Your best or your worst PM or IM opening lines... and if you want your reactions ...

[lovemonster]

We have posted wonderful PMs. You'll have to go through the thread and find them though. Sadly... the horrible ones outweigh the good ones. As far as constructive PMs to send.

Start with being a polite gentleman.

Take the time to find out a bit about the individual you are wanting to get to know more.

Post on their threads.

Lots of times a person will tell me...

"I don't want to post publicly. I don't know how to operate the forums... or I'm not a public person, I like private interaction..."

There are lots of excuses, but in my opinion... I am well worth getting to know publicly and the rare gentlemen that have gotten to know me, without posting on the threads first, are the ones that don't try to fuck me in my box from the get go.

They show an interest in me, even if it is fake, at least they put forth the effort to pretend. *shrugs* Usually though, as I've said in the past, it is easy to weed out the trash.

Absolutely spot on. What's the point in PM'ing me if you know nothing about my personality, my character, whether we've got anything in common?

If you do that, seems to me you're only after one thing. And I'm not interested if that's all you're after.

 

[lovemonster]

There are lots of excuses, but in my opinion... I am well worth getting to know publicly and the rare gentlemen that have gotten to know me, without posting on the threads first, are the ones that don't try to fuck me in my box from the get go.

Can I do it now I know you?

 

[niandra_lades]

I bet there are guys on here that send hundred of in-your-face PM's reeking of desperation and the small hope they may get a root out of it

Sad pricks

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Can I do it now I know you?

Sure. You know me. I know you.... we're good to go.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I bet there are guys on here that send hundred of in-your-face PM's reeking of desperation and the small hope they may get a root out of it

Sad pricks

There are, but for the hundreds there are usually one or two that show a high level of respect. The ones I really get disturbed with are the ones that send me a PM that is polite and then by the sixth one they finally reveal themselves.

That happened recently. *shakes head* I'm a nice person, but even I have "bitch" tendencies when riled.

 

[Colton_White]

ladies ..who keep saying 'lol' after every 5 minutes irrespective of what i was saying in the previous 4 minutes,

that's the worst IM lines I came across. 'lol'

and i'd have liked it rather better if they just said on face "move away I'm busy with other buddies." instead of saying 'lol' like a chatbot every 5 minutes.

 

[Essa]

ladies ..who keep saying 'lol' after every 5 minutes irrespective of what i was saying in the previous 4 minutes,

that's the worst IM lines I came across. 'lol'

and i'd have liked it rather better if they just said on face "move away I'm busy with other buddies." instead of saying 'lol' like a chatbot every 5 minutes.

lol

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

ladies ..who keep saying 'lol' after every 5 minutes irrespective of what i was saying in the previous 4 minutes,

that's the worst IM lines I came across. 'lol'

and i'd have liked it rather better if they just said on face "move away I'm busy with other buddies." instead of saying 'lol' like a chatbot every 5 minutes.

I've been rewarded with chatty folks like that. You know they aren't paying attention to you. What annoys me also are "phone" friends, who have the nerve to be on the computer when you are supposed to be with them on the phone!

When I am "playing" I don't divide my time between other people. I am only paying attention to the person I am with. If a person was with you in the same physical space and you were "playing" you wouldn't be dividing your time, unless it was a group sex thing!

 

[lovemonster]

Sure. You know me. I know you.... we're good to go.

Woooohoooo!

 

[lovemonster]

lol

PMSL

 

[kendra1980]

I got one of those mass mailing pms, or I believe it to be mass mailed, last night.

Never have spoken to this guy, yet it seems he wrote a story for me that is soon to be posted on lit. Invited me to read his other stories too.

I am now curious and wonder if he got any nibbles on that bait and how many others got that same pm.




Also, men/women, who come at you as a newbie (lit-Virgin), and you know they are not by the tone and tenor of their questions to you in pm.

Had a series of pm's from one of those last night. Almost like he/she was seeking me out to 'play' with them, knowing I wouldn't. Were they trying to trip me up? Play head games? Whatever. I don't play, head games, or with anyone other than ONE.

 

[southerntierguy]

Absolutely spot on. What's the point in PM'ing me if you know nothing about my personality, my character, whether we've got anything in common?

If you do that, seems to me you're only after one thing. And I'm not interested if that's all you're after.

I don't know if I agree with this.

