Rolling orgasm and men

[madetotakeit]

I was talking to a new friend about my experience with a rolling orgasm from orgasm suspension from a woman's point of view. It made me wonder...is the same reaction possible for men? It makes sense that it would be, but being so differently constructed I had to wonder. Anybody have any experience or input on this?

 

[YourCaptor]

I was talking to a new friend about my experience with a rolling orgasm from orgasm suspension from a woman's point of view. It made me wonder...is the same reaction possible for men? It makes sense that it would be, but being so differently constructed I had to wonder. Anybody have any experience or input on this?

I have never had one.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

I once played with a guy's prostate and ignored his penis. He had a prostate O during which I stroked his cock, causing a normal O, during which I massaged his prostate again, which drew the whole thing out quite a bit.

Not sure if you're just talking about genital stimulation here but this is the only input of any relevance that I have to offer.

 

[TeachMeSir]

Not being a guy, I can't say for sure....

However, I was dating a special guy for quite a while once upon a time (Gosh, I'm getting old) and I felt that I had a certain knowledge of his body. He seemed to send out signals that were very clear to read. I was able to bring him to orgasm without ejaculation, and when I did, he seemed to be expeiencing one of those rolling orgasms. The duration depended on what it was I had done to him as well as what I did to prolong it. Generally after such an experience he was toast, unable to ,move for a few minutes and just when I would sometimes think he had finished I would do something small and he would start again. He's been the only one that was open to such things though and so I haven't been able to see if it is the same for other guys since.

 

[twysted73]

Bollocks. It's like sasquatch.
You hear about them but never actually get to have one as a pet.

(tils head and thinks about that one for a moment)

You know what I mean.
Who do I gotta screw to get a massaged prostate around here?

:: laffs at self vigerously and then coughs :::

I've had very little sleep..shhh

 

[TeachMeSir]

Oh, I know it's true. I've see it. I've caused it. I admit that it took some practice on my part, and he was quite a sensually submissive (in hind sight I really realize just how much so). But, it did happen, on a lot more than one occassion.

And he was my Huckleberry, not a sasquatch!

 

[midwestyankee]

You may find the answer to your question in this long-running thread in the How To Cafe: Milking a Man's Cock - Is this for Real?

 

[ero_dream]

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[SweetGigi]

*ponders curiously*

 

[YourCaptor]

Brainstorming

Anyone have any ideas on how to go about experiencing one of these without submitting to an extensive clinical process?

Right now all I got is sensory deprivation, turning the whole thing into a task as opposed to sex.

 

[FuckMeEyes]

It is possibly for a guy to have an orgasm without ejaculation, although it is incredibly difficult and requires in depth knowledge of your personal orgasmic response and lots of work on you PC muscles...an orgasm without ejaculations is an amazing feeling, but building from orgasms without ejaculation to a final orgasm where you have full release is almost undescribable.

I have a slightly different view. I think it's a great feeling, but orgasm with ejaculation still tops my list of climaxes and yes, it's indescribable when shared with the right person.

 

[ero_dream]

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[oneguy4fun]

Never had a rolling orgasm. I never thought it was possible for guys.

 

[lilly85]

..............

 

[madetotakeit]

Okay, so it seems we have the stuff of legend that appears to be quite possible. Interesting and definitely something to think about. It would certainly be a shame if guys missed miss out on it.

You may find the answer to your question in this long-running thread in the How To Cafe: Milking a Man's Cock - Is this for Real?

Thanks for the link. Even if there isn't a reference to it in the thread I have a feeling this is one I should read with pen and pad ready to take notes!

 

[snowbyte]

Wasn't there a book called The Five Minute Orgasm (years ago) that touched on this subject? It covered techniques for both men and women, iirc.

 

[CyberChas]

Male G-Spot Multiple (Rolling) Orgasms?

The prostate milking thing is quite fun (especially in the context of teasing and denial -- just don't play with the dumb-stick while you're massaging his prostate) but I think it is not related to the "rolling orgasm” other than it using the male's “g-spot” as part of the process (but not the whole thing).

I'm guessing what we're talking about here is more of a TANTRIC thing, and therefor going to be reserved for men who have spent a LOT of time getting in tune with their body, physiology, and understanding (and learning to control) their physical responses to stimulation.

Sounds like it would be fun learning exercise, even if it took a lifetime, as long as you have the right study partner (or team).

 

[TeachMeSir]

The rolling orgasm is a tantric / head space thing to quite a large degree. Like I have siad, even though I know a mans body, I have to knows their signs, the sounds they make, the things that help them diconnect from the worls & all manner of other intimacies to be able to do this for them. And they have to be open enough to"let go". I always found it best not to try, but when I got the signs that he was slipping into that head space to sieze the opportunity.

