ouch....

[UnholyHoly]

For some reason....i cant stop beating myself over the head over something i could have stopped from happening. it doesn't help that tiger lily keeps playing in my mind, which used to be me and my gf's song....but she left me and i just let her go....whats a guy to do?

 

[iluvyou3638]

For some reason....i cant stop beating myself over the head over something i could have stopped from happening. it doesn't help that tiger lily keeps playing in my mind, which used to be me and my gf's song....but she left me and i just let her go....whats a guy to do?

go get her back stupid!

 

[UnholyHoly]

i tried calling her....she wont pick up....
plus i've seen her around with some other dude...

 

[iluvyou3638]

i tried calling her....she wont pick up....
plus i've seen her around with some other dude...

hmmmm.....then go get someone else. you're hot. you could have any girl you want. and if you want her, just give it some time.

 

[UnholyHoly]

yea but i think i'da been over it in 2 weeks time, which its been
everytime i see someone i wanna possilby be with...i see her
just her, everywhere
you know?

 

[iluvyou3638]

yea but i think i'da been over it in 2 weeks time, which its been
everytime i see someone i wanna possilby be with...i see her
just her, everywhere
you know?

no, unfortunately i don't know. i have never been in a relationship. i just fuck around.

 

[UnholyHoly]

...
god this is gettin to much, fucking matchbook romance....
life just kinda blows in an ironic way

 

[iluvyou3638]

...
god this is gettin to much, fucking matchbook romance....
life just kinda blows in an ironic way

lol, move on, have some fun, settle down and make babies.

 

[UnholyHoly]

i really dont feel like it....i mean i'd like to
but she wont leave me alone (figuratively)

 

[iluvyou3638]

i really dont feel like it....i mean i'd like to
but she wont leave me alone (figuratively)

huh. maybe you won't leave her alone. (figuratively)

 

[UnholyHoly]

maybe i cant...it was a 1year and something odd month relationship and i just wanna wake up with her gettin dressed again....

 

[iluvyou3638]

maybe i cant...it was a 1year and something odd month relationship and i just wanna wake up with her gettin dressed again....

you want her dressed? well there's your problem.

 

[coastal-boy]

lol, move on, have some fun, settle down and make babies.

well said

It never ceases to amaze me that people with personal issues actually choose to seek answers here. Go talk with her. If not with her...then with her best friend. Say it all...just as it is...the truth as the best you know how and the best you understand it today. Then give it distance. Let her make the decision. Accept the fact that maybe it wasnt the same for her as it was for you...that isnt a slam on either of you.

 

[UnholyHoly]

i know wat ur saying coastal boy
i mean...i live in god middle of nowhere and my cars incapacitated
i would go talk to her friend if i could, but ya know....just feels good too relate to people you know wat i mean?

 

[coastal-boy]

i know wat ur saying coastal boy
i mean...i live in god middle of nowhere and my cars incapacitated
i would go talk to her friend if i could, but ya know....just feels good too relate to people you know wat i mean?

I do...especially when you feel hurt. And if she left you of course you feel hurt. But no woman wants a man that wallows in it. I've been there...we all have...

call a friend of yours to have them give you a ride...there is a solution to any problem...the question is...do you want to face it?

Best to you

 

[UnholyHoly]

thanks broman, did that an got dragged to a concert...woke up with some chick...hot as a motherfucker to boot....
ugh
spose it works huh lol

 

[Grayson_James]

You are young and a good looking guy. Go out and find a new chick. There are millions of them out there. To hell with her if she left.

A wise man once said to me, after a break up....

"The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone"

Get it?

Move on. Man up. Stop whinning about.

Sorry, don't mean to sound harsh there.

 

[CozyIsNawt]

For some reason....i cant stop beating myself over the head over something i could have stopped from happening. it doesn't help that tiger lily keeps playing in my mind, which used to be me and my gf's song....but she left me and i just let her go....whats a guy to do?

Awe, I feel for you. You're young and unfortunately this will probably not be the only time in your life you'll feel this pain. Lost love is hard to deal with, but easier to deal with than never knowing love. The process your going through is normal, allow yourself to grieve the loss. Don't allow yourself to get into the whole "stalker exboyfriend" mode, you will regret it later. Mourn your loss, and with time, the pain will diminish. There is no easy fix. Time will heal, and you shall survive.