Do real female dominants exist?

[fsmepls]

Do real female dominants exist or is it all just us men and our twisted fantasies? I want a true dominant female who is looking for a real relationship with a real submissve man. The things I enjoy most is serving and worshiping women. I enjoy domestic servitude, giving massages, foot worship, being facesat/smothered, ass worship, pussy worship, body worship, orgasm denial, chastity, toilet traning (no scat), humiliation, strap on, discipline and most importantly, whatever make you happy. I love curvy, soft, voluptuos women (meaning under 195 pounds depending on your height) but heck i won't lie I like supermodels too!

About me? Thank you for asking Mistress. I'm 36, 6'0", 220 lbs (Mistress needs to make me excercise more!) Short blonde hair, blue eyes, non smoker, and my penis is quite average and I live in the midwest.

Are you out there?

 

[Colton_White]

real female dominants wanting 'real life' do exists but a rare species on Literotica

if you are looking for real life thingy with dom woman...

try this free site they've lot genuine dominant woman wanting real life

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good luck.

 

[Hotat21]

See, I'd love real-life; but with another girl.

 

[fsmepls]

Thanks for the advice colton. I checked it out and really only turned up more pros. Thanks for trying tho I appreciate it.

 

[Luciden]

I'm a switch, but I only do dom for females. Dunno why.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Of course there are dominant women.

However, consider these bits of information in your search.

#1 - Dominant women (straight, bi or lesbian) form the smallest demographic group in the kinky community. When you narrow the orientation to straight you reduce the number of potential partners even further.

#2 - submissive men (straight, bi or gay) form the LARGEST demographic group. (It may SEEM like Dominant men are the largest group, but trust me on this one, most of the men who claim to be Dominants are anything but. ESPECIALLY on line. The overwhelming majority of males claiming to be Dominants are horney net geeks trying to get laid and figure playing at being Doms will make it easier to find someone to give 'em a nut)

#3 - considering the overall ratio of Dominant females to sub males at anywhere between 1 FemDom to 5 male subs to something approaching 1 Fem Dom for every 20 male subs, the Female Dominants have a "target rich" environment and for the most part, THEY don't have to look for subs. Subs have to look for them.

#4 - since the subs (and trolls and horny net geeks) are looking for the Dominant women (and usually pestering the fucknuts out of them) it takes a truly exceptional submissive male to stand out and be considered. You need to SHINE. You need to have skills, you need to be able to serve (and I don't mean using your tongue, I mean cook well, do laundry, have accounting skills, be effing useful around the house), you need to be polite, polished, intelligent, capable, well read, well spoken.

#5 - There are realtime groups out there. Get involved. Start preparing yourself to serve her.

And good luck!

 

[Hotat21]

Of course there are dominant women.

However, consider these bits of information in your search.

#1 - Dominant women (straight, bi or lesbian) form the smallest demographic group in the kinky community. When you narrow the orientation to straight you reduce the number of potential partners even further.

#2 - submissive men (straight, bi or gay) form the LARGEST demographic group. (It may SEEM like Dominant men are the largest group, but trust me on this one, most of the men who claim to be Dominants are anything but. ESPECIALLY on line. The overwhelming majority of males claiming to be Dominants are horney net geeks trying to get laid and figure playing at being Doms will make it easier to find someone to give 'em a nut)

#3 - considering the overall ratio of Dominant females to sub males at anywhere between 1 FemDom to 5 male subs to something approaching 1 Fem Dom for every 20 male subs, the Female Dominants have a "target rich" environment and for the most part, THEY don't have to look for subs. Subs have to look for them.

#4 - since the subs (and trolls and horny net geeks) are looking for the Dominant women (and usually pestering the fucknuts out of them) it takes a truly exceptional submissive male to stand out and be considered. You need to SHINE. You need to have skills, you need to be able to serve (and I don't mean using your tongue, I mean cook well, do laundry, have accounting skills, be effing useful around the house), you need to be polite, polished, intelligent, capable, well read, well spoken.

#5 - There are realtime groups out there. Get involved. Start preparing yourself to server her.

And good luck!

Exactly. I get so many PM's from sub males. I've gotten a couple of offers in rough proximity to me, but I'm into females. I think it's mainly my area. If I moved to CA or even the east coast, it would be easier.

 

[claulei]

Dominant woman?

Certaily, they exist. But everybody knows, they are as seldom as snowflocs in the desert.

 

[0utrider]

This post was both informitive and depressing.

Guess I'll have to start shooting up testosterone and learn how to treat women like garbage.

 

[where]

You need to have skills, you need to be able to serve (and I don't mean using your tongue, I mean cook well, do laundry, have accounting skills, be effing useful around the house), you need to be polite, polished, intelligent, capable, well read, well spoken.

See I want that but in a man who is dominant in the bedroom

I think the internet has made me delusional

 

[Evil_Geoff]

See I want that but in a man who is dominant in the bedroom

I think the internet has made me delusional

Why? I'm here aren't I?

 

[where]

Why? I'm here aren't I?

you cook clean and wash up? Get yerself UK side man! Not that I'm giving you an order or anything ...