 

[FuckMeEyes]

The rolling orgasm is a tantric / head space thing to quite a large degree. Like I have siad, even though I know a mans body, I have to knows their signs, the sounds they make, the things that help them diconnect from the worls & all manner of other intimacies to be able to do this for them. And they have to be open enough to"let go". I always found it best not to try, but when I got the signs that he was slipping into that head space to sieze the opportunity.

Oh yes, I definitely agree with you that it is a different state of mind, a head space. I still absolutely love it. It's what keeps me saying no to an orgasm, I just love the feeling of sex and the orgasm is definitely a climax to it; an end to the sensation of just going at it.

 

[VelvetDarkness]

Brainstorming

Anyone have any ideas on how to go about experiencing one of these without submitting to an extensive clinical process?

Right now all I got is sensory deprivation, turning the whole thing into a task as opposed to sex.

Not willing to let a pliant little subbie loose on your rear with a prostate massager? You're missing out.

Have her give you an all over body massage to start with so you're relaxed and have mostly emptied your mind. Get on all fours so she can work on you without anything touching or stimulating your cock. Once your cock is hard and you're turned on, she can slowly and carefully start with a well lubed prostate massager. The technique is fairly simple once she has found the right spot. It should all be a very relaxed and unhurried process.

It is possible to enjoy this and still be a hetero dom you know. Promise.

 

[YourCaptor]

Not willing to let a pliant little subbie loose on your rear with a prostate massager? You're missing out.

Have her give you an all over body massage to start with so you're relaxed and have mostly emptied your mind. Get on all fours so she can work on you without anything touching or stimulating your cock. Once your cock is hard and you're turned on, she can slowly and carefully start with a well lubed prostate massager. The technique is fairly simple once she has found the right spot. It should all be a very relaxed and unhurried process.

It is possible to enjoy this and still be a hetero dom you know. Promise.

The hetero thing is already largely out the window anyway. I don't have any gay-o-phobia.

I don't think I could enjoy it because its too much of a power shift. Yes their may be a nice prize at the end, but is it worth it the discomfort getting their.

 

[mdiaz451]

define it?

I was talking to a new friend about my experience with a rolling orgasm from orgasm suspension... QUOTE]

I'm prob just dense, but please define a rolling orgasm.

Men & women are wired differently. I've made a woman cum so hard she passed out. I've had amazing blow jobs where after my climax the slightest touch gave me waves of intense pleasure.

I've also had a "near climax", nearly physically cum and felt most of the same pleasure of ejaculting...

 

[madetotakeit]

I'm prob just dense, but please define a rolling orgasm.

Men & women are wired differently. I've made a woman cum so hard she passed out. I've had amazing blow jobs where after my climax the slightest touch gave me waves of intense pleasure.

I've also had a "near climax", nearly physically cum and felt most of the same pleasure of ejaculting...

I wasn't familiar with rolling orgasm until I was introduced to one.

Imagine that "near climax" feeling you described lasting for minutes rather than seconds. That is the best way I can describe it. It's the tightening and relaxing of muscles, the feeling of electricity traveling up and down your body. After a strong orgasm the shudders continuing on a smaller scale. Some have said it is a series of orgasms merging to seem like one prolonged one and others have said it is simply one strong enough that last for a prolonged time. I couldn't say which I think it is because, well, my mind wasn't really functioning beyond what I was feeling.

What I'm wondering about is if men can achieve that feeling, not an extended ejaculation.

 

[TeachMeSir]

I wasn't familiar with rolling orgasm until I was introduced to one.

Imagine that "near climax" feeling you described lasting for minutes rather than seconds. That is the best way I can describe it. It's the tightening and relaxing of muscles, the feeling of electricity traveling up and down your body. After a strong orgasm the shudders continuing on a smaller scale. Some have said it is a series of orgasms merging to seem like one prolonged one and others have said it is simply one strong enough that last for a prolonged time. I couldn't say which I think it is because, well, my mind wasn't really functioning beyond what I was feeling.

What I'm wondering about is if men can achieve that feeling, not an extended ejaculation.

This is exactly what I was talking about - but you'd have to ask the guy for sure.... it wasn't a case of "milking".... it was more an "all over", "inside & out", from the tips of his toes to the tips of his ears, waves of pleasure that continued to shudder at times, to smaller degrees for up to 15mins! No ejaculation, just one loooong orgasm is how he described it. He's also had one after the other at times,but he said it was different to the rolling type.

 

[madetotakeit]

This is exactly what I was talking about - but you'd have to ask the guy for sure.... it wasn't a case of "milking".... it was more an "all over", "inside & out", from the tips of his toes to the tips of his ears, waves of pleasure that continued to shudder at times, to smaller degrees for up to 15mins! No ejaculation, just one loooong orgasm is how he described it. He's also had one after the other at times,but he said it was different to the rolling type.

Ah, yes! That is what I was hoping to hear. I thought it should be possible in theory. Mind if I PM you for some tips when I have someone I can try this on?