wife confessed fantasy

[sardog1]

During a very intense session of love making and after quite a few drinks my wife said she wanted to see me get fucked while I was doing her. She was fingering my ass and said, "God I wish you were getting fucked. You would be inside me and kissing me while you were getting fucked. I know you would like it (she has done me with a strapon). It doesn't make gay. Will you do it?

It was the best night of sex we had had in years. We both came twice and she did me with the strapon to end night and had me lick my cum off her chest.

Now the question, should we make the fantasy real? I think I would love it but don't know of how I would feel after.

Anyone lived out their fantasy or kink with their wife? What happened after....?

 

[pellso27]

she introduced me to her lover

 

[redman8]

Oh Yes

you should definately do it. I bet she would love to see you sucking a nice cock as well. If you can do that then invite her to help you suck it and if your lucky you can both make him cum and share it. But it might be good if you can find someone that is not in the area just in case you don't want to see him again. Someintes jealousy rears it's head so talk it over and make sure it' something you both want even though it already seems that you'd both be in to it. Lke smoke a cigar and put it in your mouth and get it wet before you light and make sure she's watching and ask her if she'd like to do it. If your lucky she'll say no she'd like to see you take care of it. good luck

 

[alaskabibear]

sardog1, You asked, so here's my two cents;

I suggest that you two play with and have fun with this idea together for a while. Give both of you time to see if this is just a fantasy born of your love and lust for each other, or if it is really something you both want. Try to talk about (and think about) how you are going to feel AFTER you let your wife watch you have sex with another man - (and, you should do this after you have made love and taken the edge off your passion).

 

[Etoile]

Outstanding advice, ABB.

 

[tigervixen]

This may need to be something that stays a fantasy, and thought over a lot before it goes into action. Basically like alaskabibear said. Maybe you could share some of your fantasies with her too. I'm thinking of starting to write stories here *just* so I can share them with my boyfriend.

 

[love_269_girl]

sardog1, You asked, so here's my two cents;

I suggest that you two play with and have fun with this idea together for a while. Give both of you time to see if this is just a fantasy born of your love and lust for each other, or if it is really something you both want. Try to talk about (and think about) how you are going to feel AFTER you let your wife watch you have sex with another man - (and, you should do this after you have made love and taken the edge off your passion).

This is great advise. Bringing an third person in to your bedroom is something that should only be done after a great deal of discussion between partners.

For me, threesomes are great fantasies, but the reality is I am to emotionally invested with my husband to ever attempt to make this fantasy a reality.

 

[ReluctantCav]

Yes, great advice. I can only wish my wife had fantasies such as that..

 

[fluffed]

AlaskaBI Bear has the best advice. communicate with each other specially when your both not horny that does make a difference in the way you think. My wife and I have swapped partners several times. I have watched her with other women and she has watched me suck another guys cock. There were no problems and we have fun. But we are very secure with each other and realize the extra is just for fun. We talked about swinging for at least a year before we ever did anything about it. Sometimes though fantasys are better than the actual act. Anyways just have fun with each other and never let it grow old.

 

[adabbaduli]

Maybe you are Bi and won't know it until you try it out. You might enjoy a man better you never know.

 

[trishcd]

During a very intense session of love making and after quite a few drinks my wife said she wanted to see me get fucked while I was doing her. She was fingering my ass and said, "God I wish you were getting fucked. You would be inside me and kissing me while you were getting fucked. I know you would like it (she has done me with a strapon). It doesn't make gay. Will you do it?

It was the best night of sex we had had in years. We both came twice and she did me with the strapon to end night and had me lick my cum off her chest.

Now the question, should we make the fantasy real? I think I would love it but don't know of how I would feel after.

Anyone lived out their fantasy or kink with their wife? What happened after....?

I woud say if this is a subject that always comes up durring sex play then you should get a video that has the action that you are into and see if watching it is what your into.....leaves out the uncomfortable situation when you have the guy you want try this with with you....sort of seeing is beliving

 

[rennweg]

I think that is good advice, and possibly try and be with a guy alone to start with just to build up your confidence if you must.

 

[dakotagirl]

you already got some great advice. I have told my hubby that same fantasy. It it something that gets us both off in the bedroom.
You definatley need to talk about it outside of the bedroom when you are not in the mood. Your feelings afterwards are important because you need to feel good once it is done. So talk talk talk alot about all the different thoughts that go through your head. Don't do anything until you have thought it out to death to be sure.

 

[Jenniferx]

Both me and my husband are bi and I really love watching him doing it with another guy as much as he loves seeing me with another girl

 

[Mr. Briggs]

You are one very lucky man ;P

 

[ticketyboo]

dear

You are one very lucky man ;P

omg - - thats nice

 

[nitoc88]

hi

I am looking for the woman or couple that wants to do it for real. Dont think I could do it with someone love though. But definitely want to try this at least once before i die.

 

[mynameiskate]

hmm

I'm not sure if it's a good idea to bring in a third person in. It could change things for the worst.

 

[Leashed]

this has long been a fantasy of mine. definatly high on my to do list

 

[hyatt_boy]

Me Too

My wife and I fantasized so much about this that we finally pursued it and enjoyed it. However, there is something to consider about achieving a fantasy. New fantasies take the place of old ones and the bar is usually set a little higher. Also, sometimes the reality of the act doesn't quite match the intensity of the fantasy. That's just sometimes.

 

[theedebster]

Wife Fantasy

I'm married to a very conservative man who is in a high profile job in our community. I have often had a fantasy about bondage and submission. nothing with pain, but I wanted to dress the part and be treated as a sex slave. My husabnd took a lot of convincing and we enjoyed that role playing for sometime. I told my girlfriend and she would love to be involved in a threesome. My girlfriend and I have never had any sexual contact with each other but we thought we this might be a way of testing the waters. I also would like to have a threesome with my girlfriend and her husband. Her husband is all for it and in fact has started calling me and telling what he'd like to do to me. My husband, wants no part of it, thinks it is the devil's work shop, a shortcut to hell, etc. I won't cheat on my husband but I'm either going to get a divorce or use up a lot of vibrators.

 

[gingermango]

I've lived out most of my fantasies with my wife, starting with part-time cross-dressing and feminization, lots of bondage and submission, cuckolding and so forth, and even eating her younger lover's load from her pussy after being tied up and having to watch them fuck for 45 minutes, then licking his cock clean.

It's all about having the right mindset and the right wife!

 

[gingermango]

I won't cheat on my husband but I'm either going to get a divorce or use up a lot of vibrators.

Self-discovery can be both liberating and painful. I've been there, done that, and gotten the divorce. You can't deny who you are and what you want forever if you ever hope to be happy. The fact is that there ARE people in the world - MANY people - who share the same ideas of sexuality as you. That's both exciting and terrifying - it really makes you wonder if you're married to the right person. Fortunately, the second time around I got it very, very right. That's the upshot to the negativity I had to go through the first time.