I wanna hurt!

[intothewoods]

So Mister Man whacks me around and stuff--I mean, we engage in consensual impact play. But I haven't had that ooh-I'm-sore feeling the next day in forever! I mean, almost since I started playing.

And I've played with a couple of other people in the past 5 months or so, also without sore spots the next day.

What gives? It hurts when he does it. He's done it in the same spot repeatedly. Used a closed fist for "deep tissue impact." Still can't feel it the next day.

Any advice? Maybe we're not doing it long enough.

 

[BiBunny]

You may not be doing it long enough. On the other hand, your body has probably built up a tolerance to it, too. The more often I play, the less ache I feel the next day, unless it's something really, really deep.

Try hitting new areas? Or cupping, maybe. Cupping left my back sore for two or three days. I'm not sure; I tend to have the same problem myself.

 

[intothewoods]

You may not be doing it long enough. On the other hand, your body has probably built up a tolerance to it, too. The more often I play, the less ache I feel the next day, unless it's something really, really deep.

Try hitting new areas? Or cupping, maybe. Cupping left my back sore for two or three days. I'm not sure; I tend to have the same problem myself.

Ooh, friends of mine have a cupping kit, or whatever. I totally want to try it.

I guess we need to do it longer. We sometimes get distracted by our genitals.

 

[the_pet]

Ooh, friends of mine have a cupping kit, or whatever. I totally want to try it.

I guess we need to do it longer. We sometimes get distracted by our genitals.

ditto

i'm like that too....unless i get really thrown around


pet

 

[intothewoods]

ditto

i'm like that too....unless i get really thrown around


pet

Of course, I could stop posting here, and get a moving upstairs, but we're both tired tonight, alas.

He did make me wash his hands earlier. Sounds goofy but it was really hot.

ETA: I love manly hands. Slurp.

 

[Homburg]

Any advice? Maybe we're not doing it long enough.

Sure, exercise. Heavy lifting works nicely, as I'm sore for days afterwards.

...

What, you don't like that idea?

Okay, try different types of pain. Zippers are a good thing, as are synthetic canes such as the black delrin wand of vile that lurks in my closet. If thuddy pain doesn't leave you sore, go for loads of stingy pain and tear the hell out of your skin.

In short, change things up. You've adapted to what is being done.

 

[Netzach]

I've never known anyone not to remember last night's nipple torture.

 

[YourCaptor]

The only thing that makes me sore is if I have been inactive in whatever it is.

Weights, getting hit, running, thinking, etc, after a day or two off getting into it I wont get sore from any off those for months.

But do you really want to be inactive?

 

[kinkyknickers]

Big heavy leather paddle, not a flogger or one of those silly slappy sounding ones. We're talking frat paddle on the inner thighs, that still leaves bruises on me.

 

[intothewoods]

Sure, exercise. Heavy lifting works nicely, as I'm sore for days afterwards.

...

What, you don't like that idea?

Okay, try different types of pain. Zippers are a good thing, as are synthetic canes such as the black delrin wand of vile that lurks in my closet. If thuddy pain doesn't leave you sore, go for loads of stingy pain and tear the hell out of your skin.

In short, change things up. You've adapted to what is being done.

I do exercise and lift, mofo, and I like feeling sore from that (in fact, I'm sore from THAT right now), but that's a different feeling the next day. More like, yeah, I rock, not, ooh, naughty!

We may have to go for canes. Eek.

I've never known anyone not to remember last night's nipple torture.

Good idea.

The only thing that makes me sore is if I have been inactive in whatever it is.

Weights, getting hit, running, thinking, etc, after a day or two off getting into it I wont get sore from any off those for months.

But do you really want to be inactive?

Well, I was away for a bit and was "inactive" in impact play, so it hurt more, but still didn't leave me sore.

Big heavy leather paddle, not a flogger or one of those silly slappy sounding ones. We're talking frat paddle on the inner thighs, that still leaves bruises on me.

Ding ding. I like this. Paddles are more palatable to me than canes, so maybe the next level of paddle is the solution.


Thanks y'all!

 

[kinkyknickers]

No worries ITW, love to exchange ideas with fellow pain junkies, it's always nice to walk around with that knowing smile/ painful grimace the next day!

 

[graceanne]

Run several miles - you'll have that icky sore feeling tomorrow.

 

[Homburg]

I do exercise and lift, mofo, and I like feeling sore from that (in fact, I'm sore from THAT right now), but that's a different feeling the next day. More like, yeah, I rock, not, ooh, naughty!

We may have to go for canes. Eek.

*shrug* Just arguing for change.

Ding ding. I like this. Paddles are more palatable to me than canes, so maybe the next level of paddle is the solution.


Thanks y'all!

I read an article recently that talked about paddle escalation and overuse as being a possible cause for leatherbutt. Interesting concept.

 

[intothewoods]

Run several miles - you'll have that icky sore feeling tomorrow.

*shrug* Just arguing for change.

Ok, people, I promise to do some heavy lifting and run a few miles. Oy vey!

I read an article recently that talked about paddle escalation and overuse as being a possible cause for leatherbutt. Interesting concept.

Qu'est-ce que c'est "leather butt"?

 

[Homburg]

Qu'est-ce que c'est "leather butt"?

Leatherbutt is the progressive lack of sensitivity in a bottom's hindparts. It is a term I've heard and used to describe a bottom that really takes a serious pounding to get any effect.

 

[intothewoods]

Leatherbutt is the progressive lack of sensitivity in a bottom's hindparts. It is a term I've heard and used to describe a bottom that really takes a serious pounding to get any effect.

But the bottom's bottom doesn't actually start to look like leather, right? I wouldn't want to develop the bdsm equivalent of stairmaster ass or anything.

 

[Homburg]

But the bottom's bottom doesn't actually start to look like leather, right? I wouldn't want to develop the bdsm equivalent of stairmaster ass or anything.

Well, I'm not one to say, but I will say that I avoid it.

 

[HottieMama]

I've never known anyone not to remember last night's nipple torture.

Too funny not to be quoted!

 

[unpredictablebijou]

Ooh, friends of mine have a cupping kit, or whatever. I totally want to try it.

I guess we need to do it longer. We sometimes get distracted by our genitals.

Bwah!

This is worthy of a sig line quote. LOL~!

bj