Anal Fingering

[shrek100]

Yes I am Male,
I am wanting my wife to figer my ass whilst sucking my cock. She will rub around the enterance but I can not get her o actually finger fuck me.
I am not sure if to actually come straight out and ask her or can you guys and Girls think of another wasy to get her to do this?

 

[Carling228]

Have you not tried asking her while she is rubbing around the entrance, she must know how much it turns you on.
When your both turned on she might just do it if you ask her to try pushing her finger in slightly and see hoe it goes.

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

If she's up for rubbing it, I'm sure tipping it isn't too much of a stretch.

Pun intended.

 

[kinkyknickers]

Coming from a chick's perspective, the reason she hasn't actually gone there yet is because she doesn't know if you'll like it.
Guys are all very different when it comes to anal stimulation, some like to put jam jars up there, others like dildos, some like a finger or two, some will only go as far as rimming and no more and others won't let you past5 their balls for fear you may wander into that area.
Dude, if she's happy to touch the area, then she's probably not sqeamish about it. Just ask her when she's visiting the area, the worst she can say is no, she probably won't.
Also another thing to keep in mind, I don't know if she likes anal penetration done on herself or not, but if she doesn't, then assure her that it won't lead to you trying it on her unless she asks you to.

Happy fingering, KK

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Get her drunk and horny and then ask her to do it.

 

[baristagirl]

Some guys wriggle away when you get near that area, some practically plant themselves on your hand. As a girl I try to explore a little to see if they'll like it, but I won't go too far unless they really indicate that they want me to. Then again, I have a thing with being told what to do anyway .

FeelFree has a good point... when you're both worked up she'll be more receptive.

 

[ApprenticeApril]

I personally enjoy rubbing around the outside, but I don't like penetration using my fingers. I do give penetration to him in other ways since I know he likes it, but I don't like using fingers.
She may or may not be willing to do it, but you should at least ask. Tell her that you like what she's already doing, and might want to try a little more.
Of course be willing to try something from her as well.

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Just buy some beads or a plug and hand them to her in the middle of it. Give her a wanting look and that should be enough.

 

[TenJed69]

Get her drunk and horny and then ask her to do it.

This applies to any and all problems that may arise in your sex and or general life

 

[IsabellaKing]

 

[seamanstains]

fingering

my wife is like yours run her finger around but will not stick it in.she says that she do,snt want any shit on her finger,but likes me to do it to her.maybe if you get her to wear a latex glove she will do it and find that it do,snt get shitty,then she may just use a bare finger.
best of luck with this

 

[greeneyed_Lady]

I'm fond of a little bit of squirming and begging... hehehe...

 

[twysted73]

Yes I am Male,
I am wanting my wife to figer my ass whilst sucking my cock. She will rub around the enterance but I can not get her o actually finger fuck me.
I am not sure if to actually come straight out and ask her or can you guys and Girls think of another wasy to get her to do this?

Dude....
Look...when she's running your rim, let her know vocally just how "fucking hot" that feels.
Moan. Let her know. If she loves you or cares anything about you, she'll want you to feel more pleasre. The only logical step after that would be to go in.
Set a trail or vocal breadcrumbs for her to find. If she's STILL not getting with the program, simply say, in a breathy tone, "In" or "inside, yeah..god that feels so fucking good" etc.

It's really not hard.

if she's a prude and thinks it's disgusting and she'll never do it, you might want to back away slowly and look for an exit as she's way too close-minded and if fingering your ass scares her, forget rainbow play, golden showers or impact/edge play.

Slainte`

 

[subwannabe]

Just ask her

 

[myinnerslut]

Just ask her

best answer yet

 

[LadyC]

Being bi, my man-boy loves a couple fingers in his anus on the occasions he is fortunate enough to put his cock in my mouth, a couple of times I managed to work my entire hand (gloved, of course) into his butt. He wasn't pleased with it, but I loved doing it and I thrilled to the painful moans that echoed around us.

As for myself, when he goes down on me, I let billy-boy finger my ass, but only to open it encough to enable him to ease his tongue inside.

 

[SubNebGuy]

do some searching for 'prostate massage'. print off some info and show her. from the standpoint of "it says "mind blowing orgasm honey!"

that helps take some of the 'stigma' out of it. there's nothing gay or bi about having your ass played with. having sexual interludes with other dudes is what qualifies as gay/bi.

you know your wife better than us. if she loves you and isn't a "prude", she should be willing to try it once, or get a really small butt plug.

 

[shrek100]

UPDATE....
WE finally did it, well she did anyway...... What an experiance, its tsrange I have done it myself but with my wife doing it it was so fucking hot. The feeling was great but the whole thing - the fact it feels a little naughty WOW.

She only used one finger upto the secong knuckle but its a start.

Thanks for all the good advise

 

[Bill3250]

Too many guys, want you to suck their cock, but won't let you finger their assholes. Fuck them! They don't know what they are missing.

 

[ImpishSeraph]

UPDATE....
WE finally did it, well she did anyway...... What an experiance, its tsrange I have done it myself but with my wife doing it it was so fucking hot. The feeling was great but the whole thing - the fact it feels a little naughty WOW.

She only used one finger upto the secong knuckle but its a start.

Thanks for all the good advise

Did it affect the outcum

 

[Feelfreetotouch]

Who's advice did you use? In other words how did you get her to do it?

 

[greeneyed_Lady]

YAY!! Good news.. did she enjoy it as much as you seemed to have?

 

[oldkinky]

UPDATE....
WE finally did it, well she did anyway...... What an experiance, its tsrange I have done it myself but with my wife doing it it was so fucking hot. The feeling was great but the whole thing - the fact it feels a little naughty WOW.

She only used one finger upto the secong knuckle but its a start.

Thanks for all the good advise

I agree it is fantastic!! My wife always uses a vibrating anal toy to massage my prostate while she gives me a blowjob. Fantastic orgasms. I cum and cum.

Now we are into her using a strap on to fuck me. Fantastic.

 

[shrek100]

I used a mix of all the ideas posted, I think actually asking was the main factor.

Looking forward to some more experimenting now.. . . Been looking at all the "smaller" toys to start with.

 

[merrygirl]

I love being fingered and rimmed. I go nuts for it. But I am a girl who uses the wax faithfully, and the occasional douche if necessary. My DH, on the other hand, has a harry asshole. He is fastidious, but I don't think he thinks of a bit of soap in his anus. He is reluctant for me to do him, but he devours me. It seems that butt fur never gets spanking clean enough (ha). If I could get hiim to wax, then wow!