What do you wear around the House ?

[halfticket]

For those who live with their family.. especially kids, I am curious to find out What you women wear around the house day in and day out whether or not the kids are around the house. For example do you roam around wearing collars or leather if your man/master wants you to ? what clothes do you genrally wear ? are any wounds/marks exposed ? How does it affect your relationship?

 

[rosco rathbone]

Right now I'm rocking a pair of cut-off sweat-pants, a black tee-shirt with a wizard on it and a pair of sambas with footie sox.

No draws!

 

[graceanne]

I'm wearing a bluejean skirt and a red tshirt. Got panties and a bra on. I'll probably wear this until about bedtime-ish when I'll switch into my nightgown. My nightgown used to be a maternity dress that I got bleach stains on. It's very comfy. No underwear or bra, then.

K is in his green shorts and a red tshirt that I bought him today. He's watching TV.

We don't wear fetish wear around the kids. If their will be marks we're very careful to keep them places that are easily hidden. 24/7 is not like the stories, it's a lot like real life.

 

[EmpressFi]

24/7 is not like the stories, it's a lot like real life.

I think I love you.. hehe...

right now, I'm wearing a his white Tshirt and a pair of blue cotton workout pants. We're packing to move to cleveland, Ohio tomorrow so I'm about as comfy as I can get. My Master doesnt live with us, so I pretty much wear .. normal day to day clothes. No kids around, so I dont have to worry about marks so much. I wear a necklace every day that's my collar and I wear a pinky ring with two kitties, that's like my wedding ring to him. I also wear my official wedding ring, although that's now on my middle finger because of weight loss.

When Master and I are together.. in the hotel room, I'm pretty much naked with just my leather collar.. otherwise, going out.. it's back to normal clothes.

 

[graceanne]

I think I love you.. hehe...

LOL Me, Cat, and several other people who're 24/7 have said this a lot. No one on either side of the whip has the energy to be in fetish gear and on their knees all that time. Beyond that, unless you're independently wealthy and not worried about the state taking your kids you HAVE to take care of r/l. I'm sorry, I can't stay home, naked all the time with a cock in my mouth. I have kids to take care of and errands to run and meals to cook and neighbors to deal with. Quite frankly, we're happy if we have the energy to HAVE sex, let alone kinky sex.

 

[desertslave]

Most of the time just normal clothes. M prefers me in skirts or dresses, but he's not going to inflict heat stroke or frostbite on me, depending on the weather. Today it's shorts and a t-shirt. Probably tomorrow will be jeans because I'll be playing with fire and dislike singed thighs.

I'm in "when will this summer break EVER end????" mode at the moment. We have two teenagers in the house. DS's school starts in two weeks, DD goes back to college (locally) the end of August. When they're out of the house for a significant period of time we try to have some quality playtime, and then M likes to keep my "chained & nekkid". Those times are regrettably few and far between. I emphasized to DD that, in planning this year's college schedule, it would be a Very Good Thing if she spent significant blocks of time on campus, instead of running back & forth.

Yeah, this 'real life fantasy' thing is for the birds!

 

[subbie_333]

i think y'all would look great in vanilla clothes. So much so that i wanna see pics. Lots of them. Lounging in front of the TV. In your sweaty workout clothes. Right out of the shower. Even sleepy bedhead. You. Your sisters. Even your good looking mothers. Filling this thread. Filling my email box. Yeah, i'm a slut like that.

 

[Caitlynne]

24/7 is not like the stories, it's a lot like real life.

**leaves cookies for Gracie**

 

[intothewoods]

LOL Me, Cat, and several other people who're 24/7 have said this a lot. No one on either side of the whip has the energy to be in fetish gear and on their knees all that time. Beyond that, unless you're independently wealthy and not worried about the state taking your kids you HAVE to take care of r/l. I'm sorry, I can't stay home, naked all the time with a cock in my mouth. I have kids to take care of and errands to run and meals to cook and neighbors to deal with. Quite frankly, we're happy if we have the energy to HAVE sex, let alone kinky sex.

worst submissive ever!

I don't wear fetish gear anywhere except a party. Mister Man isn't that into it anyway, even collars. Play time is naked time.

