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"Nexus" dildo with or without a harness - Practical?

angela146

angela146

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lucky and i have one. its fun but ...
we prefer the strap ons.
if you tend to get carried away with hip thrusting, the dildo can end up popping out and causing delay in gratification...or in places you hadn't intended for it to be.

aside from that, the one we have is a synthetic that i am not comfortable with...erm...so, its all in the texture and in how you use it, IMO.
 
Thanks vella and vana.

I've been working fantasy of the kind of woman I would be able to "lie back" for. It would take just the right balance of feminity and with a whole lot of assertivness.

I'm thinking Andrea Thompson (Commander Krennick/JAG, Talia Winters/Babylon 5, Kirkendall/NYPD Blue...). I *love* her voice, her body, her walk, her hair (depending on how she wears it). The Krennick character was very sexually aggressive and very assertive.

For some reason, a harness turns me off but I like the idea of the nexus, especially if she could get off on it as she's fucking me.
 
angela146 said:
For some reason, a harness turns me off but I like the idea of the nexus, especially if she could get off on it as she's fucking me.
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Not a harness fan, either.
 
angela146 said:
http://www.babeland.com/catalog/images/LB350240.jpg
http://www.babeland.com/page/TIB/PROD/brands-vixen/LB350240

Anybody women here ever use one of these to fuck another woman?

How easy is it to use, with or without a harness? Also, for the woman on top, is it feasable to ride up and down on your end of it once you have it in her? Assuming she is on her back?

I was fantasizing about having a woman do me with one and wondered how it would actually work.
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What's the difference between that and a double-dong? :confused: I have written several stories in which two women or a women and a gay man share a double-dong. :D I also have one where a woman uses both ends. :cool:
 
Boxlicker101 said:
What's the difference between that and a double-dong? :confused: I have written several stories in which two women or a women and a gay man share a double-dong. :D I also have one where a woman uses both ends. :cool:
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I'd assume the shape for one thing and from what I've read and heard, it takes a little internal muscle to hold it in place so the user gets a work out in more ways than one. The other is that it works like a dildo without having to have straps and stuff and the point where it is pressed against the user externally can be very stimulating as well......

Hmmmmm, I guess I am a dirty old man...... :rolleyes: :D
 
TxRad said:
I'd assume the shape for one thing and from what I've read and heard, it takes a little internal muscle to hold it in place so the user gets a work out in more ways than one. The other is that it works like a dildo without having to have straps and stuff and the point where it is pressed against the user externally can be very stimulating as well......

Hmmmmm, I guess I am a dirty old man...... :rolleyes: :D
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I noticed the shape. It looks quite rigid, while a double-dong is flexible so that two people can use it backed up together or one women can use both ends. Not all dildos have straps. Sone are hand held and used by one person to masturbate.

Here is an example, although this one is apparently a double-dong:

http://www.naughtyblondecoeds.com/pics/dirty-girl-elizabeth/cute-girl-pics/010.jpg


I'm probably older and dirtier than you. :D
 
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They seem to stay in place better with a harness. For harness-free fun there's a product called "Freedoe" that is supposed to work better. Hot Mama doesn't find the Nexus hits the right spot.
 
vella_ms said:
lucky and i have one. its fun but ...
we prefer the strap ons.
if you tend to get carried away with hip thrusting, the dildo can end up popping out and causing delay in gratification...or in places you hadn't intended for it to be.

aside from that, the one we have is a synthetic that i am not comfortable with...erm...so, its all in the texture and in how you use it, IMO.
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Slatterns!
 
I think my choice would be the Feeldoe rather than the Nexus. It looks to me like a simpler and more effective interior design. I'd want a harness anyway, I can't thrust very well with my thighs clamped together!:eek:

Angela, I'm sure you'd rather no harness. So would I. But we dykes kinda have not much choice, you know? Basically, if you want a harness-free experience, you want a male. If you want a woman-- you get a harness as part of the deal. ;) Trust me, you'll forget all about it soon enough!

I do have one penis substitute that is all me no harness, and bigger and longer-lasting than any man's dick-- my fist. :devil:
 
Damnit, this was my idea, I hit on it about ten years ago when I was working in an adult book/toy store, and a lesbian couple tried to return a cheapo strap on - the harnass was not big enough to go around either of them, as they were pretty hefty. Of course, once it's out of the package, it's illegal for the seller to take it back.

Anyway, I never found a woman to volunteer to allow me to cast the inside of her vagina and beta test the design.

I knew it was just a matter of time before somebody else hit on it. I actually have several other toy designs from that period, one of these days...
 
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