Straight guy thinking about giving head

[NakedMale]

I am a straight guy, married, and frequently think about giving head to another guy. The thought of him coming in my mouth is a great turn on. Am I bi is it a normal thing ?

 

[neon_noodle]

It's something most guys think about - we all have cocks, love playing with our own, and wonder what it would be like to have a hard, throbbing prick sliding in and out of our mouth.

Just enjoy the fantasy and use it to cum hard and often.

 

[alaskabibear]

I am a straight guy, married, and frequently think about giving head to another guy. The thought of him coming in my mouth is a great turn on. Am I bi is it a normal thing ?

I like what Neon said as it is a simple truth. To take it a bit further, how many so called "straight" men would suck their own cock if they were only able to do so? I think if everyone was honest, the percentage would be close to 100%. Now take it one additional step, how many so called "straight" men finding themselves stranded on a deserted island with only another man for companionship and no hope of ever leaving would remain "straight" for the rest of their lives? Again, I find it hard to think that most men in this situation would not seek comfort and love from the other man.

The point of course is that we are so conditioned by what society has formed us to be, that we become confused when our inner feelings and desires somehow conflict with society's artificial standard. As to your question, of course you are bisexual - as are most humans according to many serious studies. I would suggest that you do not get hung up on the words our society has created to describe your feelings and desires and simply accept them and try to safely explore them. I think if you proceed with the guiding principle to do no harm to another in your exploration, then only good can result.

Of course, that last bit about doing no harm to others can be a bit of a complication for a married man like yourself. For in my opinion, you have made a commitment to your wife and part of that commitment is honesty. So, if at all possible I would encourage you to somehow have these discussions with her - and who knows where it will go. I guess what I'm really saying is that I think "cheating" is like an ever festering open wound - and your explorations will be tainted if you proceed under that cloud.

 

[BritPup]

No such data

 

[limplizzard]

I went through the same mental torment until I finally broke down and sucked my first cock. It was better than I ever dreamed it would be. I still enjoy sex with women but I truly love sucking a cock and having them cum in my mouth. Don't waste time do it now.

 

[CmdrSymax]

I went through the same mental torment until I finally broke down and sucked my first cock. It was better than I ever dreamed it would be. I still enjoy sex with women but I truly love sucking a cock and having them cum in my mouth. Don't waste time do it now.

I agree with 'lizzard. Don't waste time. Life is waaaay too short to deny yourself the experiences you so crave. You crave these experiences for a reason. Do it and figure out where you really stand with yourself. Until you do, you can't give yourself fully to your woman. I was honest with my wife early in our relationship about my desire for man-meat. Out of respect for her and our marriage, I didn't act on it for the longest time. Now her attitude about sex has changed, thanks to this site, and she actually wants to see me suck another guy off and watch as he does me. It took a few years, but our relationship is stronger than ever and I'm very satisfied sexually (of course it doesn't hurt that she's getting into women and wants me to be a part of that, too).

And, please, don't get hung up on labels. Bi, straight, gay, are all just shorthand labels for other people to talk about each other. Your identity is so much more complicated than a label.

 

[indianabicurous]

I find it funny that watching porn with girls sucking off guys and swallowing their loads has always been my favorite, and for a long time now I find myself wanting to be the girl instead of the guy

I'd say go for it man, I'm sucking my first tomorrow...can't wait.

 

[riverbend09]

I sometimes fantasize about sucking off a cute transexual, but not so much guys. Wouldn't mind her doing my ass either

 

[Bicuriousone]

Let us know

I find it funny that watching porn with girls sucking off guys and swallowing their loads has always been my favorite, and for a long time now I find myself wanting to be the girl instead of the guy

I'd say go for it man, I'm sucking my first tomorrow...can't wait.

Please post how it was. Maybe give us all of the juicy details

 

[Nimbikarana]

post pictures when you do it

 

[docoral]

Have your cake and eat it too!

