waiting was boring. so he jostled the bar, sometimes back and forth, somethines lifting it higher and forcing my hand, cuasing me to rest my whole wieght on the bar. oh yeah, and telling me to cum which cuased me to arch my back and lift my feet off the floor for a few seconds.

that was a fun night. i really enjoyed it.

 

[catalina_francisco]

i enjoyed it, but i see where it would be boring for a PYL to watch as im doing everything but they just sit and watch it.

LOL, that is when the delicious combination of deep sadism and controlled patience become an asset in a PYL. Some things are best left to time to take care of.

Catalina

 

[Homburg]

LOL, that is when the delicious combination of deep sadism and controlled patience become an asset in a PYL. Some things are best left to time to take care of.

Catalina

I'd say it has nothing to do with sadism or patience. It's a type of kink, and not everyone is going to get into it. If it is your kink, you'd have the patience for it. If not, it will bore. Let's face it, the ropework I do takes a good bit of time to set up, especially the suspensions. There are plenty of people that like it, but admit that they don't have the patience for it. Does it mean they lack patience, or that the kink is not their kink? I would suggest the latter.

Personally, I tend to find predicament bondage to be a bit dull from the top. The creation of it, and the idea behind it, are fun to contemplate, but the actuality doesn't always entertain all that much for me.

It's a style thing. Some people like an active pace, others prefer a more measured approach.

 

[ataxia.girl]

There was a good one on Device bondage where she had one of those nose things in her nose i think and was tied facing a pole with a dildo on it which was in her mouth. If she pulled back away from the dildo to get air the nose thing pulled. She was also kneeling on rock salt or something and then he was whipping her at the same time. i think that was how it went. It's hard to describe the prediament element but i definitely think she felt like she was in one and it was very entertaining to watch.

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'd say it has nothing to do with sadism or patience. It's a type of kink, and not everyone is going to get into it. If it is your kink, you'd have the patience for it. If not, it will bore. Let's face it, the ropework I do takes a good bit of time to set up, especially the suspensions. There are plenty of people that like it, but admit that they don't have the patience for it. Does it mean they lack patience, or that the kink is not their kink? I would suggest the latter.

Personally, I tend to find predicament bondage to be a bit dull from the top. The creation of it, and the idea behind it, are fun to contemplate, but the actuality doesn't always entertain all that much for me.

It's a style thing. Some people like an active pace, others prefer a more measured approach.

I agree in part. I like both raw and fast, as well as slow, tantalizing, fear inducing, and to some extent agony extending via pain and fear. Dichotomies and variety appeal to me in most parts of life and SM is no exception. Both ways work, but in different ways. I admire a PYL who has the mind to dream evil and then the patience to carry it through without the temptation to up the pace in the interest of completing what has been begun. Part of it comes down to playing with my psyche... action orientated usually doesn't manage to do that for me very much and is over way too quick...pain wise quick can be effective, though even in that I know I can endure for the short period and thus get through it...slow it down, add some element whereby I have at least the illusion I can change or predict the outcome, that I am truly in danger, and I am going to thrive and quake all at once.

In that, the PYL has to have patience as they have to be able to also manage the slower pace without as you say, becoming bored and deciding to hasten it as a means to an end. LOL, I have also found that while waiting, patiently pondering or even getting on with something else they wish to do, they can come up with even more ways to make me suffer for their sadistic pleasure. Though F has been doing bondage now for over 10 years, I would say it still takes time and patience...on both sides. That being said, when he is about to do something which is extremely sadistic and challenging for me to submit to, he will forgo the bondage to force me to place myself in his hands, at his disposal, while fully aware that though I could physically run at any moment, I will not. One thing which I adored about F from the beginning was his way to play on both these planes and keep me guessing no matter how long we have been together.

