Finger up my butt - am i gay?

[leglicker]

would love to have a women lick my ass and i would do the same, licking is what i was taught by my stepsister and she showed me everything possible and i practiced on her,to this day we are very close,if they are any other people out their feel free to pm me or write it here leglicker out

 

[Etoile]

when we are in a 69 my wife likes to play with my ass ,she says i have a nice ass and sometimes she sticks her finger in my ass hole and it feels good,lately she has me bend over and she kisses and licks my ass then she sticks her finger in my ass hole and starts pumping it in and out then she slides under me and starts sucking on my 10in. cock ,i never last long between her finger in my ass hole and her sucking on my cock i expload and shoot my cum everywhere not just a little but loads when ever she sticks her finger in my ass, i never complain cause it feels good and i have good sex, now she talking about getting a strap-on ,i'm already getting a hard-on thinking about this , i guess i'm asking does this make me gay or just making my wife happy, i love eating her pussy and i am very good at it and i have been taught to alwas give pleasure first and you will get it back.( plesmone i pm'd you pm back) leglicker

You should probably start a new thread for this. That post isn't really on topic.

 

[none2_none2]

You should probably start a new thread for this. That post isn't really on topic.

Oh but it was on topic. He was trying to explain less than 100% straight male behavior, and how anal pleasure threatens the percentage of 100% straight males. To summarize what I think he was trying to say:

It wasn't enough to want to have pussy and breasts. That if he ever goes looking for his heart's desire, he won't go any further than his own back door. For if his pleasure isn't there, he never really lost it to begin with.

 

[Etoile]

Oh but it was on topic. He was trying to explain less than 100% straight male behavior, and how anal pleasure threatens the percentage of 100% straight males. To summarize what I think he was trying to say:

It wasn't enough to want to have pussy and breasts. That if he ever goes looking for his heart's desire, he won't go any further than his own back door. For if his pleasure isn't there, he never really lost it to begin with.

What? How is that relevant to the fact that gay men are sometimes more easily recognized than lesbians? I also think you're over-analyzing. The guy wants to know if enjoying a finger up his butt makes him gay. And that is definitely not the topic of this thread, hence my suggestion that he start a new one!

 

[leglicker]

home only

nothing wrong with trying new things as long as both parties get pleasure from it ,remember if you give pleasure and you are good at it you will most of the time get pleasure back,thats what makes the world go around. leglicker out

 

[none2_none2]

i agree none2 none2 my wife likes to stick her fingers in my ass and thats ok if she is the only one doing this i don't get off on watching or thinking of men doing this only my wife , what we do in our bedroom is what ever we want and nothing is left out,i cum twice as much with her help and i am very good at eating her out,she is getting a strap-on tomarrow and she and i take turns being in charge. none2 none2 PM some time. leglicker

LegLicker, you just need to make sure you do this in moderation and not make it the only part (or dominate part) of your love making. If you do it too much, it could lead down a slippery slope. Next you'll want her to try different toys maybe even a vibrator, or a toe, or even a fist. Next, you'll begin to wonder what a real penis would feel like. Once you have those thoughts you have crossed over to become bi-curious. It isn't much of a leap from there to full blow bisexuality. At that point you still won't think about how handsome some guy is and you won't be wanting to leave your wife, but you'll wonder what his penis would feel like to play with. So you 'll start staring at bulges and wondering how much he has.

At that point, you might even dress in a way inappropriate for a non-gay guy -- such as tight clothing (especially pants) or natural fibers (cotton, linen, silk, alpaca wool, angora mohair, etc). These are things that specifically attract gay guys or bi-guys to other dudes. You would be doing this just to get a guy interested so that you would know what the real thing fees like... Then your sexuality identity will be confusing to gay men and lesbians as they will mistakenly view you as an other gay man because of your tight natural-fiber clothing, bulge watching, & sexual experimentation. It will be so gradual on your part that you don't notice it. Thus it is better pay attention to it now than when it is too late to turn back the clock. Moderation is always the key to preventing this.

 

[Aronkim]

Anal: the gateway sex

I think that anytime a man lets anything go up his ass he has taken the first step towards full blown, rainbow flag waving, feather boa-wearing, tranny gangbang, wide stance tearoom cocksucking, Freddy Mercury mustache loving uber gayness.

I'm just saying is all.

If it's not a doctor's finger or some kind of scope, it's gay. Even then it's a matter of degree. You get about five all together. If you have your first medical fingering at 40-50, you might be able to stretch out the other four so you don't end up leaving your family for the poolboy, Brad, or the hot latin grocer who is always asking you to hang around after closing so you can have a beer.

Any earlier than that and you might as well open a gender reassignment account and pick a hair color for yourself.

