Can anyone actually justify BDSM or even the BDSM board? Nazis or just dickheads?

[Desert Amazon]

That said, they're still awfully kind to each other on the forum. There's kind of unsaid respect. They don't treat each other like we do here.

Very true.

 

[Desert Amazon]

because its just weird and abnormal. (outside of a normal prison context)

There is generally a hell of a lot more trust and intimacy in a D/s relationship.

Just because it's not for you doesn't mean there's something wrong with it. Different strokes, eh?

 

[cherokee_dove]

hobbit, your an ass!!

First off hobbit. Who the hell are you to judge us? You are definitely not my God, not even my Devil! Do you control my life? No. Because that would make you a Dom, of which you will never be.

You are nothing but a low life shit stirring scumbag who thinks he can call those of us that are into BDSM; pedophiles, Nazis, bully's and doormats.

That right there, asshole; would get your cock and balls cut off so fucking fast, you would be screaming and begging on your knees to kiss SeanH's ass!

All you are is a submissive who is afraid to admit it, even to himself!

Oh, and yes; i am a submissive. And damn proud of it. And you will notice i didn't capitalize anything dealing with you. Because you sure as hell will never be any sort of Dom in my book.

SO DROP DEAD!!

p.s. In respect (which is something us BDSMer's know and use) of this board, this has nothing to do with anyone but that piece of crap hobbit.

 

[MechaBlade]

having looked over 'their' part of the site, the only thing that can be accepted is that they are all fucked in the head, either bullies seeking to justify their bullying, or doormats looking for excuses for being doormats.

sad but bloody funny.

I'm sorry to hear about you being a prude.

 

[jockdom]

it was a parralel, BDSM doms seek growns up with child like minds, its easier to dominate a child like mind, prey on the insecurities.....

and its legal.

Two consentual adults, nobody is getting exploited. Your vehement hatred of our lifestyle reminds me of the gay basher who himself has homosexual fantasies.

 

[hobbit.]

First off hobbit. Who the hell are you to judge us? You are definitely not my God, not even my Devil! Do you control my life? No. Because that would make you a Dom, of which you will never be.

You are nothing but a low life shit stirring scumbag who thinks he can call those of us that are into BDSM; pedophiles, Nazis, bully's and doormats.

That right there, asshole; would get your cock and balls cut off so fucking fast, you would be screaming and begging on your knees to kiss SeanH's ass!

All you are is a submissive who is afraid to admit it, even to himself!

Oh, and yes; i am a submissive. And damn proud of it. And you will notice i didn't capitalize anything dealing with you. Because you sure as hell will never be any sort of Dom in my book.

SO DROP DEAD!!

p.s. In respect (which is something us BDSMer's know and use) of this board, this has nothing to do with anyone but that piece of crap hobbit.

would you think of yourself as dilusional at all?

 

[hobbit.]

Two consentual adults, nobody is getting exploited. Your vehement hatred of our lifestyle reminds me of the gay basher who himself has homosexual fantasies.

such self confidence, For your info though (other than you being Scottish) I dont actually hate your lifestyle, but if you choose to make a sexual kink into a lifestyle choice.......... you lot deserve more pity than ridicule.

it is seriously fucked up though.

 

[EmpressFi]

weak doormats and nazi-ish bullies, yes, those are fucked up in the head. However, most submissives are not doormats and would kick your ass for saying so while the dominants would sit back with their arms crossed and laugh. And most of the dominants are sadists, not bullies. They do not push their will on someone. If the submissive doesnt want to do it, they dont, they'll just find someone who DOES.

Before you make judgements, stop looking at the porn version of BDSM

 

[Tebazile]

weak doormats and nazi-ish bullies, yes, those are fucked up in the head. However, most submissives are not doormats and would kick your ass for saying so while the dominants would sit back with their arms crossed and laugh. And most of the dominants are sadists, not bullies. They do not push their will on someone. If the submissive doesnt want to do it, they dont, they'll just find someone who DOES.

Before you make judgements, stop looking at the porn version of BDSM

*claps*

Bravo!

You make so much sense.

 

[JazzManJim]

Most people who criticize BDSM don't have the foggiest idea what they're talking about and aren't interesting in educating themselves.

Then again, that's true of most stuff, I imagine.

 

[save_marla]

If you ask any two people what a BDSM relationship is, to them, you will inevitably get different answers. It's anything you want it to be.

Engaging in a "BDSM" relationship is an excuse, and eventually a commitment, to communicate on a deeper level with your partner, and honestly discuss your desires and fears and limits.

It's a commitment to trust each other, to speak your mind, and to keep an open mind re: new ideas.

After that, it's anything you want it to be. You set the rules with your partner.



There are good and bad people, there are stable and unhealthy people, as there are in any relationship. There are people who want to believe it's something it's not - ditto any relationship.

Where it's different is the reiterated requirement for communication and trust.

Making it the healthiest relationship I've ever been in.

The nostril-fucking was just a one-time thing.

 

[cherokee_dove]

would you think of yourself as dilusional at all?

No, i don't. i am very soundly grounded in who i am. And the word is not dilusional, it is delusional. Learn to spell.

Obviously though, you are the delusional one. Someone finally calls you out for who you are, an internet troublemaker; and thats all you can say?

As to your "God's rep on Earth", your the one being delusional. He doesn't like troublemakers such as yourself.

