Cuckolding

[wayne1979]

Hi,
In the last few months I've been fantasising and reading alot about being a cuckold. And it really turns me on!

Unfortunately as it stands at the moment I think my wife is too prudish for me to suggest it!

My idea is to write her the ultimate cuck story!

Obvioulsy I have my own ideas as to what to put in it,

But I would love to meet, chat and share ideas with anyone involved in cuckolding, be it real cuckolds, wives or Bulls,or anyone else who fantasises about it.

Anyone who wants to chat message here or PM me plz

Thank you in advance for your input

 

[SamFrench]

i posted a thread in the pic section last week about a friend who is in that sort of relationship right now. his wife has several lovers and she is totally hot. i had to pull the thread when she decided he'd shared too much. she will probably allow him (us) to post again. i'll let you know when i do. he shared some amazing stories and i know they're true since i've cybered with her several times in the past.

 

[wayne1979]

i posted a thread in the pic section last week about a friend who is in that sort of relationship right now. his wife has several lovers and she is totally hot. i had to pull the thread when she decided he'd shared too much. she will probably allow him (us) to post again. i'll let you know when i do. he shared some amazing stories and i know they're true since i've cybered with her several times in the past.

Wow that sounds so amazing, was he happy with the setup!!

Please do contact me when you can tell me more!!

 

[ticketyboo]

nice

but what exactly does this mean - sorry

 

[dude50]

I think that it is a great way for a man to give his ladythe upper hand and also get your drive in third gear. I've wanted to try this too I think it would be great. I think that this is something that you would have to keep feelings out of and make it nothing but sex....

 

[SamFrench]

she does a lot of things that make it even hotter than just her fucking other guys. on days she's meeting her lovers, he has to pick out her lingerie and clothes, trim her pussy hair, and generally get her ready for some other guy to fuck her. he's not allowed to do anything sexual. then they meet him in a bar where he's allowed to watch them make out a little in public. she makes sure he sees her lover grabbing her ass and tits discreetly. he then goes home and waits for her to return after several hours. he smells her lover on her while he licks her body and gets ready to fuck her well-stretched pussy. sometimes her lover cums on her tits and he has to lick the dried cream off her. she'll also complain that her pussy is so stretched out by her lover's cock that she has a hard time feeling him inside her. my buddy loves all this. he's not allowed to watch her with her lovers either. he's only seen her once with another guy. she gets so carried away with her studs that she doesn't want him to see her getting so thoroughly fucked. expand on all that tenfold, and you know how hot my buddy's wife is. and yes, i've experienced firsthand online how hot. and i haven't even told you about her taste for pussy or black cock.

 

[scarface132]

Be careful what you wish for Wayne1979, you just might get it. A true cuckold liek Samfrench alluded to earlier has no control of the situation whatsover. If you truly understand the risks and it is still sexy for you, then by all means go for it slowly leading up to it bit by bit with your wife, until it is more of a mutual decision hopefully, but make sure it's what you want.

Good luck.

 

[lindahotstuff]

My hubby loves lying in bed next to me as a new man fucks me senseless. I will kiss him and he can suck my tits and I play with his cock but only our new friend gets inside me. IT is so erotic for us both and he loves asking me to described what the new man is like, how he feels inside me, and I love to say, in great detail, what this guy is doing to me. Sometimes if am away from home I will get laid but I always tell my man about it when I get home, in detail of course about how I got picked up, and what we did to each other. Having a cuckold relationship is fun or us both.

 

[wayne1979]

Be careful what you wish for Wayne1979, you just might get it. A true cuckold liek Samfrench alluded to earlier has no control of the situation whatsover. If you truly understand the risks and it is still sexy for you, then by all means go for it slowly leading up to it bit by bit with your wife, until it is more of a mutual decision hopefully, but make sure it's what you want.

Good luck.

I can see what you're saying, the idea of relinquishing control I like! But if by the risks you mean the emotional side I can see how that might create issues.

My original plan would be to talk things through with my wife and then we would take things a step at a time trying to act out my story and stop if emotions got in the way!

Would that work or would we both have to know that we were emotinally strong enough beforehand.

 

[dude50]

i think from my experiencethat you better be sure that you trust each other enough to not feel or get jelious. My wife and I had and experience that made the other person start to feel emotionally ivolved. It is a big step.

 

[SamFrench]

all good comments. i can only agree. it's best to have a safe word that if you use it, your wife knows to stop since you're no longer having fun. it's easy for one to get carried away with the situation and exceed the other's comfort zone. i've seen plenty of "casualties" of the racier side of open relationships. but if it works like it does for my friends, more power to you.

 

[lindahotstuff]

I completely agree with the last 2 posts - no one should undertake any sexual activity involving another person unless 1. they are in a strong relationship with their partner 2. there is no desire to get emotionally involved with someone else 3. either person is not completely committed to just havinga good time. Breach those princples and you risk breaking your relationship apart. Talk about it for weeks/months before taking the step.

 

[SamFrench]

sorry, huh? made the mistake of reading your signature line and forgot anything intelligent i was gonna post.

 

[ReadyOne]

Defination of a Bull

I've been under the delusion that true cuckolding is when a man (aka Bull) takes a female away from her mate, in such a way that the mate is involved and (generally sexually) humiliated in the process.

Keys include the Bull being much more "alpha" than the mate and the female switching primary allegiance to the Bull. It is not unusual for the Bull to dominate the female in the traditional meaning of D/s, and in turn direct/encourage her to dominate her mate.

Bulls who choose to live that lifestyle can end up with stables of females. It's a way to demonstrate his alpha position not just by fucking married/attached females but by taking possession of them. The alpha-ness is so strong that the female can't help but switch to him, which proves his standing.