 

[FurryFury]

Most of the time I wear a washable silk or satin robe and isotoner (sp?) slippers. Sometimes I wear nothing. Sometimes I'm still in professional work clothes. Other times I'm in casual Mom gear.

My husband never tells me what to wear though. This is all me.

 

[Bandit58]

It's winter here. Too friggin cold to be naked and chained When I'm not in my nightie and dressing gown I'm in thick trackies, polar fleece sweatshirt, thick socks and daggy slippers. Even in summer I'm in shorts/sarong and a singlet top (no bra it's too hot and uncomfortable).

I rarely have marks in places that would show. I have an everyday collar that looks like a piece of jewellery. The only times I have worn my leather collar lately have been to a sex and lifestyle expo (Sexpo) the other day and I'll wear it tonight at a Lit together we're having at the local club, along with a shortish skirt, seamed stockings and heels - Sir has requested the heels

Other than that it's business as usual - oh btw Sir doesn't wear His leathers and carry a whip around all the time either

 

[ataxia.girl]

i usually wear casual skirts or a cute nightie or pj's around the house; skirt or shorts out. i've been a pajama girl a long time but the last few months i have been enjoying wearing more attractive sleepwear.

i don't really like wearing leather. i have a pink leather collar which i never wear unless someone asks me to in which case it would with no one else around.

 

[Netzach]

A dress. From Target.

 

[Gunny_G]

We made a decission

When we were new to the lifestyle I wanted something that symbolised our commitment to each other and up till that point it had changed to fit real life, with an edge. What I did was propose marraige as a bonding, unlike others the toh was not just a wedding ring but a mini collar, always there to remnd who she was a part of. Only select few knew the true meaning behind our rings but thay have lasted 9 yrs, 3 children and many many vanillian life changes. Such as being homeless together, and moving multuple times, not of our choice. Life changes constantly but our commitment to each other and our foinding principles haven't. Thus the ring still has a special meaning for Us.

 

[the captians wench]

I live alone, so when I'm at home all I wear is my collar.

The only time I don't wear my collar is when I'm going to work or business type thing. i wear my collar around all of the time, but it fits my style of dress so mostly it's looked at as a fashion statement. *shrug* When the kids (my nieces and nephew) ask about it, i tell them, i wear it because it's very special to me. That's all they need to know, and it's usually enough to get them to move on to something else.

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, I must be boring, I never wear fetish gear!! Sorry to burst the OP's fantasy but we both wear your average clothes at home and out. I don't wear knickers, but that is not new as I stopped wearing them of my own choice in my teens and that was decades ago...I also began shaving/plucking around that time to so that slo was not a big shock for him to request, more a relief he didn't want me to stop. Leather collar has always been in place, no pretty necklace or choker for going out etc., just the same thick leather collar day in, day out, though at the moment it is off due to recent allergic reactions. Marks rarely happen anymore...seem to have built up a resistance to them...but if and when they are present, they are usually in places not easily seen by others, but if not, are left visible. We do tend to notice the odd cane, rope, flogger left around the place when we cast a careful eye around the house, but we have given up on letting it bother us enough to rush and hide it all.

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/173/376615023_0ab3a34b3f_t.jpg Catalina

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I wear normal clothes mostly. I'm not a fan of dresses or skirts because I get eczema on my calves so unless the weather allows me to wear thick tights, I very rarely wear a skirt.

Master has a thing for lingerie, stockings and suspenders particularly. If he wants me walking around the house in a corset, thong, stockings, knee high boots and a collar, he says so and I do it. If he's feeling horny, the first sign I get is often a command to go and dress up, usually stipulating that I must be no more than 5 minutes for the fun of hearing me frantically searching though my clothes and attempting to fasten a corset at the speed of light, so I'm all tousled and flustered when I get downstairs and kneel before him.

I also enjoy dressing up in sexy lingerie as a surprise for him or putting something outrageous on under my civvies for him to discover later.

Master's not a fan of makeup and I have sensitive skin, so a rarely wear it. Plus, although I'm 29, I look 17 so me in makeup just looks like jailbait.

