Never to Have a Chance...

[whspr]

.........

...time to cheer up.....you have a vacation to plan for...

Don't worry...I'm fine...and I'll be with some of the best friends a girl could have...there is always plenty of laughs...I'm primed and ready...

 

[sirgary]

Don't worry...I'm fine...and I'll be with some of the best friends a girl could have...there is always plenty of laughs...I'm primed and ready...

...you better be....too many of us lurk you and need you to lift our spirits....

...among other things...

 

[whspr]

...you better be....too many of us lurk you and need you to lift our spirits....

...among other things...

heh...doubt I could lift anything else!!

 

[sirgary]

heh...doubt I could lift anything else!!

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[whspr]

Funny how when I was heavier..I couldn't wait to be thin. I thought people would look at me different. I was right...now the men do desire me. But that is for the only reason....if they can get into my pants. Very few people still connect with me emotionally. I guess no matter what ...I may not have the chance to feel the "closeness" I desire.

 

[sirgary]

Funny how when I was heavier..I couldn't wait to be thin. I thought people would look at me different. I was right...now the men do desire me. But that is for the only reason....if they can get into my pants. Very few people still connect with me emotionally. I guess no matter what ...I may not have the chance to feel the "closeness" I desire.

For you, it was wieght, for me, it was hairlost....I bought a hairpiece thinking maybe then women would look at me.....all they saw then, however, was a guy wearing a wig...

I thought I would never have a woman want to be with me on any level, especially when it came to sex or intimacy...

One day, I just gave the hairpiece to my dog so she could kill it and decided I was good with myself even if I was always lonely...I went out and did things by myself and made myself happy without feeling the need to have someone to share things with...

I still don't have women lined up to be with me....but I do have self esteem that, way back, I never thought I'd ever have......and in a way, I think women like that about me...

I am not clingy nor do I beg for companionship....I do appreciate it when I get it, however...

A skinny thing like you should do the same thing........'cause you do attract people.......even sorry excuses like me...

....now go shopping for a bike...

 

[blueeyes7564]

Funny how when I was heavier..I couldn't wait to be thin. I thought people would look at me different. I was right...now the men do desire me. But that is for the only reason....if they can get into my pants. Very few people still connect with me emotionally. I guess no matter what ...I may not have the chance to feel the "closeness" I desire.

(((((((Whspr)))))))).......we all have been there for one reason or the other...mine has been with the weight also, and still is....guys just really do not want to be with women that have extra weight on them.....if they do, it is only for a one night stand sort of thing every now and then when they can not get their barbie doll type figure that they want.......Sweetie, keep your chin up, and your head held high, there is someone special out there for you and me, that will make us feel that closeness that we desire so much.....I know that it is out there with the right person, we just have to keep looking......and do not give into the ones that are just out for the sex........I am here whenever you need a friend to talk with, I can totally understand what you are feeling myself.........and if we do not help each other when in need, then what good are we............Smile girl, it will get better..........this is going to be a fabulous year for us all................

 

[sirgary]

...right....2008....a great year....

 

[whspr]

...right....2008....a great year....

{{{{{{{{Blue}}}}}}}

Thank you, Girl. It is so good to know someone out there understands. I really don't know that I will ever get that "closeness". It's not like I've stopped looking. I just want to be more than a "roll in the sacK". I want to be special to someone. Heh...why try to explain...it probably isn't ever going to be what I want it to be.

I do hope you are right about this being a good year for everyone. You are such a sweetheart and you deserve that happiness. One thing...I have found a new friend and for that...I am thankful. I hope you and I can get to know one another more as time goes on. If you ever need me....I'm here.

 

[whspr]

For you, it was wieght, for me, it was hairlost....I bought a hairpiece thinking maybe then women would look at me.....all they saw then, however, was a guy wearing a wig...

I thought I would never have a woman want to be with me on any level, especially when it came to sex or intimacy...

One day, I just gave the hairpiece to my dog so she could kill it and decided I was good with myself even if I was always lonely...I went out and did things by myself and made myself happy without feeling the need to have someone to share things with...

