Why do nice guys finish "LAST"?

why do nice guys finish last

  • Too nice

    Votes: 21 40.4%
  • prefer asshole

    Votes: 12 23.1%
  • too scary

    Votes: 2 3.8%
  • don't know

    Votes: 17 32.7%

  • Total voters
    52
  • Poll closed .
Oh yeah, didn't notice till you pointed it out.... guess I got it, though.

Now I'm going to have to report you to the typo police, then stand by and watch as they beat you with rubber hoses :kiss:

Or until I take their rubber hoses, beat them to death with the hoses then tie you up with the rubber hoses and sexually abuse every orifice of your body with my cock, tongue and fingers till you're a willingly and completely converted sexual slave devoted to pleasing me in every and any way possible till your last breath.

Just sayin'
 
Or until I take their rubber hoses, beat them to death with the hoses then tie you up with the rubber hoses and sexually abuse every orifice of your body with my cock, tongue and fingers till you're a willingly and completely converted sexual slave devoted to pleasing me in every and any way possible till your last breath.

Just sayin'

:heart:

Even my nostrils? What about my bellybutton?
 
Did you say Atari? Ok that's it...I GOT to have you!!!

Prepare to be tied with a rubber hose you cum gulping jizz queen you!!

Ooooh, Blue.... you definately fall under the "nice guy" category! Not only are you going to make me feel secure, but you're also going to make sure I don't go hungry....

Be still my beating :heart:.....
 
Ooooh, Blue.... you definately fall under the "nice guy" category! Not only are you going to make me feel secure, but you're also going to make sure I don't go hungry....

Be still my beating :heart:.....

Oh lord you are Satan herself......

I think I'm having a heart attack...It hurts so bad...the pain...the PAIN!!
 
Hi Stryder! Hope you are doing well this evening.:rose: I agree. There is a difference to being a "nice guy", one who has no backbone, to one who is just a really great man. I think it comes down to respect, along with self-respect.

Well said silver gurl :) Sorry I missed you last night. Always good to see you wandering the threads. :rose:
 
My theories on this: Insecurity + lack of self-confidance, a pinch of pessamism brought on by the unknown (how the situation will pan out)..add a dash of despiration = a self-fulfilling prophesy.

Prime example.
A man wins $20 Million. He buys a 2007 Dodge Viper, racing stripes, dual exhaust, the works.
Within a week he crashes it.
Why?
Simple.
Subconsciously, he didn't feel he deserved it. So, ergo, his subconscious removed it from his posession.
Same with relationships. If you date inside of your range (within a limit where you feel you have a right to be dating that person) you do well. You get along....you have equal levels of intelligence, wit, attractability, sexual appetites, etc.

Go outside that (up for instance) and suddenly one morning you wake up and wonder if this hot woman/man laying in bed next to you is seeing someone else. Now you start looking for signs. You begin to sabotage the relationship. And they've never even done anything to you.
Subconsciously you don't feel you deserve them.
Likewise...go down towards the bottom of the equasion and now you don't respect them. You begin to take them for granted. You cheat on them, you look at other men/women, etc.
Natural selection. We're hardwired to find an equal in temperment, psychology and sexual appetite.
We cannot help it.
What about the origional question you ask?
Why do women pick assholes and burn the hell out of nice guys? (who then turn into assholes and women wonder why...likewise with good women, etc.)
Well....that goes back to low self-esteem as well as security. Women NEED security. Whether it be financial, emotional, psychological or whatnot.

(yes, I am a big fan of human interraction and reasoning between the sexes. Just count your lucky stars I'm not giving you the long winded version)

So...good girls with bad men is a matter of low self-esteem as well as security. Why security (instead of INsecurity) you say? Where is there security in assholes?
Well....with an asshole, atleast you know what to expect.
Security. Secure in the knowladge that he will always do you wrong so atleast you won't be suprised. No fear of any unknown element there.
Whereas with a nice guy...he can remain nice OR turn asshole depending on his upbringing and past experiences.
And if I've learned ANYTHING it's that a woman's heart is her soul's connection to the outside world. Crush that and they're done for a while.
Be kind to their Achille's Heels boys.
(and they will be careful of yours....pride/being respected by the one you love)

*winks*


...sounds like youve had some expirience with this one Twyst...
 
How come no one gives women shit when they whine

"where have all the good men gone"?


Hmmm. That's yet another inconsistency no one wants to talk about. :)
 
I was just wondering!!!!

We all have heard the saying, "Nice guys finish last"! But, why is what I'm wondering. I hear alot of women say " why can't I just find a nice guy"! But, when they do they get scared.

I'm just curious. I'm not looking for a nice anything or an asshole either. I'm just curious what the people have to say to this question. Post if you like, PM if you like, it doesn't matter to me either way. I just want to know your opinion.


"Nice guys finish last"
Because Bad Boys are funner!
 
How many of these kids have you been stuck with raising?
I didn't take that route in life. I avoided single moms, especially those who weren't obviously widows. I avoided them like the plague. She had her fun in her best years, she can deal with the consequences of her poor dating choices. I wasn't going to go for that shit.
 
I didn't take that route in life. I avoided single moms, especially those who weren't obviously widows. I avoided them like the plague. She had her fun in her best years, she can deal with the consequences of her poor dating choices. I wasn't going to go for that shit.

Good for you! Those lousy single moms looking to trap a nice guy like you to raise their bratty demon seed.... you're too smart to fall for that shit! Rock on!
 
How come no one gives women shit when they whine

"where have all the good men gone"?


Hmmm. That's yet another inconsistency no one wants to talk about. :)

way to generalise and stereotype women, lt :rolleyes:

when women say that i {and lots of other women} tell them that they're looking in the wrong places and that they need to figure out why they attract and are attracted to the bad ones.
 
way to generalise and stereotype women, lt :rolleyes:

when women say that i {and lots of other women} tell them that they're looking in the wrong places and that they need to figure out why they attract and are attracted to the bad ones.
I'm stereotyping society's reaction to a certain behavior, not women.

Not all women say "where have all the good men gone", but one who does, isn't often castigated by others.
 
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