cherokee_dove
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First off, i was going to post this in the "What pissed you off today" thread; but i needed to know if i did right for my kids.
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Part of me is pissed off, part in sorrow, and part of me is glad the worry is over...aka happy...but not joyously happy.
My ex sister in law called earlier today, DEMANDING i bring my kids to Cleveland Clinic; because my ex husband of over 10 years is there in ICU, brain dead.
i told her first off you dont demand anything of me. Secondly, he had never been involved in their lives since even before the divorce; so why would she think he would care now?
Back when we were married; i was a quiet, shy, very naive, person who didn't speak up for myself at all. So when i started in on her, it shocked her.
She started bitching me out, so i told her i was sorry for her loss; as his sister.
i told her first off,that if he was brain dead; he wouldn't know the kids were there or not.
Secondly, he had never been a part of their lives; and on the day i gave birth to my second son (i say my because yes, he is the biological sperm donor aka father
) of both my children; he was never there as a father. But on that day, he brought his whore to the hospital with him.
His sister had the nerve to say that i was his whore first before the one he brought with him.
i said EXCUSSSSSSE MEEEEE....but i was not his whore, i was his wife. And he was the one cheating, not me. And i hung up on her.
She called back immediately, bitching me out. i just told her that after the beatings i took from him, and the thumpins he put on my oldest sons head; i could care less about him. And told her that i was *57ing the call (tracing it), and hung up. i called the sheriff and told him. He called her and told her she would be arrested for phone harrassment if she called again.
i know this all sounds mean, but after all he put me and my kids through; that is where the somewhat happy feeling, aka happy that i dont have to worry anymore about him stealing my kids from me; or killing me; or torching my place comes in.
The sorrow is there because i did have to sit the kids down, and tell them. We had already talked years ago about him not being in their lives. And they were ok with it. But i knew they needed to know. The pain of seeing the thoughts run past my oldests eyes as he tried to come to terms with it was the hardest.
My youngest never even met him, so it doesnt bother him at all.
i asked them if they wanted to go up to see him, and my oldest looked at me and said; "Why should we, he never came to see us?"
So to me, there is the decision. i just pray it is the right one.
Thanks in advance for any advice. dove
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Part of me is pissed off, part in sorrow, and part of me is glad the worry is over...aka happy...but not joyously happy.
My ex sister in law called earlier today, DEMANDING i bring my kids to Cleveland Clinic; because my ex husband of over 10 years is there in ICU, brain dead.
i told her first off you dont demand anything of me. Secondly, he had never been involved in their lives since even before the divorce; so why would she think he would care now?
Back when we were married; i was a quiet, shy, very naive, person who didn't speak up for myself at all. So when i started in on her, it shocked her.
She started bitching me out, so i told her i was sorry for her loss; as his sister.
i told her first off,that if he was brain dead; he wouldn't know the kids were there or not.
Secondly, he had never been a part of their lives; and on the day i gave birth to my second son (i say my because yes, he is the biological sperm donor aka father
His sister had the nerve to say that i was his whore first before the one he brought with him.
i said EXCUSSSSSSE MEEEEE....but i was not his whore, i was his wife. And he was the one cheating, not me. And i hung up on her.
She called back immediately, bitching me out. i just told her that after the beatings i took from him, and the thumpins he put on my oldest sons head; i could care less about him. And told her that i was *57ing the call (tracing it), and hung up. i called the sheriff and told him. He called her and told her she would be arrested for phone harrassment if she called again.
i know this all sounds mean, but after all he put me and my kids through; that is where the somewhat happy feeling, aka happy that i dont have to worry anymore about him stealing my kids from me; or killing me; or torching my place comes in.
The sorrow is there because i did have to sit the kids down, and tell them. We had already talked years ago about him not being in their lives. And they were ok with it. But i knew they needed to know. The pain of seeing the thoughts run past my oldests eyes as he tried to come to terms with it was the hardest.
My youngest never even met him, so it doesnt bother him at all.
i asked them if they wanted to go up to see him, and my oldest looked at me and said; "Why should we, he never came to see us?"
So to me, there is the decision. i just pray it is the right one.
Thanks in advance for any advice. dove