I still don't have women lined up to be with me....but I do have self esteem that, way back, I never thought I'd ever have......and in a way, I think women like that about me...

I am not clingy nor do I beg for companionship....I do appreciate it when I get it, however...

A skinny thing like you should do the same thing........'cause you do attract people.......even sorry excuses like me...

....now go shopping for a bike...

SG..

It isn't a matter of self esteem. I have that of late. I know that I look so much better than I did. I know I have some features that are very pretty and I know I have the most beautiful heart. Now I just hope someday someone else will see that heart and know what it stands for.

As for the bike...it will be coming...

 

[omahaman2]

(((((((Whspr)))))))).......we all have been there for one reason or the other...mine has been with the weight also, and still is....guys just really do not want to be with women that have extra weight on them.....if they do, it is only for a one night stand sort of thing every now and then when they can not get their barbie doll type figure that they want.......Sweetie, keep your chin up, and your head held high, there is someone special out there for you and me, that will make us feel that closeness that we desire so much.....I know that it is out there with the right person, we just have to keep looking......and do not give into the ones that are just out for the sex........I am here whenever you need a friend to talk with, I can totally understand what you are feeling myself.........and if we do not help each other when in need, then what good are we............Smile girl, it will get better..........this is going to be a fabulous year for us all................

I hate when people are classified into one big group. Everyone in this world is
an individual. All men are not like that,just look at a persons looks. Also,all women arent all like what women are supposed to be like. I met jenny here
and fell in love before i ever met her. I fell in love with the total person. All men arent that shallow!

 

[whspr]

{{{Oman}}}}} You are definitely one of the exceptions. You give me the hope that there are still good guys around. Please don't be offended by what was said

 

[sirgary]

...is it snowing out there?....

 

[whspr]

...is it snowing out there?....

Far more than I want...

 

[sirgary]

...I promise it will melt away within two weeks...<fingers crossed>...

 

[whspr]

you shouldn't make promises that you can't keep....

 

[sirgary]

...safe bet....spring is coming....though so is more snow...

 

[whspr]

...safe bet....spring is coming....though so is more snow...

Spring is coming...I sure hope so...and with it..I hope it brings something special...

Hell, I even hope that for you!

 

[sirgary]

...I noticed some flowers trying to poke through last years leaves...

SassyKat should be coming out of hibernation soon too...

The entire Ohio Valley will soon be waking to a season of warth and growth...

.......and you, my dear, will have some stories to tell before it is all over in the fall...

......

 

[whspr]

Nah...no stories for me. I'm not the kind that kisses and tells. Sooooo....if I do find someone who would kiss me...you aren't going to know!!

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Hi Whspr

It took almost half a century for me to find THE one I was meant to be with!

I found in my life that when you stop "looking" or "waiting" for something to happen, something WILL happen!

You are such a sweet lady, and just be yourself, get that bike, and I bet you'll find your special partner.

 

[whspr]

It took almost half a century for me to find THE one I was meant to be with!

I found in my life that when you stop "looking" or "waiting" for something to happen, something WILL happen!

You are such a sweet lady, and just be yourself, get that bike, and I bet you'll find your special partner.

Thank you, {{{{{Jenny}}}}}}

You and Oman are always an inspiration to me. I'm so very proud to have the chance to call you both friends!!

 

[sirgary]

...well Whspr....you do have a few things going for you...

first, you are very pretty.....guys like that..

second, you are soft and romantic.....guys like that too..

third, nice tits.....all guys and more than a few women like that..



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[mikeyirish]

you do have beautiful eyes!

 

[whspr]

...well Whspr....you do have a few things going for you...

first, you are very pretty.....guys like that..

second, you are soft and romantic.....guys like that too..

third, nice tits.....all guys and more than a few women like that..



........

Thank you for the compliments. I have no doubt you mean them..but I've said it before...You are biased. <giggles> but I'll try to think of them as being true and maybe just maybe someone out there will think like you do...