Need help ....

[needmyMaster]

Things between my Master and I have been getting more and more intense and everything that has happened between Him and i has been awesome. Recently Master has asked that i give him three tasks for me to do daily. I am having trouble coming up with any ... can anyone help, offer any suggestions? That would be great ... thank you so much!!

needmyMaster

 

[EmpressFi]

he's having you assign your own tasks?

 

[ecstaticsub]

Well, if I had to choose my own tasks it would be--eat chocolate, take a nap, and go shoe shopping

 

[tbonealtendahl]

eat,sleep,fuck

 

[WickedEve]

Things between my Master and I have been getting more and more intense and everything that has happened between Him and i has been awesome. Recently Master has asked that i give him three tasks for me to do daily. I am having trouble coming up with any ... can anyone help, offer any suggestions? That would be great ... thank you so much!!

needmyMaster

Only you can come up with the tasks. We don't know anything about your life, like if you and master live together or just talk online, if he's talking about housework tasks, bdsm-related tasks, etc. A daily task could be writing him a love note or email each morning. I really think he wants you to come up with them.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

Things between my Master and I have been getting more and more intense and everything that has happened between Him and i has been awesome. Recently Master has asked that i give him three tasks for me to do daily. I am having trouble coming up with any ... can anyone help, offer any suggestions? That would be great ... thank you so much!!

needmyMaster

It is sometimes common for a Master to delegate and ask a submissive to give Him a list of things for Him to consider. If you are anything like me this can cause brain lock up, which it sounds like has happened.

Depending on the scope of your relationship (meaning if this is an online only, or real life - part time or 24/7) can really change the suggestions I would make vastly. However, some general ones would be possibly to make a journal entry daily of your thoughts and feelings that you share with Him whenever He wants to see it.

If you could let us know the scope of your relationship I think you'll get more responses and suggestions, and I'll try and think of a few more suggestions based on your answer as well. Good luck to you on your task.

 

[IsabellaKing]

If you've only been together a short while, maybe it's his way of getting to know your kinks or maybe he's just testing the water to see how deep you're prepared to go

I've never had the chance to choose tasks, that’s firmly in his hands, but I have chosen punishments before – and that can be a bit of a double edged sword

 

[nickollette]

The best advice you're going to be able to get is from your master themself. There are entirely too many possibilities and levels to consider. If you're self conscious, maybe they want you to do things to build that, so it would be on an emotional level. If you aren't coming across as truly devoted to them, maybe they want you to figure out three ways that will get you to that point or show them that you are. Either way, it's something they want you to come up with or they wouldn't have asked you to do it. Trust is also important so if you're uncertain of what exactly they're looking for, ask for some basic guidelines you need to keep your thought processes within.

 

[YourCaptor]

eat,sleep,fuck

If eat includes drink, then hell yeah

although I would change the order to sleep, eat, fuck, and repeat.

 

[needmyMaster]

In response ...

Yes, my Master wants me to come up with my own tasks. He said He has some in mind for me to do but wants to hear my idea's first. I am not the best in the world when it comes to coming up with things. I do not have a very creative mind. He knows this and I think this is His way of trying to get me to open up a bit more ... use my creativity because He keeps telling me He knows it's there lol .. somewhere. He is the one that suggested this website and said if I was having trouble that I could come on here and post a topic on the bulletin board and see if I could get any help from anyone. Anyone that could offer any suggestions or what not. So I'm just following his advice.

I want to thank everyone who posted a reply. The journaling is a good idea I will bring that up to Him. Any other idea's??? I could use all the help I can get. I will also talk to Him to see what exactly He wants me to do. So again thank you to everyone who posted a reply and if anyone has anymore suggestions, please feel free to post them!! I could use all the help I can get!

needmyMaster

 

[VelvetDarkness]

If he is looking for things that remind you of your place then 3 that I can think of are:

1) Wearing a collar when alone in the house and/or being naked when alone in the house.

2) Saying in your head (or aloud where circumstances permit) 'This belongs to Master' whenever you catch sight of your reflection anywhere.

3) Keep a journal for him that includes all your fantasies and dirty thoughts, when and how you masturbate and anything that you did which was against or fell short of his instructions so that he can decide how to punish and train you.

If we're talking chores here, I'm not so sure.

 

[catalina_francisco]

My advice would be for the Master to be creative about helping your creative processes spark into action if he believes they are there.

I can never understand why such dominants feel it is firstly our job to come up with ideas for you and him;

secondly, how we would know enough about either of you and your relationship dynamics to come up with appropriate ideas;

and thirdly, how they come up with that being creative and in this case making you creative.

IMO, all it is doing is showing how creative a bunch of anonymous people who have no place in your lives or relationship can be (not how creative you can become), how to take the easy way out by avoiding doing any of the hard work yourself, and basically just avoiding the whole exercise in one giant leap from A-Z to get it done quickly and easily and then claim to have done it.

Sorry to sound so cynical and blunt but if I ever asked someone to come up with something creative in any context, I would not tolerate them going to someone else for that/those ideas, nor would I be suggesting that as the way to go, and I'm not even a Dominant or seeking to call myself one. Asking us then reporting back what we have come up with is not coming up with ideas yourself, nor giving him some of your ideas...they are our ideas you have borrowed, not yours. He wants you to come up with creative ideas, then to stretch yourself to being creative you will need to crank the brain cells into action until they begin firing creative ideas from your own brain, not ours...if that means he has to take some time and effort upon himself to put some seeds of thought in your mind to help that process, than that is part of what I would expect in his role as Dominant, Master or whatever label he applies to his PYL role, and an appropriate means to the end he hopes to achieve. We are not his pyl's, it is not our task.

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[twysted73]

Put this rabbit out of it's misery *snap*

1.) Write an erotic story for him including three of your favorite fantasies. (this will give him mild to moderate insight into what turns you on)

2,) Purchase a cat collar of his favorite color and place it around your wrist or ankle as a sign of your ownership. Wear it 24/7 only to be removed for showers.

3.) Masturbate once every hour (set your clock or cell phone to go off at these intervals) regardless of your location or work schedule.

If he would like me to Top you too, let me know. It seems I'm already 2/3 of the way there.

We'll talk about the lifestyle opinions of Domly right and wrongs later.