Okay. That's bullshit, but it's also the way most of my straight male friends feel. And my gay male friends. And straight female friends.

Come to think of it, most people I know think that a man can be made gay and a woman can be made straight or gay. But a gay man can never be straight. Hmmm. Gender bias in homosexuality?

 

[Etoile]

I made it a new thread.

 

[ima6uldv8]

LegLicker, you just need to make sure you do this in moderation and not make it the only part (or dominate part) of your love making. If you do it too much, it could lead down a slippery slope. Next you'll want her to try different toys maybe even a vibrator, or a toe, or even a fist. Next, you'll begin to wonder what a real penis would feel like. Once you have those thoughts you have crossed over to become bi-curious. It isn't much of a leap from there to full blow bisexuality. At that point you still won't think about how handsome some guy is and you won't be wanting to leave your wife, but you'll wonder what his penis would feel like to play with. So you 'll start staring at bulges and wondering how much he has.

At that point, you might even dress in a way inappropriate for a non-gay guy -- such as tight clothing (especially pants) or natural fibers (cotton, linen, silk, alpaca wool, angora mohair, etc). These are things that specifically attract gay guys or bi-guys to other dudes. You would be doing this just to get a guy interested so that you would know what the real thing fees like... Then your sexuality identity will be confusing to gay men and lesbians as they will mistakenly view you as an other gay man because of your tight natural-fiber clothing, bulge watching, & sexual experimentation. It will be so gradual on your part that you don't notice it. Thus it is better pay attention to it now than when it is too late to turn back the clock. Moderation is always the key to preventing this.

Fuck, that was funny! I hope it was meant to be.

 

[Jenny_Kawaii]

I think that anytime a man lets anything go up his ass he has taken the first step towards full blown, rainbow flag waving, feather boa-wearing, tranny gangbang, wide stance tearoom cocksucking, Freddy Mercury mustache loving uber gayness.

I'm just saying is all.

If it's not a doctor's finger or some kind of scope, it's gay. Even then it's a matter of degree. You get about five all together. If you have your first medical fingering at 40-50, you might be able to stretch out the other four so you don't end up leaving your family for the poolboy, Brad, or the hot latin grocer who is always asking you to hang around after closing so you can have a beer.

Any earlier than that and you might as well open a gender reassignment account and pick a hair color for yourself.

Okay. That's bullshit, but it's also the way most of my straight male friends feel. And my gay male friends. And straight female friends.

Come to think of it, most people I know think that a man can be made gay and a woman can be made straight or gay. But a gay man can never be straight. Hmmm. Gender bias in homosexuality?

That's the best post I've read on here in quite some time....Bravo!

 

[gloriann]

god, that's hilarious

 

[11kestrels]

when we are in a 69 my wife likes to play with my ass ,she says i have a nice ass and sometimes she sticks her finger in my ass hole and it feels good,lately she has me bend over and she kisses and licks my ass then she sticks her finger in my ass hole and starts pumping it in and out then she slides under me and starts sucking on my 10in. cock ,i never last long between her finger in my ass hole and her sucking on my cock i expload and shoot my cum everywhere not just a little but loads when ever she sticks her finger in my ass, i never complain cause it feels good and i have good sex, now she talking about getting a strap-on ,i'm already getting a hard-on thinking about this , i guess i'm asking does this make me gay or just making my wife happy, i love eating her pussy and i am very good at it and i have been taught to alwas give pleasure first and you will get it back.( plesmone i pm'd you pm back) leglicker

Just because you get off when your wife sticks a finger up your ass doesn't make you gay. She's probably exciting your prostate gland, which is why it feels so good. A good prostate massage does things to a man that he can't even explain. That's more than likely why you explode. Not because you're gay. Even straight people can get off on having things in their ass. Butt plugs are a good example. Do yourself a favor and get one that vibrates. You'll be shooting the moon out of the sky.

 

[infinity706]

LegLicker, you just need to make sure you do this in moderation and not make it the only part (or dominate part) of your love making. If you do it too much, it could lead down a slippery slope. Next you'll want her to try different toys maybe even a vibrator, or a toe, or even a fist. Next, you'll begin to wonder what a real penis would feel like. Once you have those thoughts you have crossed over to become bi-curious. It isn't much of a leap from there to full blow bisexuality. At that point you still won't think about how handsome some guy is and you won't be wanting to leave your wife, but you'll wonder what his penis would feel like to play with. So you 'll start staring at bulges and wondering how much he has.