Sometimes I'll run across a post that touches me personally. I don't really care to display my soft underbelly to the world, but I will send a brief PM to the person telling them what their post meant to me. I do explain that I'm not looking for a long or deep conversation about it, and usually that's all there is to the interaction ... which is fine, because that's all that's intended from it.

 

[lovemonster]

I don't know if I agree with this.

Sometimes I'll run across a post that touches me personally. I don't really care to display my soft underbelly to the world, but I will send a brief PM to the person telling them what their post meant to me. I do explain that I'm not looking for a long or deep conversation about it, and usually that's all there is to the interaction ... which is fine, because that's all that's intended from it.

And those sorts of posts will more than likely get a response, from me anyway. It's the ones that PM me and think that because I get my tits out on thread, that I want to chat to some guy, just because he has a cock and wants to flash it to me. The fact is, if you send a PM referring to one of my posts, it means you've seen me out on threads, rather than just looked at my pics and made assumptions.

 

[Morrigu]

I got one of those mass mailing pms, or I believe it to be mass mailed, last night.

Never have spoken to this guy, yet it seems he wrote a story for me that is soon to be posted on lit. Invited me to read his other stories too.

I am now curious and wonder if he got any nibbles on that bait and how many others got that same pm.

If it was the one saying he liked your pics and stories, me too. Oh my I got a real live duffus PM. It's only taken me 10 months

And now I've had one I don't want anymore.

 

[msmaggie]

I got one of those mass mailing pms, or I believe it to be mass mailed, last night.

Never have spoken to this guy, yet it seems he wrote a story for me that is soon to be posted on lit. Invited me to read his other stories too.

I am now curious and wonder if he got any nibbles on that bait and how many others got that same pm.

I got that one yesterday.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I didn't get that one...

I have however gotten ones that say they like my pic thread...

Ummm.... I don't have a pic thread.

 

[Guest]

Attitude towards curves

I think your attitude is refreshing; so many women are hung up on how others see them, rather than how they see themselves. If you have seen any of my posts of my wife's pictures, you'll see that she has a body type like yours. And she is very comfortable with who she is, and what she looks like. As long as she is healthy, and she is, that is what matters.

If others don't find you sexy, that is their issue. My wife knows that plenty of men and women do find her sexy. And not just because of her body, and what she looks like, but more because of her attitude and her own confidence.

Lovely. I said thank you!!!!!

 

[JagFarlane]

I didn't get that one...

I have however gotten ones that say they like my pic thread...

Ummm.... I don't have a pic thread.

LMAO..

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Attitude towards curves

I think your attitude is refreshing; so many women are hung up on how others see them, rather than how they see themselves. If you have seen any of my posts of my wife's pictures, you'll see that she has a body type like yours. And she is very comfortable with who she is, and what she looks like. As long as she is healthy, and she is, that is what matters.

If others don't find you sexy, that is their issue. My wife knows that plenty of men and women do find her sexy. And not just because of her body, and what she looks like, but more because of her attitude and her own confidence.

Lovely. I said thank you!!!!!

Very lovely indeed!

 

[LaLaLilly]

Ugh! Who's Your Daddy Baby? Can't stand it!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Ugh! Who's Your Daddy Baby? Can't stand it!

Ew... that's bad. lol

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Yesterday afternoon and evening I got two seperate PMs, both asking simply how I was, both I responded politely too. Funny how when you invite someone to post with you on the boards to get to know you, they suddenly disappear.

 

[DDgirl]

I got this one the other night:

ok

i wish i could get a just a little peek at those breasts

*sighs* do guys really think PMs like this work or are even wanted.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I got this one the other night:

ok

i wish i could get a just a little peek at those breasts

*sighs* do guys really think PMs like this work or are even wanted.

I was actually hoping one of the two would have made the effort to post in my threads. He was polite for a couple posts and then asked a question that (if one read my threads) would have already known the answer too. That's when I suggested he post in some. I even added a flirty wink emote.

I just want a man to put forth a little bit of work to get into my box. I don't think that is asking too much.

 

[DDgirl]

I was actually hoping one of the two would have made the effort to post in my threads. He was polite for a couple posts and then asked a question that (if one read my threads) would have already known the answer too. That's when I suggested he post in some. I even added a flirty wink emote.

I just want a man to put forth a little bit of work to get into my box. I don't think that is asking too much.

I got a few weeks ago that got deleted right away. Some guy sent me a PM saying that he'd keep looking for me online, that he'd like to meet for a drink next time he's in town. I never heard of him, never talked to him on the boards, never even seen him posts in any of the thread that I post in.