Catalina

 

[Harmony_1985]

I think it's something I'd like to give a try, if only I can get him to lol

 

[Homburg]

I agree in part. I like both raw and fast, as well as slow, tantalizing, fear inducing, and to some extent agony extending via pain and fear. Dichotomies and variety appeal to me in most parts of life and SM is no exception. Both ways work, but in different ways. I admire a PYL who has the mind to dream evil and then the patience to carry it through without the temptation to up the pace in the interest of completing what has been begun. Part of it comes down to playing with my psyche... action orientated usually doesn't manage to do that for me very much and is over way too quick...pain wise quick can be effective, though even in that I know I can endure for the short period and thus get through it...slow it down, add some element whereby I have at least the illusion I can change or predict the outcome, that I am truly in danger, and I am going to thrive and quake all at once.

In that, the PYL has to have patience as they have to be able to also manage the slower pace without as you say, becoming bored and deciding to hasten it as a means to an end. LOL, I have also found that while waiting, patiently pondering or even getting on with something else they wish to do, they can come up with even more ways to make me suffer for their sadistic pleasure. Though F has been doing bondage now for over 10 years, I would say it still takes time and patience...on both sides. That being said, when he is about to do something which is extremely sadistic and challenging for me to submit to, he will forgo the bondage to force me to place myself in his hands, at his disposal, while fully aware that though I could physically run at any moment, I will not. One thing which I adored about F from the beginning was his way to play on both these planes and keep me guessing no matter how long we have been together.

Catalina

The only point I was attempting to make was that patience levels vary according to one's interest in the activity. If a given activity is a kink of yours, you will perforce be more likely to be patient enough to wait for the proper results. If not, it becomes less interesting rapidly.

Honestly, given my predilection for bondage, I'd thought that predicament bondage would be a big turn on for me. Nope *shrug*. Yet I will spend more time setting up and doing a suspension than a lot of predicament bondage set-ups would take to do.

That said, I agree that patience is good thing if one is trying to be a really effective top.

 

[Moxon4]

one of the most notable predicament anything i did was something i did to myself. i taped one of my larger (large enough i wouldnt want to take all of it without warm up, and even with, the end doesnt really fit in me) vibrators to the desk upright. i then got onto a stool to slide the tip inside of myself, moved the step stool and balanced on my tiptoes. as long as i could balance and my legs didnt scream out, i did go crashing down on the slightly too large vibrator. this was all well and good untill my muscles begn screaming for holdng this difficult position and i kept slipping down. the result was something along the lines of

have to hold the position
but fuck my legs hurt
ok just a second of relief for my legs
too big for me! ow!
*jumps* back to my tiptoes
my legs hurts

repeat.


i enjoyed it, but i see where it would be boring for a PYL to watch as im doing everything but they just sit and watch it.

we did a variation of a horse to the same effect (legs stretched to prevent putting body wieght on my pussy) but instead of patiently waiting untill my legs gave out, Master wanted to play too. he said just waiting was boring. so he jostled the bar, sometimes back and forth, somethines lifting it higher and forcing my hand, cuasing me to rest my whole wieght on the bar. oh yeah, and telling me to cum which cuased me to arch my back and lift my feet off the floor for a few seconds.

that was a fun night. i really enjoyed it.

That is a fantastic idea, I think I'm going to try that with my sub this weekend or next. Thank you.

 

[Chicklet]

Predicament bondage is in the category of interesting kink activities that keep a submissive awake, generally.

I like it and dislike it for this reason.

I really enjoy the floaty, dreamy sensation I get from being in a great, sensual, sensual space either brought on by rhythmic pain or confining bondage. Introduce the aspect of having to think about what I'm doing, and my own actions causing different, possibly painful, sensations, and I don't float away at all.

I think that if I got to play more often, I would crave this type of bondage more than I do... but when I get my infrequent play time, I really crave the drifty sensation.

...I probably failed to answer the question

 

[ammre]

The times I experienced it, it wasn't the main festivities. It was a side item. So he could be doing the crop/cane/flogger/whatever else, but there would also be this constant on edge game going on.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Interesting bump?

 

[bhndblueyes88]

*uninteresting answer*

never done it, but it seems like something that would be fun to try. I'd be game, at least.