I wear a necklace with his initial engraved on a heart shaped padlock pendant and nobody has ever commented on it. (Currently, it needs repairing though, bloody doms and their chokeholds!) I have a plain black collar that I wear around the house. We live together and have no kids.

 

[intothewoods]

LOL, I must be boring, I never wear fetish gear!! Sorry to burst the OP's fantasy but we both wear your average clothes at home and out. I don't wear knickers, but that is not new as I stopped wearing them of my own choice in my teens and that was decades ago...I also began shaving/plucking around that time to so that slo was not a big shock for him to request, more a relief he didn't want me to stop. Leather collar has always been in place, no pretty necklace or choker for going out etc., just the same thick leather collar day in, day out, though at the moment it is off due to recent allergic reactions. Marks rarely happen anymore...seem to have built up a resistance to them...but if and when they are present, they are usually in places not easily seen by others, but if not, are left visible. We do tend to notice the odd cane, rope, flogger left around the place when we cast a careful eye around the house, but we have given up on letting it bother us enough to rush and hide it all.

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/173/376615023_0ab3a34b3f_t.jpg Catalina

OOC - do people ever ask about the collar?

 

[minx1]

I'm sorry, I can't stay home, naked all the time with a cock in my mouth.

Whaaaat?? Call yourself a proper sub Gracie?!

LOL, I must be boring, I never wear fetish gear!!

http://farm1.static.flickr.com/173/376615023_0ab3a34b3f_t.jpg Catalina

*smiles* D actually prefers me naked I think. I wear sexy lingerie sometimes but it never stays on long. lol And the only ''proper basque'' I wore once didn't really have the desired effect....it was beaded and scraped! *laugh*

I live alone and around the house I am usually in a t and knickers. Thats how I am and how I have been for years!

 

[catalina_francisco]

OOC - do people ever ask about the collar?

Nope, which surprised me in the beginning as it was way off the type of jewelry/accessories I usually wore so I expected people I knew to ask or comment about my wearing something so unlike my taste. The only person who ever mentioned it was a friend of one of F's friends who we went to dinner with...he was visiting from Canada and commented he he thought it was nice, and I got the feeling he knew what it symbolised but was respectful and polite enough not to mention it. LOL, I do get comments mor often that I need to be less submissive and attentive toward F as I am only encouraging him to demand more of me...but they usually, though not always, come from those who do not realise our dynamic.

Catalina

 

[kinkyknickers]

M doesn't seem too phased about what I wear. Usually the preference is nothing. In summer that's pretty easy, right now it's not really suitable.

 

[nippleslut]

its summer so sometimes i wear nothing and kids dont mind ( we might as well live at the nude beach in the summer we are there everyweekend and sometimes durring the week) so my kids are used to seeing me naked. Other times is will be short and tshirt. In the winter its sweats, jeans, and some usally a sweatshirt. I do not have a colar but i do have a necklace that Sir gave me that i must wear at all times but other then that- i make sure to cover any marks so usally durring the summer He makes it a point to try to not leave marks on me.

 

[graceanne]

LOL, I must be boring, I never wear fetish gear!!

Truthfully, neither do I. For one thing it's spendy. I do, occasionally, wear lingerie when we've got time and energy to have more than quick sex. But, even then, it doesn't stay on very long.

 

[Guest]

LOL Me, Cat, and several other people who're 24/7 have said this a lot. No one on either side of the whip has the energy to be in fetish gear and on their knees all that time. Beyond that, unless you're independently wealthy and not worried about the state taking your kids you HAVE to take care of r/l. I'm sorry, I can't stay home, naked all the time with a cock in my mouth. I have kids to take care of and errands to run and meals to cook and neighbors to deal with. Quite frankly, we're happy if we have the energy to HAVE sex, let alone kinky sex.

Same here.

I feel so much better reading this!

 

[nh23]

24/7 is not like the stories, it's a lot like real life.

Yay! I have to wear scrubs for work. Work is also the only time I wear panties. But that's my choice. I haven't worn underwear on a regular basis since I was a kid. Around the house I usually wear pj's. I don't have a lot of clothes. I hate to buy them for myself. I do have a ton of pj's though. I love them.