I agree with most everything discussed. When I gave in to my overwhelming urge to suck cock, it wasn't without thinking the whole situation through. My first time was quite sometime ago when little was known about HIV and I was recently divorced. I think I subconsciously put myself in a situation that did indeed pull down the barriers. Pint of brandy and a seat in a porn theatre was all it took. I sucked my first cock and swallowed my first load of sperm. A little while later that evening, same place, I hooked up with two other horny guys and did them several times. It was the most exhilerating time of my life. I did it, I loved doing it, glad I did it and knew I was going to do it again!
This new experience did have its consequences. Back in those days, being labeled a cocksucker was socially devastating, could ruin your carreer and most of all alienate family and lose friends. Where I disagree with some opinions is that lables are not just lables, they may be artificial standards imposed on us by society, but we are judged by others in accordance with those standards, sometimes very destructively. Perseption is reality. I like to suck cock, therefor I must be gay. Couldn't be further from truth, I love my wife and could never have those feelings with a man. To this day my cross to bear is the fear of discovery.

Finding a partner today is difficult at best. For me, giving someone a blowjob is the art of orally stimullating a nice cock using all your senses to give and get pleasure. I want to feel and taste my partners sperm in my mouth. The excitement of a nice cock cumming in my mouth,to me, is what giving a blowjob is all about. Doing it with a condom on is like trying to eat a banana through a ziplock bag, not much excitement for me. By no means Am I advocating the practice of promiscuous unsafe sex, but if your definition of a blowjob is the same as mine, then know your partner. Not an easy task today.

If sucking cock is cheating on the wife, you have a conflict of interest, let your conscience be your guide and one activity has to stop, its that easy. HA! HA! HA! HA!

 

[indianabicurous]

Please post how it was. Maybe give us all of the juicy details

well, I just got back.

wow.

had some mixups about the area he lived in, but I got there quickly enough. nice house, great patient guy. he didn't say much. being my first time, I was getting that "fight or flight" response, but made myself walk up and ring his doorbell. after some uneasy small talk, he asked me if I wanted to do it in the living room or his bedroom. I decided to go upstairs.

I really didn't know how to proceed. I felt like a teenager up to a girl's bedroom for the first time. he was gracious though, and laid down on his bed in jeans and a tshirt, and suggested that I start just by fondling him through his jeans.
I knelt between his legs on the bed and reached out my hand. he was obviously hard, but I was amazed at how soft it was.

my fondling didn't last long, because I was in the heat of the moment now, and I wanted his cock in my mouth. I reached up and undid him, and zipped the jeans down. he lifted his butt up in the air so I could pull them down, and slowly his gorgeous package came into view.

it was almost like a coiled serpent, and by no means small (fuck training wheels right?! ) it lay around his balls, which were drawn up as if he were already on the verge of cumming. I reached out and grabbed his cock, just taking note of the strange sensation and readying myself for the act I came here to perform.

I reached out with my tongue and licked under the head, and then took the head in my mouth. wow. the sensation of warmth and softness, despite the obvious hardness. I sucked, and slowly moved down on him. at this point he wasnt fully hard, and I was able to get roughly 3/4 of his cock in my mouth before gagging. and the actual gagging wasn't that bad, nothing I couldn't control. before long I was sucking with abandon as I got used to sucking my first real cock.

we changed positions several times, him standing, me sitting on the bed; him straddling my face; and lastly, him kneeling on the bed, me laying on my stomach, sucking him. he tasted delicious. I was sucking him hard and fast, and he backed me off, and said "slow down there, tiger...you might bite off more than you can chew," to which I replied "that was kind of what I intended." he moaned, smiling, and let me resume on him.

he brought his hand to the base of his cock and started jacking. I soon felt his head swell immensely, and felt his cum spurt into my mouth. the taste wasn't like mine - the guy must eat better than I do! it was syrupy...musky, and salty sweet. it felt like he just kept cumming and cumming, so I had to swallow some to keep it from escaping my mouth. I wanted all of it. the rush of cum into my mouth subsided, and I kept right on sucking until I'd gotten every last drop, but I still wanted more. he ended up pulling me off of him. my mouth felt strange - numb, empty - without his cock in it.

now, I guess I'm decent as a cocksucker, but I suck at the communication aspect. all I wanted to do after it was done was beat feet out of there. I didn't really want any recip, so I said that, and he got dressed and showed me to the door. I told him I might want to try more sometime, and he replied that he'd be in touch. I walked to my car, with the aftertaste still lingering on my tongue.

~~

it was AWESOME. if you're thinking about it, you owe it to yourself and try. just do your best to get a guy that knows you're a first timer and will be patient and/or gentle with you (at least if you WANT him to be! ). I had a great time and look forward to learning to deepthroat him...yum!

 

[almasy7292]

What an unbelievable experience. Very, very hot. Sounds exactly how I'd picture my first time.

