Female Equivalent

[TenJed69]

I'm really quite jealous of female Doms. It's quite hard to explain but... I love the idea of forcing a sub to cross-dress. But then, I have no interest in dominating male subs, it's like, I want to take the essence of cross-dressing and apply it to my little girl. But making her dress up in male clothes is just not really humiliating and I wouldn't' get a kick out of it at all.

So... what's the female equivalent of cross-dressing?

 

[catalina_francisco]

Could try watching 91/2 Weeks for some ideas....seem to remember a very enticing scene of female cross dressing.

Catalina

 

[Netzach]

You mean you want to humiliate her with clothing?

I'm SURE you can think of something. From a pair of YOUR hiking boots with her favorite dress to furry mascot outfits, there are a lot of ways to use clothes to embarrass anyone. Not to even mention the ol' obvious dress like a slut thing.

 

[SweetGigi]

What sort of 'dresser' is she in the first place? When she is just being herself, what does she wear?


(I'm gathering info at this moment.)

 

[snowbyte]

If she has problems with some part of her body, make her wear something that calls attention to it. For instance, if she thinks she has big feet, make her wear some clown shoes

 

[TenJed69]

What sort of 'dresser' is she in the first place? When she is just being herself, what does she wear?


(I'm gathering info at this moment.)

Pretty normal clothes really, not any particular style. Jeans mostly, figure hugging but not ridiculously tight, skirts when it's hot or when she goes out, dresses if it's some place nice. Pretty standard tops, short sleeve, with a jumper or cardigan, or occasionally a sweatshirt.

Unrelated to this however (here I'm talking about something 'far out' for private) I'm working up to some new rules: only skirts or dresses, no panties unless she's menstruating, no sweatshirts unless she is or has been exercising. Obviously I'll have order her to break these rules sometimes - I do like her in frilly, girly panties sometimes, for instance.

Need to let her adjust her wardrobe before enforcement though

I do have her dress slut-ily sometimes. Ridiculously short skirts, overly revealing tops, fishnets etc. We also do some specific dress-ups: schoolgirl, secretary etc. But I'm looking for something.... different. Sexy, but different. I wouldn't' find work boots or mascot outfits sexy myself

Oh, and what snowbyte said isn't really what I'm looking for either, but I do like the idea! She hates her feet (but I love them) so maybe some open toe footwear is on the way

 

[SweetGigi]

Pretty normal clothes really, not any particular style. Jeans mostly, figure hugging but not ridiculously tight, skirts when it's hot or when she goes out, dresses if it's some place nice. Pretty standard tops, short sleeve, with a jumper or cardigan, or occasionally a sweatshirt.


Unrelated to this however (here I'm talking about something 'far out' for private) I'm working up to some new rules: only skirts or dresses, no panties unless she's menstruating, no sweatshirts unless she is or has been exercising. Obviously I'll have order her to break these rules sometimes - I do like her in frilly, girlie panties sometimes, for instance.

Need to let her adjust her wardrobe before enforcement though

I do have her dress slut-ily sometimes. Ridiculously short skirts, overly revealing tops, fishnets etc. We also do some specific dress-ups: schoolgirl, secretary etc. But I'm looking for something.... different. Sexy, but different. I wouldn't' find work boots or mascot outfits sexy myself

I don't think your rules are unrelated, just a different side to the dynamic. The pantie thing is a good idea (I personally enforce this on myself), but I strongly suggest instead of allowing her to wear knickers for her menstrual cycle, make her wear boys whitie-tighties. You can even take it up a knotch for when she dirties them while on her flow by humiliating her in that regard. Allow her to wear the frillies as a 'reward' for tasks or pleasing you.

A good way to 'claim her wardrobe' is to allow her to only wear a certain colour when she is not in your presence. All black, or all white would be a good option depending on if she is being a good girl or not. Another good tool to humiliate her would be to force her to wear clothing that is completely out of her norm. It sounds like she is an average suburban sort of gal, so surprise her with an extreme change like a goth-style mini skirt, tank top, pale make-up and combat boots, (don't forget the no knickers or possible boy's undies). Choose a fantasy of yours and take it to the limit. Then, once she is dressed, take her out some place safe and show her off.

A good personal humiliation for private use would be writing phrases or humiliating words on her body in permanent marker. Words like dirty whore, sperm bank, sick slut, filthy cunt, etc etc etc on her arms, legs, stomach, buttocks, even face can have a powerful effect on her. Jim even wrote "property of JTS" on my chest and forced me to wear a low cut blouse out that night; anyone who to look happened to look could see the words clearly through the thin fabric. It was highly intoxicating.

I do urge a word of caution though. I would be careful exposing her in these humiliating ways to those you are personally close to or who know you both well. It can allow for and create some pretty hostile judgments if you aren't careful. Private humiliation is often the best way to go.

I hope this helps some.

 

[Netzach]

I do have her dress slut-ily sometimes. Ridiculously short skirts, overly revealing tops, fishnets etc. We also do some specific dress-ups: schoolgirl, secretary etc. But I'm looking for something.... different. Sexy, but different. I wouldn't' find work boots or mascot outfits sexy myself

I don't either.

What I do find sexy is someone hating every ticking second of whatever I wanted them to do but doing it anyway purely because I said so. Within reason.

 

[TenJed69]

Some good advice there Gigi. I do do (ahem) the permanent marker thing. Sometimes I'll write on her as part of a scene, other times a punishment may be to write certain phrases in certain places and to keep reapplying them every day for a week (never visible to the outside world, but there underneath her clothes).

 

[SweetGigi]

Some good advice there Gigi. I do do (ahem) the permanent marker thing. Sometimes I'll write on her as part of a scene, other times a punishment may be to write certain phrases in certain places and to keep reapplying them every day for a week (never visible to the outside world, but there underneath her clothes).

Good luck, hun. I hope it all works out for you. You will have to post details later to let us know how it goes.

 

[intothewoods]

I guess making her wear a strap-on wouldn't float your boat either, huh?

 

[twysted73]

I'm really quite jealous of female Doms. It's quite hard to explain but... I love the idea of forcing a sub to cross-dress. But then, I have no interest in dominating male subs, it's like, I want to take the essence of cross-dressing and apply it to my little girl. But making her dress up in male clothes is just not really humiliating and I wouldn't' get a kick out of it at all.

So... what's the female equivalent of cross-dressing?

WARNING: Lazy Poster....(didn't read the rest)

Baby clothing. Bibs, binkies, diaper. No? Clothng that's too tight or shows off her areas that she's less then pleased to show.
Or clothing that dosn't match. Or makes her look less then coordinated or intelligent or sexy.
Enjoy.

 

[TenJed69]

I guess making her wear a strap-on wouldn't float your boat either, huh?

Less than good ol' buoyancy, that's for sure