Need some input :]

[Soyeahimbored]

Well I was sent over here from the How To forum after being said I was posting a question that would better suit you guys and gals! So here I am!

I have read up on the subject that I am going to ask, but I am still in need of info!

Humiliation, I have read that it is all preference. I have also read stories about it and it all seems so hardcore. Like making fun of the guy cause he has a small dick, or something along those lines. I want to know some good light humiliation things my Mistress could do to me. Some ideas we have already are ; face sitting, making me wear girl clothes, snowballing. What are some other good ideas/things you have experienced or what to experience in the future?

 

[pinkeden]

*quick hint*

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=298249

 

[Soyeahimbored]

*quick hint*

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=298249

I have read all the topics on the subject I looked at. I know that everyone finds different things humiliation and whatnot, I need ideas of things that would be humiliation for people and that might get my brain flowing.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Are you sure this is for you? The reason I ask is because you don't seem to know what will work for you. If you really want to go there you will have to get more in touch with what triggers work for you personally and go from there. While some who are into humiliation play are willing to talk about what they have experienced, others are not so ready to tell the world simply because yes, it was/is humiliating and not something they wish to share with the public. Maybe you need to read more stories if you still cannot come up with anything. It is also possible to not find something humiliating with your partner that normally would be with someone else. It is all in the head.

Catalina

 

[Bill3250]

Well I was sent over here from the How To forum after being said I was posting a question that would better suit you guys and gals! So here I am!

I have read up on the subject that I am going to ask, but I am still in need of info!

Humiliation, I have read that it is all preference. I have also read stories about it and it all seems so hardcore. Like making fun of the guy cause he has a small dick, or something along those lines. I want to know some good light humiliation things my Mistress could do to me. Some ideas we have already are ; face sitting, making me wear girl clothes, snowballing. What are some other good ideas/things you have experienced or what to experience in the future?

Something done to me by m'lady may help you.......

Recently, m'Lady returned home with two her girl friends and found me naked, lounging in the recliner and masturbating while watching a bi-porno video. Flustered and embarassed, and for a moment, forgetting she was not alone, I dropped to my knees and begged forgiveness. I was jerked to my feet by my hair. My hands were bound behind me and I was whipped, given six lashes across my behind.

I was then taken into the bedroom, blindfolded and made to sit on a wooden chair beside the bed, force to listen while m'Lady and her friends made love on the bed. It went on and on and on. My erection throbbed with every feminine moan and sigh of pleasure. When it was over, my blindfold was removed. The women were still nude, their flesh flushed and sweaty. I would have loved to bathe them with my kisses, but m'Lady denied me the pleasure. Then one of the women whispered to m'Lady to which she replied: "If you must."

The woman leaned over me and took the end of my cock into her mouth. It was too, much! I came in an instant. I came and came and came, and when my head cleared, I glanced at m'Lady and her expression said: "You will pay tonight; you will pay dearly!" And I did.

 

[faeriefire]

What is humiliating to one person won't be for another so you'll have to see what pushes your buttons. If you have reservations about 'hardcore humiliation' why are you wanting to explore this avenue now? Just remember that if it goes deeper you will need to trust the person asking a great deal... When I first started asking folks gave some great examples in this thread: http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=576951

Some other ideas...

Wearing mismatched clothing, socks, shoes (esp if one is higher than the other so you walk off balance)

Being written on *some will like to be marked so doesn't apply...but obscenities or drawings can be effective, take your pick really*

Namecalling...sissy, cunt, whore, hole...etc. etc.

pyl naked, PYL clothed

Puppy play, eating off the floor, crawling

Anything that truly embarrasses you about yourself...guilt or shame...that's why the 'small dick' comment can be used...it's power comes from the pyl believing there's truth in the words.

Going out in public wearing something you wouldn't otherwise, with a plug in, or vibrating attachments...(just be careful not to do anything that could be noticed or adversely effect those in public you interact with. I think it's wrong to expose people who haven't consented to seeing something...)

I believe Homburg gave an example at one point of his pyl eating cum off a cement floor that was pretty powerful...*goes hunting*...

But basically at the end of the day it's got to be what works for you. For some humiliation is also a public event tho is sounds like you're more after the one-on-one. And it's subjective. Individual. Depends on your dynamic. If you aren't sure it's what you want be very, very careful. There's plenty of potential for it to turn into degradation or something that emotionally destroys. And make sure to read up on Aftercare. It will be important, esp if you delve deeper into humiliation play. Best of luck to you.

 

[twysted73]

Might help, talking to your SO (signifficant other) and ask her what her 3 most embarrassing moments/memories are.

If you're to be the one enjoying the play, do the same for her.

Now get creative. If those moments were situational and cannot be recreated in any fashon, go right to things that you deem defining to your personality.
What makes you, you? What things are you proud of?
What events, characteristics about you define your importance? Your job? your standing with family and friends?
Your house? Maybe it's your looks, your humor, your actractability to women.
Whatever makes your chest swell, let her cut on that. Degrade that. Break you down that way by diminishing them.

"Maybe you're athletic. Well built. No, I'd bet she thinks you're weak and pathetic. You're nothing.
She bides her time with you because you're available and serve some sad, depressing little purpose for her.
The only thing keeping you at her side is the lack of choices at the moment. So shut the fuck up & be greatful for any attention she pays you you flaccid, impotent little shit."

Something akin to that.