How many women would accept a committed bisexual man as a partner?

[HardNightDay]

Pretty much as the title says. I'm curious how many women think they could be in a committed relationship with a bisexual man? Would you feel threatened by it?

 

[Bandit58]

Why would I? It's much the same if you reverse the sexes.

I'm a bi female married to a straight man. He allows me to and supports me in exploring my sexuality. I have a lady friend I play with on a regular basis, without him. My husband is certainly not threatened by this, even though in the past a previous g/f left him for another woman.

If he were bi I would have no problem with him wanting to explore as well. How selfish would I be if I put my foot down and said no you can't?

 

[Bill3250]

My wife loves the fact that I'm bisexual. If I weren't, she would force me to suck cock and be anally fucked for her pleasure.

 

[Itigirl]

Pretty much as the title says. I'm curious how many women think they could be in a committed relationship with a bisexual man? Would you feel threatened by it?

Why would I? It's much the same if you reverse the sexes.

I'm a bi female married to a straight man. He allows me to and supports me in exploring my sexuality. I have a lady friend I play with on a regular basis, without him. My husband is certainly not threatened by this, even though in the past a previous g/f left him for another woman.

If he were bi I would have no problem with him wanting to explore as well. How selfish would I be if I put my foot down and said no you can't?

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[PredatorSmile]

I agree. In fact since I know he won't see this, I think I am in love with my bi fwb. I'm not worried about his sexual preference. I just worry there will come a day when I can't be with him at all......

tears......

I'm a bi woman who's happily married to a bisexual policeman in Boston and we have two brats together. no regrets.

 

[desertslave]

No problem here! I spent almost 7 years with my first Master (bi switch) and his own Dom. We didn't live together (never got the chance ) but we were very close and they meant the world to me. They also encouraged me to explore my own bi leanings. It was an interesting, busy time! LOL

My Master/husband knows and supports my bi inclinations. We would love to find another woman to share who really fits with both of us.

 

[Programmer Cat]

Pretty much as the title says. I'm curious how many women think they could be in a committed relationship with a bisexual man? Would you feel threatened by it?

My wife does, and that's good enough for me. It helps that she's bi as well.

 

[FrenchMustard]

It's something that I reveal on the first or second date when I'm dating women, due to some past experiences. I have yet to have it not be a deal breaker for a straight woman.

 

[sunandshadow]

I'd be happy to have a boyfriend who wanted to do mmfs with me, but I would not be happy about one who wanted to play with guys when I wasn't present.

 

[Programmer Cat]

I'd be happy to have a boyfriend who wanted to do mmfs with me, but I would not be happy about one who wanted to play with guys when I wasn't present.

I think that's perfectly reasonable, but that's because I have the exact arrangement with my wife. Likewise, if she wants to bring a woman to join us, that's great. If she wants to play without me, I prefer to know beforehand.

 

[HardNightDay]

It's something that I reveal on the first or second date when I'm dating women, due to some past experiences. I have yet to have it not be a deal breaker for a straight woman.

As a new poster round these parts and apparently a "virgin" I'm still getting acclimated to just who is posting on these boards. However, I'd have to wonder where you are finding your dates. I'm from Colorado in the US and though according to several surveys we are the most "amorous state" still about 50% of the population feels bisexuality is morally wrong and my personal experience is that the vast majority of woman one would meet on the street find bisexual men to be "less of a man".

It is however, refreshing to see several posts from women that do find it appealing. My last LTR was with a woman for whom it was not an issue, I just don't find this to be the norm.

 

[girlofurdreams]

absolutely would... i love diversity, and being openly bisexual myself who am i to judge?

hmmmmm getting wet just from the idea of sharing a man with Sir... not sure if it's His cup of tea though lol

 

[featherfox]

As a bisexual female I've always felt that the only men who would truly understand my appetite would be bi as well. I've even helped a few boyfriends discover their "curiosity". You have to be careful though, and be pretty clear about your definition of "sharing" in that kind of relationship.

 

[girlofurdreams]

You have to be careful though, and be pretty clear about your definition of "sharing" in that kind of relationship.

absolutely agree with you there... there has to be boundaries and definitions when bringing anyone else into relationships... regardless of gender

 

[FrenchMustard]

As a bisexual female I've always felt that the only men who would truly understand my appetite would be bi as well. I've even helped a few boyfriends discover their "curiosity". You have to be careful though, and be pretty clear about your definition of "sharing" in that kind of relationship.