Some mates rebel against the Bull, so when the Bull makes him accept his inferiority (as validated by the female) it's another demonstration that the Bull is alpha. If the mate rebels by divorcing the female, as long as the female stays with the Bull, it's just a sign of the Bull's victory.

Sometimes there is a long running triad where both female and Bull benefit from having the mate subservient, e.g. he supports them or does the housework. An ultimate coup is for the mate to raise the Bull's child as his own with full acknowledgment he is not the father.

It's not unheard of for the female to eventually abandon (divorces) her mate for the Bull, especially if the Bull is concentrating on her or isn't trying to keep a stable. Marrying the Bull is another demonstration of the Bull's superiority.

And occasionally she and/or the Bull are tired of having the mate involved, or he becomes so degraded in the female's eye, that the mate is kicked out (divorced). The Bull scores another victory, but may then leave the female.

The female may also fight for the Bull with other females in the stable, jocking around to leave the alpha female of the group in full (or primary) possession of the Bull. This is part of the attracting that the Bull does, and the females fighting validate him as a Bull.

Indeed the Bull may make her his primary female, but he will always be looking for better females who will replace the primary as the new alpha female of the stable. That's the nature of a true Bull.

 

[ReadyOne]

Female Bulls/Cuokolds

I'm not sure exactly what an analogous situation for a cuckolded female might be; she would have to become submissive to her mate with someone taking the Bull's position in causing the fall.

Have you ever heard of a person who goes around having a D/s sexual relationship with the male of a couple, taking him away from the female, and forcing her to watch/submit as the male shows his new allegiance to that person?

What was that person called? (Is it in a Jackie Collins novel? )

How much did the social pecking order (alphas on top) have to do with things?

Now assume a female Bull takes a man away from his female mate. Look at extreme cuckolding where the Bull's child is raised by the female mate who has no genetic material in the child.

What you have is the Bull becoming pregnant from the man then immediately giving the child to the female mate of the man she "stole".

In a tradition extreme cuckolding situation, the cuckolded male knows the child he's raising isn't his, but outside of the Bull and the mother, no one else has to know. The cuckold "silently" substitutes his child for one the cuckolded appeared to have, but actually didn't.

Back to the female Bull. Making a substitution for the mother of a child can't be done quietly (unless the three live in the middle of nowhere for nine+ months). Everyone in the community would know the child is adopted.

I suppose you could have a male Bull who takes the male mate away from the female. But since it's a male Bull-male mate primary relationship, there won't be any child to be cuckolded onto the female.

And if the male Bull got the female pregnant, then the Bull would be cuckolding his male mate primary, which makes it traditional cuckolding with the twist that Bull is an alpha among homosexual males.

So how do you set up a cuckolding where it isn't a male Bull taking a female away from a male?

 

[ReadyOne]

Psychology

Some mates seem to want the domination of the Bull. The psychology is interesting, and worth discussing.

Perhaps it's just another side of being a submissive who likes being humiliated?


In many ways, cuckolding is just the high school dating game of looking for the best deal, like a girl breaking a date for an athlete, or a geek cutting in on a dance.

If a girl goes out with her boyfriend and ends up making out with someone else with her boyfriend watching, then it's a scandal very close to cuckolding.

The added dimension of cuckolding is the Bull's ongoing control of and direct interference in an existing sexual relationship with the other male's knowledge.

If they don't break up and the same guy gets her to make out again in view of her boyfriend, then I've got to say it's "cuckolding" with some some of adjective (mild? beginning? weak?) in front of the word.

If it isn't cuckolding, what more would it take?


Where most cuckolding fantasies go, the mate is present when the female shows her sexual preference of the Bull, and generally unable to do anything about it, being either blackmailed or physically restrained. But it's not truly cuckolding because the Bull comes when invited and goes on demand. The person having/living the fantasy is ultimately in control.

Fantasy cuckolding is like fantasy "rape" -- it can't truly be rape when it's consensual, and it can't truly be cuckolding when it's consensual, because by definition the victim does NOT consent.

(Please don't go into the mock rape vs. real rape. The same arguments will apply to both cuckolding and rape no matter which side you take.)

So fantasy cuckolding is never more than a controlled simulation for the benefit (first) of the person fantasying.

 

[iamdick100]

Our Limits

We have a friend who has given my wife a FULL body massage. He has rubbed every inch of her. Her has rubbed and kissed her tits for several minutes. He has continued to rub her her until her legs have spresd apart for the ultimate massage. He has fingered her until she has had some of the biggest orgasms of her life. I have watched it all. It has been the most exciting times of our life's. No intercourse just real exciting touching.

 

[lindahotstuff]

Wow! This is getting complicated. But interesting, and it made us think. Over the weekend we tried out a variation of this. We got a hotel room, I stripped hubby off and sat him on a chair facing the bed, handcuffing him to the legs of the chair. I went down to the bar wearing my sexy black dress and came back an hour later with a guy I had picked up. Now I let him play 'the bull' even though I am always really in charge. I had primed my bull that he was going to fuck me in front of my husband. The guy almost ripped my dress off and with a very large cock proceeded to rub it against my boobs, my bum, my pussy, all the while saying to hubby how he was going to fuck me senseless in front of him. The guy pushed me onto the bed and fucked me in all my holes, all the while taunting poor hubby whose cock was ready to explode, but he couldn't touch himself to make himself blow. Just as my new friend was about to fill me with his juice he pulled out and sent it spurting all over my hubby's cock. I went down on hubby and licked it off, hubby came in a few seconds in my mouth and both guys juices mingled in my throat. By the time I had licked it all up, my stud was fucking me doggie style again, this time filling my cunt with his sticky manjuice.