Gender Bending Fantasies/Experiences

[curiousboy14]

Let’s have a thread on gender bending.

What fantasies do you have involving transgressing gender norms?
What have you actually done?
What are some of the most far-out things and genderfucks you can think of?


These past few months I’ve began exploring this trans-energy inside of me. I’m male bodied and have been a (masculine) guy my entire life, but recently I can’t stop thinking about being more and more feminine. I don’t know how I would identify. I currently identify as anything but straight. Male to male sex is fun. I enjoy sex with women although it’s non-emotional. I would really, really love to get fucked by a girl with a strap-on. That is a HUGE turn-on to me (although it hasn’t happened yet). When fantasizing to pre-op transwomen, I sometimes imagine myself fucking them, and I sometimes imagine myself being them and getting fucked.

I’ve crossdressed a bunch, and have been out to a party once while dressed, but I looked more like a really effeminate gay guy than any sort of female! Make-up turns me on a lot. I love getting it put on by my female friends. I’ve been letting my hair grow as well. I’m aiming for some sort of androgynous style at this point until I figure out what I want to do.

Also, I have been super wanting a belly-button ring for a little bit now. I’ve never had any piercings or tattoos my whole life, but the thought of getting a small, dangly belly-button ring excites me to no end. I think it has to do with me having suppressed this [large] feminine side my entire life, and now that I am acknowledging it, the ring is almost symbolic as me embracing this feminine energy and saying I’m tired of pretending to be the man that I’m not. But, of course, I don’t consider myself a woman either.

Either way, I’m loving feeling more and more feminine, it feels so good to let myself feel it!

I want to get a dangly belly-button ring
I want to have more girly and longer hair
I want to wear earrings
I want to put make up on more often
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Hmmmm, like I said, a hugee fantasy of mine is to get fucked by a beautiful woman with a strap-on, and wearing make-up and feeling very feminine would simply be out of this world...!


Tell me your desires/passions/needs as well

 

[menatv]

I have always been masculine acting and generally like women more than guys in my fantasies. However, since I do like women so much..I also want to BE them.

I've been slender much of my life. Definitely underweight for a good portion of it. Though I've gained weight lately, I am still on the slighter build. When I did grow my hair long, I did get mistaken for a girl a lot when I was in jr. high/high school. That's when my dad told me to get my hair cut.

Even so there has always been a "female" part of me. Hard to explain, but as long as I could remember, instead of fantasizing about being a superhero, policeman, fireman, etc...in my fantasies I'd be like, Batgirl, or Supergirl or a female spy. I remember watching Yvonne Craig as Batgirl and as much as I lusted after her..I also wanted to BE her as well. When we played in the neighborhood, I'd often say I was Batgirl and get tied up. It aroused me then, but I didn't know why.

Also I was friends with this boy who was older than me. He had a sister, Millie, who I thought was pretty hot. Often times he would invite me over to their house to play. At times when everyone was gone, he had me dress up in Millie's clothes and told me we were a "couple". I played along, since I got to wear the same clothes that his sister did...and it again turned me on even though I didn't know why then. It just felt so good to be in her clothes and to smell her scent. We would play "household" and he would occasionally hug me and try to kiss me. at the time I really didn't want to be kissed by another boy. So he said that was OK, we could pretend to be a "divorced" couple. Though he would still like to wrestle me to the ground and lay on top of me. Him being bigger than heavier he usually was able to pin me to the ground easily. Again it aroused me and I didn't know why at the time.

Years later I think back and I think now I have an idea why...it just felt so good to be in the "female" sort of role..either submissive or just underneath a guy..and that really made me feel aroused. And as I went thru high school/college, as much as I lusted for girls, I wanted to BE them..be that cheerleader who was at basketball games...be that teen girl who was going to mall...later on, be that female teacher in front of her class. I just wanted to be a woman and experience what it was like...as well as what it was like to have a boyfriend and have him be with me....holding/caressing/and yes..sexually as well.

Still have that. I want to be a female and have many submissive fantasies around that. As well as fantasies of having a husband too. Sometimes I take the form of a female friend or coworker. (like when I am in their panties!) or sometimes a female of my own choosing.

But yeah, I definitely have a inner female yearning to be free sometimes! Wish I could make that happen some day.

Mena

 

[dani_boi]

Great Thread!

I have been dressing as long as I can remember and have. I have ear, nipple and belly rings. I have to say that it does give you a feeling of being more Fem and also a very sexy feeling. I'm a smaller guy and have a very slim body. I love that I can go out dressed "Metro" as I am called and I know that I am turning on both men and women. It is a very powerful feeling. Many times I have on sexy little secrets under my clothes. At home we dress together in heels, stockings and of course my Fav CORSETS! Oh God I love the feeling as it gives me sexy hour glass shape. I have had a woman fuck me with a strap on and it is so much fun. Giving myself up to her! I do prefer a nice hard real cock to the strap on however. Knowing that my tight ass is giving my man pleasure! Gets me excited right now thinking about it.
Any way that is my thoughts on it.

 

[reg_roch]

Great Thread!

I have been dressing as long as I can remember and have. I have ear, nipple and belly rings. I have to say that it does give you a feeling of being more Fem and also a very sexy feeling. I'm a smaller guy and have a very slim body. I love that I can go out dressed "Metro" as I am called and I know that I am turning on both men and women. It is a very powerful feeling. Many times I have on sexy little secrets under my clothes. At home we dress together in heels, stockings and of course my Fav CORSETS! Oh God I love the feeling as it gives me sexy hour glass shape. I have had a woman fuck me with a strap on and it is so much fun. Giving myself up to her! I do prefer a nice hard real cock to the strap on however. Knowing that my tight ass is giving my man pleasure! Gets me excited right now thinking about it.
Any way that is my thoughts on it.

Uh... wow dani_boi you sound SWEET!!!Would love to have you.

 

[dani_boi]

Uh... wow dani_boi you sound SWEET!!!Would love to have you.

And I so need to be had Reg_Roch!

 

[bisexualsmoker]

I got in the habit of wearing stockings and garters,frilly tops and makeup.
I had sex a lot of times that way.I haven't done it in awhile.I lost all my
things when I moved.

Sometimes I'd go out to a gay bar or a sex partners place
wearing these things under my jeans and jacket.
I'd like to do this again.I miss it.I don't really think about
if I looked feminine enough.All I can say is I wish I had a dollar
for everytime someone has asked me or assumed I was gay.