Yeah, I think I'm kinda getting to this point--where I really only want to date bi people of either gender. The gay community varies from condescending to nasty, and to the straight community is just horrible.

 

[bisexualsmoker]

In my current relationship,she's fine with everything.I'd don't think I'd ever go with another
guy unless it were with a women anyway(threesome).
I don't get to see my sweetheart as much as I'd like to.Unfortunately.

 

[HardNightDay]

Yeah, I think I'm kinda getting to this point--where I really only want to date bi people of either gender. The gay community varies from condescending to nasty, and to the straight community is just horrible.

I would echo this. I have dated women, tried dating men (openly), went back to dating women only. I find the straight population at large (this board not included), to be incredibly ignorant about real bisexuality. The stereotpyes of bisexuals are abundant and not very accurate. The gay community is almost worse and, toward bisexual men, shows open hostility. My experience is that maintaining relationships between these different communities is impossible. If one wants personal harmony it almost comes down to a choice between celibacy, or choosing either a gay or straight lifestyle.

 

[fallenupright]

As long as he only plays safely and when I am there... I am totally for it.

And currently involved in such an arrangements. We can have girls or boys home... with each other, safely. And there is no arguments if either of us decides we feel uncomfortable with anything that happens.

 

[Christastic]

Almost without fail when I've told women I'm bisexual they later insist I'm gay. It goes like this.

"So you're really gay, right?"

"Uh, no."

"You can tell me."

"No, I'm attracted to some guys and some women."

"But you only sleep with guys, right?"

There's this idea that only women can truly be bisexual. Bisexual guys are just in the closet or not sure who they are. It's not much better with male friends. Usually they're either too uncomfortable with it to remain friends, or they're progressive enough that it doesn't bother them, but perpetually hopeful you might just give them head because you're buddies. So I mostly keep it a secret.

Not that there's anything wrong with giving someone head because you're buddies, as long as you can prevent it from becoming a whole thing and ruining the friendship.

 

[LadyC]

I love the fact that Bully-boy is bisexual. So much excitement has been added to our sex life because we are both bisexual.

 

[caramelgirl_2]

Well this is a somewhat encouraging thread. Encouraging that I really have always wanted to be in a relationship with a bisexual man, but it just never happened.
I wonder if some bisexual men do just give in and stay with exclusively men, just because of pressure from the gay community to "make a choice"?
I think committment and working out the boundaries is defintely what I would want to do. I don't know that I'd be so uncomfortable with him being with someone without me present. I guess I would want to know ahead of time, and for us to talk a little about the guy. And for some reason, I feel like I'd like it to take place where my partner and I live, so that it would still be, somehow, a shared experience.
Actually, I'd like to be partnered with two bisexual men and be in a committed 3-way relationship with them. Guess I like crowds (lol).

Has anyone seen the movie, "Three of Hearts: A Postmodern Family"? Something fell apart for the individuals in this documentary, but I still think it could've worked. If anyone watched this movie or watches it later, hit me up on it so we can talk about it.

 

[seamanstains]

Pretty much as the title says. I'm curious how many women think they could be in a committed relationship with a bisexual man? Would you feel threatened by it?

how would they know ??

 

[klippert]

She is ok with it

We had a meeting of the minds after she came in my office and saw i was posting my cock online....and not her pix...

She confessed that all the years she has been working with Gay or Bi men she had wanted too see two men in action.....never knowing about my younger days, i told Mrsk about my past.....she wasn't shocked......but a little surprised.

I told her I would luv too see her with other women, hook up with a like minded cpl.....she confessed about her college room mate, that she is still very close too.
Didn't surprise me at ALL.....since than we have had some wonderful moments.....she has watched me with men and I have enjoyed her friend and have had the pleasure of watching mrsK and her friend as well as joining in......

 

[LadyC]

Pretty much as the title says. I'm curious how many women think they could be in a committed relationship with a bisexual man? Would you feel threatened by it?

If he were straight, would they feel threatened by other women? The problem wouldn't be the bi-man, it would be the insecure woman.

 

[sunandshadow]

Some women are egotistical enough to think they can outcompete any other woman, lol. But an apple can't compete with an orange.