One word for you. LOSER.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I'm a sicko sexual deviant and proud of it, thank you very much.

You can say that BDSM is twisted and wrong. I can say that nice, normal, lovey dovey sex is boring as shit and a total waste of the body's pleasure/pain receptors, adrenaline and endorphines. You can say that there should be equality within a relationship. I can say that our power exchange dynamic works for us and saves petty squabbles about everything. Tomato, tomato.

Meh.

What's the point though? You keep your weekly 5 minute fuck, in the missionary position, with the lights off and I'll keep my flogger, handcuffs and couple hours of exquisitely torturous BDSM play. I know who I think's the winner.

Regardless of that, throwing around the notion that all BDSMers have been abused as children (see hobbit's thread on the BDSM forum) is fucking retarded. It's just as much of an insult to people who were abused and went on to live nice, normal lives with nice, normal relationships and nice, normal sex as it is to the very small minority of BDSM practitioners who have been abused as kids.

You admit you know fuck all about it, so go find out at the hands of some vicious pro-domme, read through the BDSM library or do the decent thing and shut the fuck up. Throwing around cheap insults like this is a total own-goal.

 

[jockdom]

such self confidence, For your info though (other than you being Scottish) I dont actually hate your lifestyle, but if you choose to make a sexual kink into a lifestyle choice.......... you lot deserve more pity than ridicule.

it is seriously fucked up though.

I rather be fucked up than a small minded anglo-saxon bigot!

 

[hobbit.]

No, i don't. i am very soundly grounded in who i am. And the word is not dilusional, it is delusional. Learn to spell.

Obviously though, you are the delusional one. Someone finally calls you out for who you are, an internet troublemaker; and thats all you can say?

As to your "God's rep on Earth", your the one being delusional. He doesn't like troublemakers such as yourself.

One word for you. LOSER.

oh dear... touch a nerve there did I?

get a grip on reality you poor lost soul.

 

[hobbit.]

I rather be fucked up than a small minded anglo-saxon bigot!

see, all those anger issues and no real ground for any of them, no wonder you seek out people to vent your frustrations on. How about focusing on the highland clearances for a while, give that anger some direction?

 

[hobbit.]

I'm a sicko sexual deviant and proud of it, thank you very much.

You can say that BDSM is twisted and wrong.it is, prove otherwise I can say that nice, normal, lovey dovey sex is boring as shit and a total waste of the body's pleasure/pain receptors,because you are head fucked adrenaline and endorphines. You can say that there should be equality within a relationship so you are a nazi then?. I can say that our power exchange dynamic works for us and saves petty squabbles about everything lets gas the jews then or the gypsies or the gays or the islamics or anyone else 'we' dont like. Tomato, tomato.

Meh.

What's the point though? You keep your weekly 5 minute fuck, in the missionary position, with the lights off and I'll keep my flogger, handcuffs and couple hours of exquisitely torturous BDSM play. I know who I think's the winner. and still a pervert of the lowest order, seek out the weak and enjoy 'em

Regardless of that, throwing around the notion that all BDSMers have been abused as children (see hobbit's thread on the BDSM forum) is fucking retarded ok i should have said 'but feel free to deny your desire to exploit those weaker than yourself. It's just as much of an insult to people who were abused and went on to live nice, normal lives with nice, normal relationships and nice, normal sex as it is to the very small minority of BDSM practitioners who have been abused as kids so there are some? no shit......

You admit you know fuck all about it, so go find out at the hands of some vicious pro-domme, read through the BDSM library or do the decent thing and shut the fuck up. Throwing around cheap insults like this is a total own-goal.I think you just proved that, seek the Lord, pray, avoid children...

your Sig line says it all...... so you like the slavery concept? nice one.

 

[jockdom]

see, all those anger issues and no real ground for any of them, no wonder you seek out people to vent your frustrations on. How about focusing on the highland clearances for a while, give that anger some direction?

Don't lecture me on my countries history! Illegal immigrant!

 

[hobbit.]

Don't lecture me on my countries history! Illegal immigrant!

you have a country..... Scotland... i'm off to watch duncan banantine (the nasty jock) on dragons den.

 

[where]

you have a country..... Scotland... i'm off to watch duncan banantine (the nasty jock) on dragons den.

I still don't get how you can't be even slightly aroused by the sight of a bound woman (or man if that's your bent), open and aroused wanting your touch. I mean, I'm as vanilla as they come, but it is such a turn on...

Oh well!

 

[Morefatcuntfun]

hobbit you stupid drunk cunt go fuck your dog

 

[EvelynTreemont]

A true sign of a person who is secure within themselves, is their ability to accept and tolerate the lifestyles of others, regardless of whether they agree and without resorting to petty insults and moralistic crusading...

 

[Legenda]

A true sign of a person who is secure within themselves, is their ability to accept and tolerate the lifestyles of others, regardless of whether they agree and without resorting to petty insults and moralistic crusading...

But pointing and laughing is fun!

If you are secure in your oddity, the pointing and laughing shouldn't bother you.

 

[EvelynTreemont]

True, but part of me really wanted to point back.

Yunno, you gotta take what you can dish out and all that...

 

[Legenda]

True, but part of me really wanted to point back.

Yunno, you gotta take what you can dish out and all that...

It's easy enough to point and laugh at Hobbit. He's British.