Drubnk.

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[neonlyte]

If he's any sense, getting morning nookie

I'll share a glass for your loss, but don't sweat the anniversary... he'll always be your big brother

 

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[TE999]

Where is The Earl?

Drubnk. This anniversary hit me hard, I guess.

I am now older than my brother was. My big brother is no longer my big brother.

I can't quite wrap my head around that.

Could be the rum.

(((hugs))) sweetie.

Drink a toast to his memory. I can join you if you like.

 

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[TE999]

You are all very sweet. And I'm trying to not be maudlin.

But quite frankly, I didn't start drinking rum until I was trying to deal with the situation.

I do still like rum, I should be pleased I don't drink as much as I used to.

Sad to relate, when the bottle is empty the sadness remains. Only time and good memories will lessen the ache in the heart.

That and the love of one's family and friends.

 

[starrkers]

Raise a glass in celebration that he lived and he'll cheer you on.

My brother would've turned 61 next week. That seems very weird.

 

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[TE999]

I'm much better, though, Tom. Really.

That first year I didn't sleep much, eventually resorted to rum just to turn off the thoughts.

I finally had to back away from the rum use because the overuse concerned me.

So now it's almost a joke - sarahhs rum!

I grin and think - if they only knew!

I'm glad you turned away from the abyss darlin'.

That takes strength of character.

Fortunately, both you and we Litizens can joke about it now. Often triumph arises from tragedy, and humor as well.

 

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[neonlyte]

It is a joke now - I'm very happy to report. It's recreational, not necessary.

Now hubby and I laugh about how rum fits into the Atkins diet, too.



(Thanks! )

I'm relieved... didn't know how to answer you, Tom did the bus'

 

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[Chantilyvamp]

He will?

I need a big brother.

[hugs tight] i wish i didn't relate to that, but with two older brothers and one older sister gone I sure know how it feels. The drink won't change it but I know its nice to be a bit number about it on the day. I know that was my problem yesterday and today.

you used the vice you needed to survive the time and you know when to pull back that my darlin is one of the most courageous moves

 

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[mansome]

*hugging* the sweet one tight......

 

[Stella_Omega]

Oh, Sarahh-- (((hugs))) I love you

I'm with Chant; you use what you need, and knew when to dial it back-- that's really impressive.

 

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[mansome]

I could use another mansome hug.

*hugs* you even closer from behind..... *leans* lips on your bare shoulder

 

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[jomar]

It almost feels like I'm intruding on something private. But I wanted to offer my support.

 

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[jomar]

No intrusion. Thank you.

I didn't talk about this at all while it was happening, and I probably should have. Many months later I finally found I could. I was lucky - there were quite a few Litsters online late in the evenings.

I'm glad you found comfort.

 

[SlickTony]