At that point, you might even dress in a way inappropriate for a non-gay guy -- such as tight clothing (especially pants) or natural fibers (cotton, linen, silk, alpaca wool, angora mohair, etc). These are things that specifically attract gay guys or bi-guys to other dudes. You would be doing this just to get a guy interested so that you would know what the real thing fees like... Then your sexuality identity will be confusing to gay men and lesbians as they will mistakenly view you as an other gay man because of your tight natural-fiber clothing, bulge watching, & sexual experimentation. It will be so gradual on your part that you don't notice it. Thus it is better pay attention to it now than when it is too late to turn back the clock. Moderation is always the key to preventing this.

Ok, so if I change my wardrobe, I'll get more cock? That reminds me of one time I was talking to a friend of mine. She's getting close to 50 and has had dozens of guys. Of course, she eventually managed to get her tongue, nevermind a finger, up the ass of every guy she's fucked. That's really going to make that many guys bi?

 

[south_florida_bicur]

when we are in a 69 my wife likes to play with my ass ,she says i have a nice ass and sometimes she sticks her finger in my ass hole and it feels good,lately she has me bend over and she kisses and licks my ass then she sticks her finger in my ass hole and starts pumping it in and out then she slides under me and starts sucking on my 10in. cock ,i never last long between her finger in my ass hole and her sucking on my cock i expload and shoot my cum everywhere not just a little but loads when ever she sticks her finger in my ass, i never complain cause it feels good and i have good sex, now she talking about getting a strap-on ,i'm already getting a hard-on thinking about this , i guess i'm asking does this make me gay or just making my wife happy, i love eating her pussy and i am very good at it and i have been taught to alwas give pleasure first and you will get it back.( plesmone i pm'd you pm back) leglicker

There are MANY reasons why this post is bullshit / joke!!

 

[PutterBoy]

Shout out to Freddy Mercury!

Infinity, you're my new hero.

 

[HBicuriousWife]

Years ago, I read a book called How to Make Love to a Man, written by a woman. One of the things she said to do is to use your finger to stimulate his prostate gland. It is NOT gay - the prostate gland is up the ass, and touching it is just as exciting to a man as it is for a woman to have her clit rubbed! Ever hear of an erogenous zone? That's one for men!

Of course, the fact that the prostate gland is there in the ass, does explain the pleasure felt by both gay and hetero men when they are the recipient of anal sex.

 

[HBicuriousWife]

If it's not a doctor's finger or some kind of scope, it's gay.

It seems that America, among other countries, has a prevailing homophobic bias restricting male sexuality to cultural norms rather than natural processes.

 

[horndognslutpup]

Honey, enjoying/wanting your butt played with doesn't make you gay--it makes you open-minded!

My husband loves to have me to damn near anything to his ass--tongue, fingers, toys, and has even had a real cock (sadly, just once but we're trying to fix that, lol). Bi male porn is my passion and about all I look for.

But too, my husband would no more "leave me" for another guy than I would for another woman. Neither of us has any mental or emotional attachments to someone of the same sex. For us it's a physical/playtime activity only. But a WONDERFUL activity, lol!

Does that opinion help any?

 

[Bill3250]

Several times whie sucking a cock I have had my had rudely slapped away when I touched a finger to the guy's asshole, often the same guy had loved when I rimmed him. My usual reply to the slapping away of my hand was teeth in the cock. One guy tried to hit me ( I squeezed his balls) Another guy actually came!

 

[read2me]

if it's a woman's finger - no you're not gay.
if it's a man's finger - then yes you may be gay.

but really who cares. If you enjoy it then roll with it. and if it does lead to vibrators and toys with your wife you're not gay. It's all good fun!

 

[NakedMale]

you arn't gay. I love sex with my wife and love her finger up my arse. when she has been riding on top of me I have rammed my own finger up my own arse as well as hers. Does that mean we are all bi ?

 

[infinity706]

Most likely, everyone's bi to an extent.

 

[Programmer Cat]

when we are in a 69 my wife likes to play with my ass ,she says i have a nice ass and sometimes she sticks her finger in my ass hole and it feels good,lately she has me bend over and she kisses and licks my ass then she sticks her finger in my ass hole and starts pumping it in and out then she slides under me and starts sucking on my 10in. cock ,i never last long between her finger in my ass hole and her sucking on my cock i expload and shoot my cum everywhere not just a little but loads when ever she sticks her finger in my ass, i never complain cause it feels good and i have good sex, now she talking about getting a strap-on ,i'm already getting a hard-on thinking about this , i guess i'm asking does this make me gay or just making my wife happy, i love eating her pussy and i am very good at it and i have been taught to alwas give pleasure first and you will get it back.( plesmone i pm'd you pm back) leglicker

It's only "gay" if it's a guy's finger going up your ass.

 

[DarkBee]

Don't let the others tell that it's not gay, it totally is: from the first moment you had the first knuckle of anyone's finger up in there, you were instantly queer.

 

[human_male]

Sounds pretty fantastic anyway.