 

[AngloSexon]

Of course, that last bit about doing no harm to others can be a bit of a complication for a married man like yourself. For in my opinion, you have made a commitment to your wife and part of that commitment is honesty. So, if at all possible I would encourage you to somehow have these discussions with her - and who knows where it will go. I guess what I'm really saying is that I think "cheating" is like an ever festering open wound - and your explorations will be tainted if you proceed under that cloud.

Alaskabibear, I could have done with this advice some considerable time ago! It's absolutely true; after 10 years of marriage I recently outed myself to my wife, thinking it was going to be the end. It wasn't; she was incredibly accepting, because it gave her a piece of the puzzle that she'd never been able to fathom in my character, and it has enriched our own sex lives tremendously (not to mention helped ease a burden I'd been carrying like a "guilty secret").

We build our own walls, and it's up to us to break them down.

 

[AngloSexon]

I find it funny that watching porn with girls sucking off guys and swallowing their loads has always been my favorite, and for a long time now I find myself wanting to be the girl instead of the guy

I'd say go for it man, I'm sucking my first tomorrow...can't wait.

Best wishes, sweetie - I hope it goes well for you!

 

[AngloSexon]

well, I just got back.

wow.

had some mixups about the area he lived in, but I got there quickly enough. nice house, great patient guy. he didn't say much. being my first time, I was getting that "fight or flight" response, but made myself walk up and ring his doorbell. after some uneasy small talk, he asked me if I wanted to do it in the living room or his bedroom. I decided to go upstairs.

I really didn't know how to proceed. I felt like a teenager up to a girl's bedroom for the first time. he was gracious though, and laid down on his bed in jeans and a tshirt, and suggested that I start just by fondling him through his jeans.
I knelt between his legs on the bed and reached out my hand. he was obviously hard, but I was amazed at how soft it was.

my fondling didn't last long, because I was in the heat of the moment now, and I wanted his cock in my mouth. I reached up and undid him, and zipped the jeans down. he lifted his butt up in the air so I could pull them down, and slowly his gorgeous package came into view.

it was almost like a coiled serpent, and by no means small (fuck training wheels right?! ) it lay around his balls, which were drawn up as if he were already on the verge of cumming. I reached out and grabbed his cock, just taking note of the strange sensation and readying myself for the act I came here to perform.

I reached out with my tongue and licked under the head, and then took the head in my mouth. wow. the sensation of warmth and softness, despite the obvious hardness. I sucked, and slowly moved down on him. at this point he wasnt fully hard, and I was able to get roughly 3/4 of his cock in my mouth before gagging. and the actual gagging wasn't that bad, nothing I couldn't control. before long I was sucking with abandon as I got used to sucking my first real cock.

we changed positions several times, him standing, me sitting on the bed; him straddling my face; and lastly, him kneeling on the bed, me laying on my stomach, sucking him. he tasted delicious. I was sucking him hard and fast, and he backed me off, and said "slow down there, tiger...you might bite off more than you can chew," to which I replied "that was kind of what I intended." he moaned, smiling, and let me resume on him.

he brought his hand to the base of his cock and started jacking. I soon felt his head swell immensely, and felt his cum spurt into my mouth. the taste wasn't like mine - the guy must eat better than I do! it was syrupy...musky, and salty sweet. it felt like he just kept cumming and cumming, so I had to swallow some to keep it from escaping my mouth. I wanted all of it. the rush of cum into my mouth subsided, and I kept right on sucking until I'd gotten every last drop, but I still wanted more. he ended up pulling me off of him. my mouth felt strange - numb, empty - without his cock in it.

now, I guess I'm decent as a cocksucker, but I suck at the communication aspect. all I wanted to do after it was done was beat feet out of there. I didn't really want any recip, so I said that, and he got dressed and showed me to the door. I told him I might want to try more sometime, and he replied that he'd be in touch. I walked to my car, with the aftertaste still lingering on my tongue.

~~

it was AWESOME. if you're thinking about it, you owe it to yourself and try. just do your best to get a guy that knows you're a first timer and will be patient and/or gentle with you (at least if you WANT him to be! ). I had a great time and look forward to learning to deepthroat him...yum!

Yay! Should have read the entire thread... I'm glad for you. However, I hope you'll fight the messages from your feet next time... Something good might happen!

 

[No_chie_one]

Congradulations on being on the other end of an exploding hard one

 

[CmdrSymax]

Congrats, man!!